r/Charity • u/krysmcscience • 17h ago
Individual/non-registered I'm in need of help covering the costs of moving overseas due to medical issues. GFM and Ko-Fi link in description, plus links to my art commission and sale pages. š
Hello, all! Iāll try to make this as brief as I can, since I have most of the details of the overseas move up on my GoFundMe here. I have additional details about my current medical condition here, and all of the proof photos related to my situation (both the move and medical condition) are uploaded here.
I intended to use the months until my move to Norway advertising around town and online to sell art commissions and everything I donāt need or want to bring with me. Unfortunately, I started having various health issues that mostly prevented me from leaving the house, and a large mass explaining those issues was found in my abdomen at the start of this month.
Iāll be in surgery to get it and its associated organs scooped out tomorrow morning, but while the surgery itself is covered by my insurance, it has still put a major hitch in my plans. This very necessary surgery means I wonāt safely be able to move my things as I need to should someone buy them, and I am unsure if I will have the energy to work on any art commissions I might get. (Emphasis on might, because my art is pretty niche in style, and Iām not a professional by any means. I have gotten very few commissions in the past year, and all but one of them have been from online friends who already like my work.) I also wonāt be able to safely carry all my belongings and cats onto my most important flight, because while I have a two-tier stroller I can push my cats around in, it will only fit their carriers, so anything else I have with me will need to be carried, and my weight limit is going to be 10 pounds.
My friends and family cannot help me monetarily any further than they already have, I have run my savings dry, I cannot get a loan due to lack of income, and my fiance is on a tightly fixed budget, so just the cost of the application for my temporary residence permit is going to be a major financial strain on them as it is.
I already have all my plane tickets paid for, as well as the health certificates and other such documentation needed to get my two cats through customs, and the documents Iāll need to apply for a marriage license (one of which is posted in the image proofs). The things left that Iāll need to cover the costs for are rides to the airport (my flights are far too early for my friends to drive me), three units of checked luggage on the Norway flight (since I will only be able to carry 10 pounds until 6 to 8 weeks post-op), pet fees for my two cats on the Norway flight (I wanted to pay it beforehand, but Delta doesnāt do it that way for some reason), and having my belongings shipped overseas. The last thing is going to be the most expensive, because I keep getting ghosted by international moving companies despite already having the exact dimensions and weights for half my boxes prepared. I say half because I have two separate storage locations for the boxes of what I need to ship. This is why I have round-trip tickets to Tennessee in my image proofs; half of my belongings are stored at my motherās house.
I do have a number of things stored at my motherās that I will be listing up for sale, but most of them are collectibles that will take time to sell, and as I will only be there for a week (while recovering from surgery, no less), I will almost certainly have to rely on my mother to package and ship whatever sells. Any funds I get from those sales will also be going to my mother, so she can ship the belongings Iām keeping overseas from her place. I anticipate that what I sell of whatās stored at my motherās will cover at least a third of what needs to be shipped from her place. Everything I have for sale at my current place will likely only cover the cost of the airline pet fees, and I will also need to compensate my landlady and roommate for storing and helping to ship my things once Iāve moved.
I am several months into the process of getting on SSDI, but that can take a long time, so I canāt rely on that anytime soon. Drawing and selling what I donāt want or need are the only ways I can make money on my own right now, as I am far too disabled to work. I have a laundry list of diagnoses to cover why, and can share them if requested, so please do not tell me to just āgo get a jobā. That is completely unfeasible for me, both physically and mentally, and that will not be changing at any point in the future, either. And before anyone considers suggesting I rehome my cats to save on costs, 1.) that absolutely will not be happening for reasons related to my disabilities, and 2.) Iāve already paid the $1200 required for their health certificates, anyway.
All that being said, here is my anticipated breakdown of costs:
Ride to airport for Tennessee flight: $45
Possible ride home from airport after Tennessee flight: $45
Ride to airport for Norway flight: $45
Three units checked luggage: $155
Pet fees for two cats: $400
Recompense to landlady for storage: $50
Recompense to roommate for shipping: $50
Lowest possible cost to ship Storage #1 overseas: $1800
Anticipated cost to ship Storage #2 overseas: $1500
Total: $4090
Here is the guaranteed cash flow I will be able to use towards that total:
Security deposit: $500
Here is the likely cash flow I may be able to use towards that total:
Sales from current rental storage: $260
Collectible sales from motherās home: $600
Total: $1360
Grand total needed overall: $2730
This isnāt accounting for any possible small purchases I might need to make for medical reasons, however. I think I have everything I need on that front, but given the sort of surgery Iāll be getting, thereās no guarantees. Now, since the biggest caveat here on r/Charity is exhausting all possible avenues first, I will say that in the event that my surgery doesnāt leave me in a state where I can no longer work on art commissions, I would prefer covering the brunt of my expenses that way, if at all possible. Getting handouts makes me feel wildly uncomfortable, so Iām going to be leaving a link to my Ko-Fi commission page here, as well, in case any of you or anyone you know might be interested in that sort of thing. (And before anyone asks, all of my art is hand-drawn, with zero generative AI involved. I would rather eat glass than not utilize the skills Iāve spent decades developing. š) I also have a few things up for sale on eBay here, and will later be listing all of my collectibles both there and on Facebook Marketplace (though I intend to keep my FB profile private).
I think that covers everything, so thank you for your time, and good health to you all! āŗļø








