Trying to gather what the ānormā is here for this particular situationā¦
Itās been a little exhausting figuring things out/planning, but starting to get a lay of the land. I have a toddler and we are currently doing 2 days a week of daycare at The Goddard School.
We have been thinking that we will likely move to Connecticut once our child is ready to start school. Because our child has a late birthday and there is a differing cut-off date between NYC and CT for starting school, she would start Kinder at 4 in NYC public or start Kinder at 5 in CT public.
On top of my child having a late birthday, she was also born early⦠and in daycare, Iāve already noticed some developmental delays compared to her peers (though are actually in line with her āadjusted ageā). All that aside, I donāt love that she would have to start at 4 if we did public in NYC because I feel like on top of being a late birthday with her being born early, she might be really behind.
I started getting the lay of the land for CT if we make that move. Aside from also having a different cut-off birthday deadline, it also seems like a lot of public schools donāt have guaranteed Pre-K like NYC does and that slots are limited and many people donāt get a slot. Then, I thought okay⦠so then, we just do Pre-K at a private preschool in CT before public Kinder if we donāt get a slot, but then got into looking at that, and it seems like even slots at those are also limited, but you have a better chance of getting in if you do 3K there. (Wasnāt planning on moving to CT that soon.)
I have a few questions here. For those who opt to go the private school route in NYC (which is similar to CT in that it also has a Sep birthday cut-off for starting school and also usually starts at Kinder, not Pre-K) or for those who do make the move from NYC to a suburb that has a different deadline where it affects what year your kid starts school, how did you handle Pre-K?
Also, for those who do private Kinder in NYC, do you all send your kid to a separate full-time Pre-K program prior? Is a part-time Pre-K program sufficient enough to prepare them for full time Kinder or is full-time really a āmustā? Is there anyone who ever sends their kids straight to Kinder without ever doing any Pre-K?