Something has been bothering me lately about the way some Muslims behave.
There are people who present themselves as very religious, quote the Quran and Hadith frequently, and spend a lot of time acquiring Islamic knowledge. Yet, when it comes to their interactions with others, they seem to lack basic respect, humility, and good character.
They give unsolicited advice, talk down to others, act as if they are religiously superior, and are quick to judge other Muslims. Sometimes, it feels as though they see themselves as scholars while everyone else is ignorant and needs to be taught by them.
I've particularly noticed this behavior among some converts who acquire a lot of Islamic knowledge in a relatively short period of time. Of course, this does not apply to all converts, and I am not trying to generalize about anyone's background or journey to Islam.
What I find troubling is when people seem to use their newly acquired knowledge to feed their ego rather than improve their own character.
To me, Islamic knowledge and akhlaq (good character and manners) should go hand in hand. What is the point of knowing countless hadiths if you look down on other people? What is the point of constantly correcting others if you cannot even treat them with basic respect?
The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ was a role model of excellent character and humility. That is why I find it difficult to take people seriously when they present themselves as highly religious but fail to demonstrate these qualities in their everyday interactions.
I admit that this behavior makes me angry and sometimes even fills me with contempt for such people. At the same time, I wonder whether I need to be careful that my own reaction does not turn into a form of arrogance.
I'd genuinely like to hear your thoughts:
- Have you had similar experiences with Muslims who possess a lot of religious knowledge but seem to lack good character?
- Why do you think some people develop a sense of superiority through religious knowledge?
- How do you deal with such people without becoming disrespectful or arrogant yourself?
- And how important do you think akhlaq is compared to simply accumulating religious knowledge?
I am not trying to attack converts or any particular group. I am genuinely interested in understanding why religious knowledge seems to make some people more judgmental rather than more humble.