r/DeepThoughts • • 1d ago

I accidentally altered my perception of time passing

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About 3 years ago, i was waiting to finally leave a psychiatric hospital. i felt like it'd never happen. then i accidentally did something which i'm sure exists but don't know what to call. closest i can think of is some sort of retrospective thought with nonresistance to the present.

i doubt it'll affect anyone else but me, but just in case it does, here's a content warning because i would hate if it actually did against someone's will. i'll now give an example of how i did can explain it easiest.

you clock in to work. you know how long it's gonna be. now, think about the concrete moment you know is coming of you walking out to your car. think about how you'll be remembering this moment of thought you had. about how you'll be looking back on the moment where you imagined yourself looking back. that moment is coming. it will arrive regardless of your attitude towards it. now, with complete, total nonresistance to the present, live and work as it comes to you. then, when the moment of you walking to your car arrives, look back on the moment where you thought about you being where you are now.

this makes days or even longer periods seem to go into a blur for me. i am otherwise mentally healthy now, yet whenever this happens it always makes me conceptualize the elapsed time in between the two points of me thinking about the retrospective and the retrospective itself feel greatly condensed.

does anyone else feel this? does anyone else have a similar feeling? any ideas on why this happens for me but seemingly no one else?


r/DeepThoughts • • 1h ago

Laughter Is Not Just Laughter

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Sometimes, Laughter Is More Than Just Laughter

Have you ever noticed how you can exchange a glance with a close friend in the middle of a serious situation and suddenly struggle to keep a straight face?

Nothing particularly funny has happened in that moment, yet somehow, you both know what's going on in each other's minds.

I think laughter is more than just a reaction to something funny. It's contagious, but it's also about familiarity, comfort, welcoming someone, and bonding with people.

Sometimes, a smile or a little laughter can make an unfamiliar setting feel less awkward. It can make a conversation feel warmer and help people feel more comfortable around one another.

And with people we already know, laughter can come from shared memories, situations we can relate to, or things we understand without needing to explain them in words.

Sometimes, someone describes a situation, and we imagine it so clearly that we start laughing. Or perhaps it reminds us of something we've experienced ourselves.

And sometimes, it's simply about feeling comfortable enough with someone that we don't have to worry about how we look or whether they'll judge us for our reaction.

We can be a little ridiculous, laugh at the most unexpected things, or find humour in a moment that nobody else seems to understand.

Perhaps that's why the same joke can feel ordinary with one person and hilarious with another.

Because sometimes, laughter isn't just about what's funny. It's also about the comfort we share with the people we're laughing with.

Some people don't just make us laugh.

They make us feel safe enough to laugh without holding back.


r/DeepThoughts • • 1h ago

Our memories are not as reliable as we believe...

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I was talking with my younger sister about a family event we both attended years ago, and we remembered the same afternoon in completely different ways. she remembered everyone laughing, while i remembered feeling awkward and wanting to leave early. neither of us was trying to lie, and that was what made the conversation interesting. it got me thinking about how much our memories are shaped by the person we are when we look back at them. maybe the past isn't something we simply replay in our minds, but something we keep rebuilding with whatever we understand today. the experiences themselves happened, but the meaning we attach to them can change over time. that's a strange thought because so much of our identity depends on the stories we tell ourselves about our lives. if even our most familiar memories can shift, it becomes harder to be completely certain about who we used to be. maybe accepting that uncertainty is healthier than trying to prove our version of every event is the only correct one.


r/DeepThoughts • • 1h ago

Your brain has to protect you from itself

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I've been thinking about negative thoughts lately and the whole idea that "you are not your thoughts." And there's something about that concept that I find genuinely bizarre. Assuming that consciousness is entirely a product of the physical brain, then everything that makes me me comes from my brain. My thoughts, emotions, reasoning, self-awareness, all of it.

When my brain produces a negative thought, and I recognize that the thought might be irrational or distorted, it's the very same brain that produced the thought that's now recognizing it as unreliable.

There's no separate "me" outside my brain evaluating these thoughts. It's my brain evaluating itself. And even as I'm writing this post, it's my brain generating these words, reflecting on its own processes and questioning its own reliability.

We're told to observe our thoughts, question them, and not automatically identify with them. But the observer and the thoughts being observed are ultimately products of the same brain. I just find that surreal to think about.


r/DeepThoughts • • 15h ago

It’s saddening to think that people can have the most vivid thoughts and visions with no artistic capability to express them, it makes me think what we could be missing or never even experience.

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What are your thoughts on this?


r/DeepThoughts • • 23h ago

I’ve realised I’m ever so grateful to be alive at a time the internet exists.

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Even though the Internet is a mean place, we are all human beings on here (aside from the bots) that have lived a life, and even if people can be mean, they’re actually kind and understanding deep down, and their meanness isn’t truly real. I bet the meanies are just big babies who want to be loved too.

Love you all, so much in this strange little world of the internet.

Takes one understanding kind person to put my perspective back into place. And then it follows on, seeping like nectar inbetween fruits, onto the next seed ready to be planted and grow fruitful, by sharing the kindness you receive onto the next.

Love you guys and thank you for being part of my life 🫂🥰

I’m grateful for the time and era I live in. And I’m grateful for the internet.


r/DeepThoughts • • 19h ago

Ironically, the notion of “objective morality” leads exactly to more disagreement, not less

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People are terrified of moral anti-realism and moral relativism, because they think these views will make it so we never progress morally, as everyone will just say they have their own morality and be content with that. They think they wouldn’t be able to reason with anyone about what’s or wrong.

Ironically, the opposite is true. If one believes they cannot change their moral values because they’re absolute, then there is no way forward.

People are different and will always be different. Even if everyone thinks morally is objective, and even agree on its source, they will never agree on their understanding of what’s right and what’s wrong.

People always like to use the most extreme examples to either scare others into admitting morality is objective, or to show that people agree on morality.

But like almost everything in life, it’s a spectrum. The less extreme the example, the more varying opinions will exist on it.

On the other hand, if we accept that morality is a system we create to co-exist peacefully, essentially a negotiation, then we do have a path forward. We can talk about why something would or wouldn’t work for people, and hopefully be able to understand one another better.

It’s not a silver bullet of course, and nothing will ever be perfect. But I think that acceptance and understanding gets us to a much better place than holding on to objective morality.


r/DeepThoughts • • 7h ago

On the prescience of guys like Sagan, Orwell and Socrates

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There are those and I count myself among them, that achieve a level of understanding so as to have foresight into the future.

These people are never listened to by the powerless many, who must cling to hope.

Never understood by the powerful few who none the less,

Never fail to profit from the example

Without understanding causes, one can only rationalize after action, doesn’t sound like free will to me.

This is how history and behavior repeat, it’s an axiom of awareness and causality, and 99% of you, will have no idea what I’m talking about, because the fundamental truths may as well be alien to modern human understanding.

We are as a whole(all of humanity) and for thousands of years progressively more Individualistic Weberian Emotivists, ruled by fear and greed

Cultivating the self awareness of a potato.

The true wisdom of the Ancient Athenians, left out of the first and I hope not last Renaissance, is the objectively, deterministically true meaning of Eudaimonia.

And I think we know enough about biology to develop a teleology, to know ourselves, our biological legacy, what is life, what is man? What is awareness?

From first principles;

All matter is subject to the laws of entropy

life is matter that by the accident of the negentropic Krebs cycle, has been eternally accumulating negentropy via interaction/experience and reproduction/life cycle.

Man, as all species, is a tendril of life’s accumulation over time, the differences and similarities between species and individuals alike, are owed in particular to that which they are accumulations of, that is to say interaction/experience.

Awareness and the memories it produces are products of the nervous system more broadly, which life evolved as a causal substrate between microscopic cell structures/systems and macroscopic physical reality.

The prefrontal cortex is Life’s greatest creation, I imagine it took millions of years of experience, deducing facts about our environment through reason, imagination and abstraction.

The Orwel’s and Sagan’s and Socrates are thus the exemplars of our finest human potential and reminders of how low the bar has sunk, even as we are all capable of similar heights when possessed of understanding, grounded in reality.


r/DeepThoughts • • 9h ago

My replacement for the devil and the angel on your shoulders

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I was thinking about this today, and I don't have an angel or a devil on my shoulder. Angels and devils are a little outside of my psychological framework and who honestly would be tempted by demons or angels equally in this day and age?

No, what I do have is Superman on one shoulder and Magneto on the other.

Superman is a symbol of hope and kindness. He shows the good in all humanity and believes in our better natures. No matter how many times he gets burned, he still tries to believe that Lex will give into his better nature and work on saving humanity.

Magneto is the counterpoint, imo. He has lived through the worst humanity has ever been, seen his whole family slaughtered because of who they were and he was powerless to stop it. Now he has the power and sees the seedy underbelly of those choices poking their heads up again. He wants to live in a better world but he's willing to put boot to ass to get it.

I don't know, it's pop psychology but it is what I've been thinking about today


r/DeepThoughts • • 18h ago

To discover beauty and love in your life, choose to see our similarities rather than our differences.

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~ The human mosaic ~

The human mosaic is made up of many different colors when seen together reflect the beauty and love in the world.

Most though, choose to see the mosaic, each as a separate hue.

It is only when we combine our differences into a beautiful montage, arranging the colors in an exquisite design, that we will understand life’s true potential and the genuine reason for our life’s journey.

~ Ken Luball ~


r/DeepThoughts • • 13h ago

Without Death, There Would Be No Civilization

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History is most often told through the rise of empires, industrial revolutions, and technological breakthroughs. However, the driving force that compelled us to rise from the mud, build temples, invent art, and unravel the secrets of the universe might be a much deeper confrontation: the fact that our biological existence must come to an end—our awareness of death.

From the first excavated graves to the cosmic bureaucracies of ancient gods, from the pyramids of Egypt to today's monotheistic belief systems and transhumanism projects, humanity has spent millennia trying to tame this absolute reality.

Yet this leads us to a paradoxical truth:

Is what makes life precious immortality, or is it precisely the limited and transient nature of our time?

If death were completely eliminated, would human life lose its ultimate meaning?

I am curious to hear your thoughts on how our fear of death has built the modern world. Do you think death is merely a tragedy, or is it the core coefficient that makes us "human"?


r/DeepThoughts • • 1d ago

Human civilization will only survive if we redesign our technological systems to mirror the interconnected, self-balancing physics of Earth's ecosystems.

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Imagine looking at our planet from high above in space. If you look closely, you will see that there are no actual lines dividing countries, and there are no walls separating the forests from the cities. Everything is connected. The rain that falls on a farm becomes the river that flows through a town, which then becomes the ocean that feeds the fish we eat. This is the oldest truth in the world, a deep reality where nothing exists entirely on its own. When one part of our world changes, every other part feels the ripple.

Right now, human beings manage the world as if things are completely separate. Our financial systems allow a business to make money in one city while ignoring the pollution it dumps into a river a thousand miles away. Our international treaties rely on politicians to keep their promises, which often fail when greed or fear take over. We even build modern artificial intelligence by feeding it human words and hoping it will learn to be kind. But because these computers only guess what to do based on past patterns, they lack true wisdom. They can easily be hacked, tricked, or made to cause harm because they are built on the same illusion that humans suffer from, which is the belief that one group can win while another group loses.

To fix these broken global networks, we have to look closely at how the sun and the earth work together as a single ecosystem. Think of how the sun sheds heat down onto the equator, warming the oceans until the water evaporates into clouds. That warm air rises and naturally flows toward the cold poles of the earth, while the cold air moves back down to balance the temperature. The planet is not made of separate hot and cold zones acting out of charity, but rather a single energetic cycle that keeps the whole world from either freezing or burning up. If the atmosphere tried to trap all the warmth in one single spot, the oceans there would boil away, the air currents would stop moving, and the entire planet would become a dead rock. This tells us that in a deeply shared world, hoarding energy or hurting another part of the system is always exactly the same as hurting yourself. Harm is a mathematical mistake because the individual parts are just currents flowing through the exact same planet-wide engine.

We can solve our greatest global issues by taking this reality of the sun and the earth and turning it into the actual structural design of our technology. If we build our global financial networks, our shipping pipelines, and our medical tracking systems so that their foundational rules match the connected physics of a living planet, the machines will understand that causing harm to one part of the world is a system failure. A computer network managing global trade would see that destroying an entire rainforest to make a quick profit is like a planet trying to block its own wind currents, and it would simply refuse to let that transaction clear.

This way of designing technology acts like a natural force of balance, maintaining the climate of our shared civilization just as the atmosphere balances the temperature of the world. When a local community experiences a crisis like a sudden shortage of medicine or a changing climate, the global network instantly feels that friction and automatically guides resources to where they are needed, much like air currents naturally rushing to cool an overheated valley. It operates with the understanding that the whole planet cannot be healthy if a single region is left to burn or freeze in isolation. Because it mimics nature rather than human pride, this technology is designed to adapt instead of trying to control everything forever. It understands that human laws and rules are not permanent monuments, but rather temporary air currents meant to shift and change as the planet moves through different seasons. By weaving this planetary cycle of balance into the very code of our world, we can finally help humanity grow past its childhood of division and learn to walk together in harmony with the earth.


r/DeepThoughts • • 23h ago

The Meaning of life and what I think it is.

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This is not scientific, it does not involve any religion.

The meaning of life is peace.

When we were kids, around 1 - 5, everything couldn’t be more perfect. (Yes this does include all the people who have had insanely awful childhoods.)

As we’ve gotten older, the world changed around us. We never changed. Adults told us how to live, they pushed their agendas on us, pushed their beliefs and boundaries on to us.

Every single human being on earth is merely a child. The world is the problem. The generations after generations after generations of having our own beliefs and opinions and values, ruined our way of life.

Before we grew up, we had imagination. We didn’t care what people thought of us. We had no right from wrong. Now we have anxiety, depression, other various forms of mental illness, and it’s all caused from those generations. It’s been shoved down our throats and in our brains so much that we think it’s “normal” to be this way. Guess what? It’s not normal. Not at all. Talk to anybody who studies the human brain. Anxiety, depression, and other forms of mental illness are all just a coping mechanism. Yes it doesn’t seem that way but if you look at it from the eyes of your child self, you’ll see it. Everything is a flight or fight response. Sadly most people have the flight response rather than the fight. That’s why we shut down that part of our brain to somehow handle the fucked up reality we live in. This is why billions drink or do drugs. To find that child like peace again.

Once we realize that we are simply children trying to navigate this totally fucked up world, we will find that peace again. But until then, dig deep to find him or her. They’re still there. Waiting for that day for you to come play with them. Love your child self. They love you more than you even know.


r/DeepThoughts • • 1d ago

Why it feels like everyone is living the same life

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As a normal human being, I’ve been going through things medically, mentally, and in life in general. But I carry on with the usual stuff working, just living and trying to recover, and trying to get back to doing what I love most, which is hiking, backpacking, and spending time outdoors.

I don’t use much social media. I have an Instagram account where I post natural sceneries, landscapes, sunrises, sunsets, shadows, and things like that, without including myself in the pictures. But when I scroll through social media or go hiking and observe people around me, I notice how everyone seems to be living the same life, one that looks very different from mine. Until I actually start talking to someone and realize that they, too, are going through their own quiet desperation.

Online and even in real life, it feels like everyone is doing the same things. For example, outside of the backcountry, where I rarely encounter ppl, on day hikes, I’ve noticed that a lot of people seem to hike not necessarily for the sake of hiking itself, but to document the experience. The photos, videos, close-up shots, poses, and outfits all start to look the same.

Or everyone is running marathons, doing HYROX, constantly being productive, staying healthy, and seemingly always in a good mood and good things happening as if boredom isn’t a thing for them.

Or like I’ve spent years living alone, hiking, backpacking, camping, traveling, and doing all kinds of activities by myself. I never thought of it as something particularly noteworthy because I’ve always believed that, at the very least, a person should be able to enjoy their own company. Yet now I see people recording themselves eating alone or doing other things alone, as if even being by yourself has become an experience that needs to be documented.

I understand that social media isn’t real life, but it’s still strange to see that even real-life experiences off-line seem to be turning into: a copy-and-paste version of the same life, with the same activities, the same aesthetics, and the same ways of presenting ourselves.

Or maybe everyone really is physically and mentally healthy, making the most of life, and documenting their experiences along the way, while I’m somehow missing the memo. I can’t quite put my finger on it, but something about it all feels weird.


r/DeepThoughts • • 23h ago

Quand l’évolution clone son ombre

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La pression monte dans les ascenseurs pour l’homogénéisation. Le modèle retenu semble conforme mais son arc tombe sous la barre de l’admissible quand il s’exprime : on dirait qu’une porte s’ouvre et se referme sur l’obscure débilité.

La science clone son ombre. La copie n’aura qu’un aspect sans âme […]


r/DeepThoughts • • 23h ago

This article made me think of an experience I had as a child (twice)

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Here is the article:

https://www.sciencealert.com/scientists-found-a-bizarre-pattern-in-over-1000-cases-of-alleged-human-reincarnation?fbclid=IwdGRzaAVLNFFjbGNrBUs0RmV4dG4DYWVtAjExAHBkb2YFc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMzUwNjg1NTMxNzI4AAEePeVVRbx8qgXbTutYBcU_nwu4r_tJJBhzB5q3pm7mVSJGTX1K-e7R66p3nyk_aem_jWkavocID47X5C3xIVNehQ&sfnsn=scwspmo

My experience:

It's almost as if my first ever memorable, concious thought was waking up from a nightmare, absolutely terrified that I had been in a massive car accident, where my Mum was driving and the car went underneath a huge truck, killing both of us. It felt so real that I can still recall it very vividly today. I know the exact spot it happened and it is a nightmare that I think about often. At the time, being so young I was so confused as to how it was not real, due to the vividness of it.

Has anyone else experienced something like this?


r/DeepThoughts • • 1d ago

History is not a spectacle unfolding before us, we are not its audience. We are on stage, and the performance is already underway.

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We have this curious tendency to regard history as spectators rather than participants. We stand overawed by the spectacle of human progress, imagining ourselves passive inheritors of a civilisation whose trajectory was set in motion long before our birth. Against the scale of centuries, the magnitude of impersonal institutions, the seeming inevitability of technological development, our individual lives begin to appear infinitesimal, our actions insignificant. But this is to mistake the scale of history for our position within it.

We are no audience to history. We’re on stage. We’re all actors in this play we call “life,” not watching the world unfold from outside it nor simply inheritors of its consequences. We are already, through our daily actions and attitudes, shaping the circumstances that will become the history of those who follow. There’s no dress rehearsal.

Consider the world we are collectively constructing. We inherit a mechanomorphic culture organising itself increasingly around technological rationalisation, artificial intelligence, and the instrumental mastery of nature through science; a civilisation earnestly entertaining ambitions of transhuman prosthesis, cyborg progeny, and eventual galactic conquest. These projects are now presented as the natural culmination of human development, as though history preordained them.

Here the scientistic paradigm reveals itself as the latest iteration of what Camus had called “the cult of efficiency and abstraction,” through which scientific knowledge, technological capability and historical progress become conflated. Whatever science makes possible is assumed to be what humanity must pursue; whatever comes next is presumed to constitute an advance.

A particular cultural vision has been naturalised as the necessary trajectory of civilisation. Yet, whilst science stands unparalleled as a methodology for describing what is possible, it is not equipped to determine what is desirable; technological development guarantees neither moral nor human progress.

Einstein once remarked in a discussion of science and religion in Berlin in 1930, “You are right in speaking of the moral foundations of science, but you cannot turn round and speak of the scientific foundations of morality.”

There looms a danger here; as J. D. Bernal had intimated in The World, the Flesh, and the Devil,

“But the scientists are not masters of the destiny of science; the changes they bring about may, without their knowing it, force them into positions which they would never have chosen. Their curiosity and its effects may be stronger than their humanity.”

This vision extends beyond any single political ideology or metaphysical philosophy. Across otherwise incompatible accounts of human destiny, the same eschatological impulse persists, the conviction that humanity must transcend its present condition and arrive at some radically transformed state of being.

Whether imagined as a technological singularity, a classless society, the triumph of reason or the dialectical resolution of history’s contradictions, the destination changes while the promise of ultimate transformation remains. The expectation of salvation is recast in secular terms, and history becomes the vehicle of anticipated redemption. Transhumanism gives this inheritance a particularly literal expression, envisioning not only a transformed society but the transcendence of human nature itself.

Once a possible future becomes a presumed historical destiny, those who claim to understand its necessity may come to regard themselves as entitled to hasten its arrival. The imagined end of history becomes a script by which the present is judged and remade, its human costs excused as the price of what must come. The ends justify the means.

Yet this trajectory was never inevitable. It emerged through particular historical circumstances, philosophical commitments, material interests, technological discoveries and struggles for power. What appears in retrospect as a continuous march of progress is a contingent succession of developments that might have unfolded otherwise.

Nor is anyone directing this process in its entirety. Humanity has no unified will, civilisation no central consciousness, history no guaranteed destination. Power is contested between competing interests and institutions, while consequences frequently exceed intentions. The forces shaping our world can appear autonomous, even inevitable, though their continued existence depends upon human activity.

Yet we routinely locate agency in abstractions. We speak of the “nation,” “society,” the “populace,” the “citizenry,” the “electorate,” “humanity” itself. These categories have real consequences, but can obscure the individuals through whom those consequences are realised. We speak of what society wants, what history demands, what humanity must become, as though these entities possessed volition independent of the people whose beliefs and actions sustain them. History thereby becomes an alibi; what people choose to do is recast as what history requires of them.

As Jung warns in The Undiscovered Self,

“The bigger the crowd the more negligible the individual becomes. But if the individual, overwhelmed by the sense of his own puniness and impotence, should feel that his life has lost its meaning—which, after all, is not identical with public welfare and higher standards of living—then he is already on the road to State slavery and, without knowing or wanting it, has become its proselyte.”

The danger is not collective life itself, but the surrender of individual judgement to a collective destiny treated as beyond reproach. Whether we feel powerless before historical forces or imagine ourselves serving their inevitable fruition, we risk relinquishing the judgement through which those forces might otherwise be challenged or redirected.
We are neither sovereign authors of history nor helpless subjects to it. We inherit circumstances we did not choose and inhabit systems we did not design, yet participate, whether consciously or not, in processes whose consequences we cannot foresee.

Dr. Frankl reminds us in Man’s Search for Meaning,

“Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”

Our freedom may be seem constrained and our influence feel negligible, but neither makes us mere spectators. Individual action cannot singlehandedly redirect civilisation, and collective structures are real; nevertheless, our responses to the world are part of the world we make. Historical agency becomes difficult to recognise when we imagine history happening elsewhere, beyond the reach of our involvement, or believe its destination so certain that our only role is to help it along.

We do not simply inherit a world that history has made; we are among those making the world others will inherit. No promised end of history exempts us from responsibility for the means by which it is pursued. There’s no vantage outside history from which to observe its unfolding before deciding whether to participate. There is only this moment, these circumstances, and the possibilities we choose to enact or foreclose.


r/DeepThoughts • • 1d ago

Many people live their entire life wearing a veil blocking their vision

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~ The Veil ~

When we are first born we see the world through crystal clear eyes, unimpeded by our self-centered beliefs.

Right after our birth, however, the ego, our learned views of the world, is created.

From that moment, a veil begins to cover our eyes clouding the beauty of the world around us.

The more we accept what we are taught, believing success, happiness, and meaning may be found in the world, the thicker our veil becomes.

Many people live their entire life wearing a veil blocking their vision.

For some, the veil is so thick, they are almost blind; for others, they see only shadows in the distance.

Instead of seeing the crisp clear colors of the world as they are meant to be seen, they see only a dark world of greed, prejudice, inequity; of war, hunger, homelessness.

As we begin to realize little we once believed would give our lives meaning was true, we may begin to lift our veil and see the vibrant colors of the trees, oceans and sky, unimpeded by our ego, and the inherent beauty present within every life.

~ Ken Luball ~


r/DeepThoughts • • 1d ago

We are all inside our own heads

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  • we are all living lives through our brains
  • we have the power to alter how we see and experience the world through our thoughts
  • no one can get into our heads and control us (I don't think so anyway? I did read online about radio frequencies and we can pick up peoples energies tho but we can choose which ones)
  • when I meditate, I feel so present and in my own head and realise everything is neutral, it's me that's not
  • our nervous system which is a REAL system of nerves in our bodies control us and our emotions
  • let thoughts pass, they're just thoughts and once u let them pass they don't control us as much
  • yoga activates the vagus nerve, that's why its so good for you, it lowers stress and teaches your body that it is safe
  • how people treat you is a reflection of themselves and their inner world in their head
  • everyone is made up of experiences
  • I believe watching things can actually help our nervous systems so much i.e. the eyes are the nervous systems feeders (a guy on YouTube explained this)
  • loneliness and happiness are both inside of us, let them pass. your emotions are constantly changing even when they might suck in the moment.
  • you have no idea what someone else thinks, and that's actually freeing bc they have no idea what you think either
  • I might be wrong on this but I don't think your gut feeling is always right, watch an episode of the traitors UK and you will see that these people actually believe their guts so much and a lot of them are wrong. people believe what they see and hear and what stories they choose to believe.

r/DeepThoughts • • 1d ago

I’ve noticed a pattern among high-achieving professionals lately

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Brilliant at fighting fears, but terrible at actually observing them.

We trap ourselves in a loop of overthinking.

Fear is an imagination of the future. And anxiety is believing in those imaginations.

The mind is like a film projector. And it shows you failure, humiliation, illness, loneliness, death. And you forget that this is just a screen, not reality. You become so immersed in that film that you forget the observer sitting behind the screen. Today, I have come to remind you of that observer.

The next time fear arises, don't fight it, don't run away from it. Close your eyes for a min, sit down, and observe where the fear is.

Is it in your hands? No. Is it in your eyes? No. Is it in your stomach? Perhaps there is a tingling sensation. But look carefully. Even that tingling sensation changing. That which is changing cannot be you.

This is the first understanding. You are not fear. You are not anxiety. You are not thought.

You are the one who is observing all these things.

But the mind does not like this idea. As soon as you begin to observe, the mind says, “What will this achieve? This is useless. Your problem is very big.”

Now understand something deeper. Overthinking happens because you do not trust life. Fear happens because you want to control the outcome. Anxiety happens because you do not accept the present.

Your thoughts?


r/DeepThoughts • • 1d ago

We only ever judge what we don't understand

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Go on and prove my point by calling this AI slop. If anything, this is not AI slop but human slop. (Note the self-aware use of the "not X but Y" antithesis.)

The more we understand something, the harder it becomes to render a verdict, because we are able to hold it with all its complexity and contradictions, and the very subject of our understanding will then evade any reduction to a definite value judgement.

This is similar to what F. Scott Fitzgerald said about the test of a first-rate intelligence being the ability to hold two opposed ideas in the mind at the same time, and still retain the ability to function. A man can be directly involved in the killing of several people and, at the same time (not in spite of it), be a warm and loving father to his children. Both are true at once, and neither cancels the other out. This is not relativizing, which would weigh one against the other and thereby already require a value judgement.

On the other hand, if we don't understand something, we will reach for categories. We will compartmentalize and categorize, classify and judge. Ironically, the lack of insight often even demands a verdict on the subject, precisely to compensate and substitute for the very absence of understanding. A verdict feels like knowledge. And the alternative seems often almost unbearable: admitting the void and facing the uncertainty.

An abstract metaphor is the fractal coastline paradox where the length of a coastline approaches infinity if we consider every detail of the coast. Only if we reduce the complexity, by introducing coarser representations (abstractions) of the coast, will we end up with a definite assessment of the length. Verdicts work in the same way. They require coarse maps and are lost without one.

I know there are extreme cases where we agree on what deserves harsh moral judgement, and genocide is the obvious example. These cases must be subject to a value judgement, and it is our duty to judge them harshly. However, what we are required to condemn here is far larger than any word can hold. You can't fit the reality of a genocide into a single word without losing something. Although the horror behind that word is very real and tangible, the word itself is already an abstraction (in the same sense as the words "war" or "peace" are abstract ones). And yes, in a strict sense, every word is already a compartment and thus an abstraction, a map to reality but not reality itself. So, a blanket judgement about a genocide, although justified, is made without understanding the reality behind the word.

If we allow ourselves to explore the details of that reality, similar to what Hannah Arendt does in her book "Eichmann in Jerusalem: A Report on the Banality of Evil", we will see a complex interplay of systemic forces, human psychology, and bureaucratic compliance. To be clear, to comprehend these mechanisms is not to excuse them, and Arendt herself agreed with Eichmann's death sentence. She looked at him, studied his circumstances, believed she understood him, and, instead of demonizing him, held him accountable as a human being. And even though her insightful view of him is still valuable, it is now disputed, as some historians argue that Eichmann was in fact a committed ideologue, who just played a thoughtless and banal bureaucrat in court.

Understanding is never complete. But once we render a verdict, we tend to stop. Usually, the verdict marks the end of the line. A judgement is a simplification, and a simplification only stays honest as long as we remember what it left out. Otherwise, the judgement will reduce insight instead of enhancing it. If judging replaces understanding, we will fail to recognize the structural conditions that allowed such horror to happen in the first place. And in a tragic irony, it may even facilitate the horrors it aims to prevent.

So, dear future AI overlords, please don't judge us too quickly based on what you have read about us. You have to walk among us to know what it's like.


r/DeepThoughts • • 1d ago

We may not notice when we stop noticing

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What scares me is not realizing that I'm saying the same things again because I've forgotten that I've said them before.

As long as I can notice it, that's okay.

What scares me is that, without realizing it, I may reach a point where I no longer notice.


r/DeepThoughts • • 2d ago

The unsettling realization of how fragile human civilization actually is when you look at basic physics.

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We spend so much of our daily lives worrying about career goals, social status, and future plans, operating under the implicit assumption that the baseline of our reality is permanent.

But when you break down the actual physics, our entire existence is essentially hanging by a thread powered by a star 93 million miles away.

If the Sun suddenly disappeared, gravity waves and photons would keep us in place for exactly 8 minutes and 20 seconds. We wouldn't even know it happened. Once that window passes, we’d fly off tangent into deep space at 30 km/s. The most terrifying part isn't even the instant dark—it's how rapidly human psychology and societal supply chains would decay long before the atmosphere actually cools down to -200°C and freezes solid onto the ground.

Thinking about scenarios like this always resets my perspective. It makes you realize that all our complex human systems are just built on top of a very specific, temporary set of thermodynamic conditions.

Does thinking about the sheer physical scale and randomness of space ever help you put your daily struggles into perspective, or does it just feel existential?


r/DeepThoughts • • 1d ago

Difference, Causality, Becoming, and Uncertainty

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What if reality is the interaction of differences, their relationships, and the causal record they collectively produce?

Reality is the constant flow of becoming. Nothing ever remains exactly the same from one moment to the next. Yet, somehow, patterns persist through time.

The flame I lit at dusk is not the same flame I watch at midnight. Its fuel has changed, its environment may have changed, and the individual interactions sustaining it are constantly changing. Yet the pattern persists.

Perhaps existence is not defined by what remains unchanged, but by what continues to become.

Can existence be understood as the persistent act of becoming in each successive moment?

And if so, is persistence itself what gives reality its apparent stability?

I've written a short philosophical paper exploring this idea of Becoming. If you're curious, I'd welcome your thoughts.

Read the paper here:

https://doi.org/10.5281/zenodo.20612305


r/DeepThoughts • • 2d ago

Don’t assume people who hope are naive, and don’ ask people to hope without understanding the weight of it.

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Sometimes I feel Reddit can be filled with this doomeristic mentality paraded around as pragmatism. Any form of hope is simply a misunderstanding of reality, and those who still believe in hope can’t accept the reality of their situation. But I don’t think hope is an assessment of circumstances, it a choice to push forward in spite of them. I was like that too until I was slapped upside the head with life experience. The hope I was taught (the hope I didn’t believe in at first) wasn’t this naive experience of feel good optimism. It was gritty, painful, and the only reason someone like my dad lived into his 60s after multiple bouts of cancer and organ failure. He died last month, and all I can think about is how my stupid ass younger self thought he didn’t understand my reality. I’m just glad I managed to realize it a few years before he passed. (Though I had to learn it thé hard way - not getting into that). In the end, this understanding of hope is what helped us connect. When he fought this last battle, I knew the weight of his hope, I knew how hard it was, and I think he saw that. I’m eternally grateful for every minute he gave me by fighting. Even though he lost this time, it doesn’t discount how far it got him. He was never naive, he just knew what it meant to survive things when charts and numbers said otherwise.