I've been beating around the bush with what I've really been thinking with my last few asks, and I apologize for that, but this is really the question I need to hear a good answer to.
I was raised by far-right parents, but a combination of being a dumb kid too stupid to internalize any of what they were saying, being a closet trans girl, and having a much older leftist brother kept me from ending up like them, and by the time I got to college, I was a leftist voting for Clinton in my first year eligible to vote. Since then, I have consistently voted downballot for Democrats every two years.
I am now questioning why I should bother continuing to do this.
I'm sure many will read the above and say "Because Republicans hate you" and really that's not even fully true. The far-right? Sure. Average conservatives? Not so much.
Meanwhile I've got bones to pick with leftists and liberals alike. Over the last few years, I've woken up to the extremist nature of the far-left and, among plenty of other harm they've caused, I think they're largely responsible for the anti-trans moral panic that's swept the country in the 2020s.
And liberals? They have made it VERY clear to me that "Just win baby" is more important to them than anything else, regardless of who gets thrown under the bus. I could deal with politicians not supporting trans women in women's sports; I don't support that either, even if I don't think there should be laws about it.
But it's just bridge after bridge this election season that candidates keep crossing, and liberals keep defending. Call us slurs? "Just win baby!" Decry "trans ideology in schools"? "Just win baby!" Take a stance against necessary healthcare being covered by insurance? "Just win baby!"
And not one of these people who insist "they're still better than Republicans" ever have a rebuttal when I point out how Labour UK also went down this slippery slope, and is now further right on this issue than MAGA.
So if neither party wants my vote as a trans woman, I should just vote as an upper-middle-class woman who wants lower taxes, a strong border, and safe streets.
This is where I am right now mentally.
Why do you think I should continue voting Democrat?