r/brum • u/Dark-Star-82 • 8h ago
44yrs old. Too old to go out gay clubbing solo? Halloween question.
Hi all. I live in cov and used to love going out to Brum gay scene for event nights like Halloween but due to looking after a disabled relative plus a health issue I had re nerve pain issues I stopped going out a decade ago and my friends who I still speak to here and there on Facebook all moved away from cov so I've ended up billy no mates as far as going out is concerned.
I spent the last year getting back into shape and dropped near 20kg after walking 800 miles over 6 months and frankly that plus stopping smoking 18 months ago I'm in better shape than I've been since I was in my early 20s and part of me wants to go out to a night club in Halloween finest fancy dress but another more insecure part says 44 is too old and I should stay home and watch countdown till death arrives and plus I know no one.
I get it's a lack of confidence thing. Just wondering what your thoughts are. Was thinking of nightingales.



