r/cockatiel • • Jan 31 '26

Other New Rule for r/cockatiel

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Hello everyone! I’m announcing a new rule for the subreddit.

It comes as no surprise that many people post injured or bleeding birds as well as feces to ensure the health of their birds or questions.

While these posts are allowed, they are inappropriate to not mark as NSFW. Not everyone is comfortable seeing this sort of content.

So for the comfort of everyone in the subreddit. PLEASE, mark these posts as NSFW.

There will be new tags/flairs for posts like these as well.

From this day forward, those who do not mark these posts as NSFW will receive a warning. Any subsequent posts that are not marked or tagged appropriately may be banned temporarily, and any further posts will result in a permanent ban.

Please be respectful of others, and make sure to review the rules before posting content that may violate the rules of the subreddit.

Thank you so much for all the lovely content and being overall a beautiful community. 💖


r/cockatiel • • Dec 14 '21

Frequently Posted (+ Answers)

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We have been getting a lot more repetitive posts in our sub so I wanted to put this information together in the hopes of reducing the amount of questions that are frequently asked. In turn, hopefully this will make our community a little more light hearted :)

*I want to preface this by saying I am not a vet or anything just someone who really loves my cockatiel and learning everything I can to ensure he has the best life possible. I think the best thing you can do for your birdie is lots of research before anything happens (especially in the case of illness). They are fragile so having the right knowledge and tools at your disposal can quite literally be the difference between life and death.

Lets begin!

Is my bird sick?

Common signs of a sick bird include:

  • Tail bobbing, sitting at the bottom of the cage, inability to stand on a perch (loss of balance)
  • Sneezing, clicking respiration (cough), or any discharge coming from the eyes or nostrils.
  • Eyes dull or sunken.
  • Change in vocals (can be hormonal but after puberty could be cause for concern)
  • Change in appetite (loss or increase of food or water)
  • Change in droppings (color, consistency, or frequency - this could be due to diet like eating more fruits and vegetables but it should not last more than a day or two after)
  • Constantly fluffed (happens for a number of reasons like keeping warm, preening, sleeping but they should not always be like this)
  • Feather loss (not related to a regular molt that happens 1-2x per year)
  • Trembling (can mean they are cold, stressed, or sick)
  • Drooping wings

If you notice any of these signs or a combination of them its crucial to get your bird to a vet (preferably an avian one) as soon as possible. No one on the internet is able to diagnose your bird or give it the treatment it needs.

Note: Some of these symptoms like change in droppings, being fluffed up, and feather loss can be normal but if it is persistent the best thing to do is ere on the side of caution and get them checked out.

Is my cockatiel male or female?

Color Patterns: Baby cockatiels that have not gone through their first adult molt (usually between 6-12 months) will typically have female colorations regardless of gender. After their first molt, males tend to get more vivid colors, lose the stripes on the underside of their tail and spots on the wings, The opposite is true for females and their color changes minimally after their first molt.

Different mutations make it more difficult to tell the difference between males and females even after their adult molt.

Behaviors: Males tend to be more vocal (mimicking sounds and singing), heart wings (see example), more likely to "show off" (strutting, hopping, tapping on surfaces), and attempting to mate with objects. Females are often less vocal (although some are) and when wanting to mate will tilt her head, flatten her back, and rock back and forth while chirping softly.

All of the above are good indicators if you have a male or female HOWEVER the only true way to know is if you get a DNA test or if your cockatiel lays an egg. People have noted that their DNA sexed female has shown male behaviors or colors and vise versa. No one can tell you for sure by looking at it!

What is this noise my cockatiel is making?

Some common cockatiel noises and what they mean:

Contact Call: Cockatiels like to keep track of their flock members so when you leave the room you may notice your cockatiel yell for you with a loud chirp or series of chirps. Even if you aren't bonded to your bird they may still do this. Put them at ease by "answering" them from where you are. I like to whistle back the same "contact call" so they know that I will be right back.

Contact Call Example

Attention Scream: Often a loud high pitched screech that is meant to get your attention. They can do this when they are scared, lonely, bored, or even to alert you of something (like a potential predator). Excessive screaming means you might need to change something in their environment. A common cause of this is hormones and boredom, both of which can be decreased by adding more enrichment to their environment with foraging, toys, and training.

Attention Scream Example

Whistling//Mimicking/Chattering: Usually (but not always) done by males and often means they are happy and connecting with you as part of their flock. They may mimic you, the radio, the tv, or even just sounds that they hear outside or inside the house. A lot of the time cockatiels learn these sounds through repetition. Search cockatiel training songs if you don't want to be whistling a song all the time and with time they may pick up on the tunes.

Whistling Example

Beak Grinding: They do this when they are happy and content. Usually it is accompanied by being fluffed up and being sleepy. The cheeks will fluff up as well and the cockatiel will look very relaxed. This is a great sign that your cockatiel is comfortable in their environment.

Beak Grinding Example

Hissing: Like other animals cockatiels do this when they are angry or threatened. This is often a warning to back off and can be accompanied by biting if the behavior is not stopped. If your cockatiel is hissing at you its best to leave them alone for a bit - just like us, our birds have boundaries we should respect!

Hissing Example

Baby Noises: These sound a bit like static and usually do this if they want something (often food, water, or even just attention). This is completely normal for young cockatiels and after a few months will go away. Mine went away at 4 months but this can vary!

Baby Noises Example

What is this behavior?

These are some behaviors that are normal with cockatiels that I noticed are commonly asked about here:

Mating: This is probably the most common one. Males and females display different mating behaviors.

Males will typically rub their cloaca (this is the opening underneath the base of the tail for a birds digestive, urinary, and reproductive tracts) on an object like a toy, your foot or hand, a pillow, ect or a bonded female. Male Mating Behavior

Females will droop their wings and raise their rump while swaying and chirping quietly. You may notice your female also rubbing its back on their toys to try and stimulate themselves. Female Mating Behavior

In addition to these mating behaviors, take note if your bird is territorial, screaming, plucking itself, or aggressive. These could all be signs that your bird is sexually frustrated.

This handout I received from my vet gives some behavioral modification you can make to try and reduce these.

Clearing Crop: Looks a lot like yawning but usually they will do it consistently over a short period of time. Their crop is located below their beak in the neck area. The crop stores food before it is sent to their stomach and acts as a "reserve" so they are able to eat more in one feeding. When they clear the crop they are moving that food to the next stage of digestion. Cockatiel Clearing Crop

How do I tame my cockatiel?

If your bird is brand new to your home, the best thing to do for a day or two is let them soak in their new envionrment. This can be a stressful time for them so its important to let them learn that their new home is a safe space. Talking in a quiet voice and even whistling around them is the best thing to do during this transitiion period. It can be tempting but don't try and pick them up or pet them right away. They may be fearful of hands and scaring them could further your progress of taming them. Whether they are a young cockatiel or an older adult that was rescued or rehomed, taming them will take patience and time. How long can vary on a lot of different factors but it's important not to rush it. Read the links below to get more information on how to achieve this:

Taming step-by-step

I am thinking of getting a cockatiel and would love some tips!

There is really too much to cover in one post so I will address the most common tips for new owners and provide some links that go into detail about all things cockatiel.

Vet Access: This should be the most important thing to consider. Making note of an avian vet that is close by is crucial. Be extra prepared and make note of the closest emergency vet as well that you can go to outside of your regular vets hours. If you do not have one close by or you do not have the money to pay for one, please reconsider getting a bird. It is disheartening to see very obviously sick bird where the owner has no access or money to go to a vet.

Basic Needs: Before purchasing supplies for your bird, do as much research as you can regarding cage size, toys, and food.

Health: Take note of the signs of a sick bird and when to take them to a vet. In addition, cockatiels are sensitive to strong smells, gasses, drafts, and smoke. This also requires some research as there are common household items that can poison and kill your bird (for example teflon pans and some plants you may have lying around).

Links:

Cockatiel Cottage

VCA - Cockatiel Diet

Safe and Toxic Foods

Proper Caging

Introducing New Food to Picky Birds

Training

Taming, potty training, and more

I hope this helps some people learn more about their cockatiels! Of course this is not exhaustive and there is always more information to be learned. Please let me know if I should add anything or if I got any information wrong :)


r/cockatiel • • 11h ago

Loss & Mourning An Ofrenda to my Buddy

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Just wanted to share this. I really hope he comes to visit tonight. I miss you Mango!

He was always a bit of a glutton and got away with all the theft for ten years.


r/cockatiel • • 9h ago

Cuteness Overload Babies munch

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r/cockatiel • • 6h ago

Loss & Mourning My Baby

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My sweet Baby passed away last night. She has been my best friend, my feathered daughter, my comforter, my headache and my heart. I don't know what to do now that she's gone other than tell myself I'm gonna be okay for her. Please love on your birds for me. Remember to cherish every moment because one day they will be gone and the hole they leave is crushing. I've been up all night crying and will try to rest now. I may leave this sub due to my grief. I'm not sure. I still have one bird and he's been my light in this darkness. Stay safe and I hope you all have a better day than me.

In honor of my sweet bird who has been my constant companion for several years here's a poem I wrote for her:

Title: My Baby

Poem:

My darling.

My dove.

You were sent from above.

My heart.

My soul.

With you, I was whole.

My girl.

My heart.

This is where we part.

My breath.

My star.

I beg you to not go far.

My sweetheart.

My little lady.

My tiny, feathered Baby.

Until we meet again, my sweet winged daughter. Fly high, Baby. Fly high.


r/cockatiel • • 13h ago

Funny Maximum effort; minimum brain cell 🫡

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355 Upvotes

r/cockatiel • • 3h ago

Success Story happy birthday pika!

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48 Upvotes

it’s been a year since this crazy chicken flew into my balcony and decided to move in!!! i still don’t know pikas age but it feel appropriate to mark this day as the birthday!

love you pika! even tho i was scared of you to begin with 🤣


r/cockatiel • • 9h ago

Health/Nutrition Only eats millet

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Hey guys! I brought my pretty girl home in September, and she’s now approximately 8 months old.

I’ve noticed a problem: she ONLY eats millet. Like, literally nothing but millet.

I’ve tried offering her different kinds of food, including other seeds, pellets, and fruits, but she doesn’t seem interested in any of them.

I’ve done some research and tried a few methods, like pretending to eat those foods in front of her to encourage her to try them. I even tried withholding millet for two days, hoping she’d eventually eat something else. But she ended up not eating anything at all, and her poop became almost entirely watery. I got so worried that she might starve to death that I had to give her millet again.

So I’m wondering, what should I do at this point? I’ve heard that a millet-only diet can lead to nutritional deficiencies, but she just refuses to eat anything else.
Has anyone dealt with a similar situation? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!


r/cockatiel • • 17h ago

Loss & Mourning my mom just bought a new cockatiel a day after losing our other one.

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As the title reads, my mom accidentally let out our rescue cockatiel, its almost winter and we've been searching for him since he escaped, i'm really scared because overnight it's getting close to 40*F. today, i called my mom today and to my surprise there was a different cockatiel in his cage. i'm so sad it feels like she's given up on our buddy already and she said she just needed a bird but like cmon!!!! our bird is still out there somewhere :(


r/cockatiel • • 11h ago

Funny occa doesnt like being called fat!

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do anything but dont ever call Occa a fat boy!😡

jokes aside i love this chicken so much, he means the world to me, i dumped an ex of five years because he wished death on Occa, men r so disgusting sometimes honestly, thought i would share this funny video of Occa getting mad over being called fat boy, have a lovely day yall💕 & pls kiss ur chickens for me!💕☺️


r/cockatiel • • 15h ago

Funny Our little bedtime escapee

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If Sundance is gonna be a lil stinker (flew out of my husband's hand while he was taking the birds up to bed, landed in the dining room, started yelling like it was our fault), she gets to be meme'd


r/cockatiel • • 2h ago

Funny Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

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r/cockatiel • • 7h ago

Cuteness Overload Always grumpy

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r/cockatiel • • 17h ago

Loss & Mourning Happy day of the departed

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Today we welcome back those animals we have lost back into our home on this special day. Welcome back cupcake.❤️ Who are you welcoming back to your home today?


r/cockatiel • • 12h ago

Cuteness Overload The "I'm in a happy mood and I want to play" whistle of Sir Chirps-Alot

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r/cockatiel • • 34m ago

Cuteness Overload The witch is in 🎃

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r/cockatiel • • 14h ago

Cuteness Overload Rainbow time duh

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🌈🦜 IT’S TIME FOR THE DAILY DOSE OF RAINBOWS! 🌈✨
Because apparently, my feathered little weirdos cannot go ONE SINGLE DAY without their rainbow fix. 😂🌈 The birds have needs, people!! Who am I to deny them their daily serving of ✨ COLORFUL CHAOS ✨
Just keeping the flock happy, fabulous, and sufficiently ✨sparkly✨.
🐦💖 I’ve also recently uploaded MORE videos featuring my feathered babies, so be sure to check them out! You know these little celebrities deserve their screen time. Rainbow time is NON-NEGOTIABLE in this household.


r/cockatiel • • 20h ago

Troublemaker Saw the world's feistiest tiel earlier

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He was all over the place fighting with his coconut and the green ball in the background


r/cockatiel • • 3h ago

Advice My 6 year old birdie died this morning seemingly out of nowhere. She was fine last night. Today, I woke up to her wheezing. When she suddenly fell, I took her out of her cage to try to stimulate her to breathe and she died on my hand. What could've been the possible reason? Please, I need answ

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r/cockatiel • • 21h ago

Troublemaker ANYTHING but his toys

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The birbs mind is a tricky one… He has plenty of forging toys in his cage but he takes no interest, the only interest he has is my phone case, Apple Pencil, my shirt, and now buttons!


r/cockatiel • • 6h ago

Advice Is there any way to leave a cockatiel unattended for an extended period of time? How do you manage having a normal life with a pet cockatiel at all?

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My wife decided to adopt a cockatiel from a family member that was abandoning it a few years ago and I feel like our lives revolve around this bird ever since and not in a good way. We don't have anyone that can watch it so we can't be away from the house for more than 24 hours at the absolute most. We have not been on a real vacation in 3 years now.

I've found a place that's like 30 minutes away that specializes in boarding birds but the bird is obsessed with my wife (doesn't even really like me even though it seems me every single day) so I don't know how happy it will be spending a week at the boarding place. He screams incessantly if my wife is not in the room with him.

I can't imagine continuing to do this for the next 20 years. I'm sure I will get crucified by cockatiel lovers but I wish I could convince her to rehome the poor guy to someone who has an aviary or something.


r/cockatiel • • 16h ago

Cuteness Overload Trapped!

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I need to shower, but how do I disturb this? Sleepy Sage!


r/cockatiel • • 14h ago

Other Which mutation(s) are they?

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I'm just curious. They're my new rescues and are both allegedly three years old. Left is male, right is female. Would the one on the right be considered a pearl?


r/cockatiel • • 19h ago

Funny Um. Is this a normal resting position? 😅

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I always thought they tucked their face into their backs lmao


r/cockatiel • • 23h ago

Funny Tribble loves wiggle fingers

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As you can see. He really loves wiggle fingers 🤌