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Mans Search for Meaning [Discussion 1 of 3] Quarterly Non-Fiction || Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl
Welcome to our first discussion of Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl. The Marginalia post is here. You can find the Schedule here. This week, we will discuss the beginning of the book through the paragraph ending “Outside at the pole on the camp gate a white flag floated on the wind.” (This is approximately 60 pages, depending on which edition you are reading. My e-book has it at p. 62 while my hardback has it at p. 58.)
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A summary of this week's section is below, with links embedded for more information if you're interested! Discussion questions are included in the comments, and you can also add your own as desired.
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FOREWORD: Harold S. Kushner, a rabbi emeritus and author of When Bad Things Happen to Good People, sets the themes for this book. We will learn Frankl’s philosophy that life is not a quest for power or pleasure but for meaningand that while we cannot control what happens to us, we can control how we respond to it.
PREFACE TO THE 1992 EDITION: Frankl draws two lessons from the huge success of his best-selling book. First, since so many readers crave information about the topic of searching for meaning, we must be in a time of misery. Second, since the book was intended to be published anonymously, it shows that success must be allowed to happen rather than being pursued and chased. Frankl also explains why he did not escape when the Nazis were preparing to occupy Austria. He actually has a visa and an appointment at the American Embassy, but he worried about whether he should remain home to help his parents through what was coming. Unable to make a decision, he hoped for a sign from Heaven and received it when his father showed him a fragment of the Ten Commandments he had salvaged from a destroyed synagogue. It was the commandment to honor your parents. And so he did.
I - EXPERIENCES IN A CONCENTRATION CAMP: Frankl presents his experiences in a concentration camp not to teach a history lesson but to examine the question: How was everyday life in a concentration camp reflected in the mind of the average prisoner? Frankl examines the three psychological phases all prisoners moved through.
First, upon arrival in the camps, they were in shock. They had to come to the realization that they were surrendering every single aspect of their former lives. They had to make it past the "delusion of reprieve” in which they clung to faint hope that they might somehow not have it quite so bad as it seemed. The brutality of the events that occurred as they were processed into the camp quickly moved the prisoners from shock to a kind of curiosity, almost a detached humor at times, as they came to terms with their new reality.
Second, as they became entrenched in camp life, the prisoners developed a complete apathy to the horrors around them. This was a defense mechanism that helped prisoners endure the unpredictable and capricious cruelty that defined and threatened their existence in the camps. Their apathetic state focused the prisoners solely on their own survival and the survival of the friends around them. The prisoners developed an obsession with discussing food since their rations were so insubstantial as to be almost impossible to sustain life. They lost all sex drive and their emotions were blunted. Cultural expression was mostly in “hibernation”, with the exception of politics and religion. Military and political matters were debated passionately and rumors about the war spread wildly. Prisoners often became deeply religious, holding informal services and prayer sessions in corners wherever they could. Physically robust prisoners seemed to survive less easily than those who were not as outwardly strong but had a rich inner life to rely on. This inner life could take the form of imagining conversations with a loved one, reliving the minutiae of a normal daily life, appreciating a moment of natural beauty, or even engaging in the performance of art and music or indulging one's sense of humor. Joy and despair turned out to be relative to one’s situation, and while suffering suffused daily life, small moments of luck or pleasantness could bring happiness even amidst the misery. The apathy that caused the prisoners to focus on mere survival led the men to work for the preservation of their own friends and countrymen over others. This was a natural result of living in a situation where even small changes could be life-or-death. Many prisoners preferred not to make decisions if possible, allowing things to be left up to fate instead. It was hard to know which choices were good or bad when the prisoners were being toyed with constantly. One of the biggest decisions, which always had to be made in mere minutes, was the choice of whether to take a chance at escape if it presented itself. Frankl twice had this choice: the first time, he decided to stay and work on saving the life of a countryman of his, while the second attempt was interrupted by the arrival of the Red Cross.