I've had my dog for 11 years and my two cats for about 3 to 4 years. Recently though I've been starting to have more reactions to the hair, specifically my dog's hair since it's shedding season. My dog is shedding like crazy and it's sending me into a psych ward. Not literally but almost I don't know how to manage it. I don't know what to do

If anybody can give me advice on a few things but

1. how to successfully remove all hair in clothes when washing and trying

2. Best, beddings.. to prevent excessive animal hair

3. Products or any other tips and tricks that I can do that can really help

I'm really struggling right now 😔

Thanks

I’ve been an animal lover my entire life, but recently, I’ve come to realize that I developed a pattern in my childhood of emotionally connecting more with animals than with humans due to my childhood c-PTSD

For the past eight years, I’ve had two rescued dogs and a cat. I’m not in any way hating on animals; please be respectful and only comment if you can help me understand what’s going on. However, from a few months ago, I’ve started to feel so startled by them.

My cat destroys my furniture and sometimes hurts me for no reason while trying to get me to play with him. My dog is already old, which I understand brings new challenges, but he pees everywhere and constantly demands attention. I feel overwhelmed by the responsibilities, including how much I spend on them because I do everything for them

I also feel like I want to travel more often, but I can’t because I don’t trust people to take care of them who could hurt them or not care about them

I feel limited in my life because of them, but I also know how much I love them

I started to think that if I could find someone who loved them as much as I do and could give them a better life, I could have someone adopt them. But just this thought brings so much guilt. I don’t know what’s going on with me :( has anyone else been through this experience before?

A lively discussion in r/Pets about America’s kitten-versus-puppy shift brought new perspectives on rental restrictions, rescue animals, work schedules and how cats are represented online.

When new research showed that American households now have slightly more kittens than puppies, the housing market looked like an obvious part of the explanation. Dogs still outnumber cats overall, but the balance among pets under a year old has shifted, according to Packaged Facts. Smaller homes, costly housing and the demands of caring for a dog all help explain why.

After the story reached Reddit’s r/Pets community, readers made a persuasive case that the explanation is broader. Their comments were personal experiences, not a scientific survey, but they surfaced practical considerations that national pet-ownership statistics cannot fully capture.

A lease can decide before the owner does

Several Redditors emphasized that the issue is not simply apartment size. Rental policies can prohibit dogs, restrict certain breeds or impose conditions that make ownership difficult. One commenter also pointed to insurance-related breed restrictions, which can narrow the choices available to renters hoping to adopt a dog from a shelter. Those rules vary, but they make an important distinction: a person may prefer a dog and still be unable to have one.

Time matters as much as space

Others described work schedules, children and the everyday responsibility of walking and caring for a dog. One longtime dog owner explained that after losing two senior dogs, the family chose cats because another dog no longer fit their stage of life. Another reader loved dogs but did not think a small apartment would be fair to one, and hoped to adopt again after moving into a house. This was less a declaration of allegiance to cats than an attempt to match an animal’s needs to a household’s reality.

Rescue changes the equation

Readers also raised the ethics and availability of adopting young animals. Some described taking in kittens born to strays or rescued from difficult situations, while others mentioned concerns about irresponsible puppy breeding. One commenter pushed back on any suggestion that adoptable puppies are scarce everywhere, noting the continuing availability of rescue dogs in parts of the South. The point is that local shelter conditions and access to rescue animals can influence which pet joins a home.

The internet has changed the cat’s reputation

One particularly interesting observation concerned video. People unfamiliar with cats once might have encountered them mainly as shy animals hiding during visits to someone else’s home. Years of online clips now show cats being affectionate, mischievous, social and remarkably funny with the people they trust. 

That does not prove video is driving adoption, but it offers a credible cultural explanation for why more people may be willing to consider a cat.

Is the pet aisle really ignoring cats?

The original story noted industry research suggesting cat owners feel underserved by retailers. Commenters offered a useful counterpoint: dogs often require a wider range of equipment, so more dog merchandise does not automatically mean stores are neglecting cats. 

Others agreed that major pet chains offer plenty of feline products but said general retailers and smaller shops frequently devote far less space to them. Both observations can be true, depending on where people shop.

One reader also mentioned the pet industry’s ‘Year of the Cat’ language. That phrase is real: the American Pet Products Association used it in 2025, and a Purina executive adopted it in a 2026 industry article. APPA reported 49 million cat-owning U.S. households in 2024, up from 40 million in 2023, although those figures come from a different study than the kitten-versus-puppy comparison.

The bigger picture

The conversation reinforced the original housing argument while making it more human. People choose pets through a complicated mix of affection, housing restrictions, schedules, ethics, money and the animals available to them.

A rise in kittens does not necessarily mean Americans have stopped loving dogs. In many cases, it may mean people are choosing the companion they can best care for right now.

Sources and reporting notes

Reader discussion: r/Pets, “America’s Kittens Just Overtook Its Puppies. The Housing Market May Be Why,” October 2026. Comments are paraphrased without names; individual experiences are not representative survey findings. https://www.reddit.com/r/Pets/comments/1x3fc8g/americas_kittens_just_overtook_its_puppies_the/

Packaged Facts kitten/puppy and pet-ownership research, as described in the original article.

American Pet Products Association, “The Year of the Cat Has Arrived,” October 27, 2025: https://americanpetproducts.org/blog/the-year-of-the-cat-has-arrived

Joe Toscano, Purina, “Why 2026 is the Year of the Cat,” Supermarket News, January 13, 2026: https://www.supermarketnews.com/supplier-news/why-2026-is-the-year-of-the-cat-and-what-it-means-for-pet-retailers

even though this was his home and was comfortable, loved and had an active day. Now i dont know what will happen now, and it is eating me up

i dont wanna ask ai about this i wanna hear actual advice from other cat parents so i came here

1. with my current budget the petshop suggests i buy the wanpy brand for broth and wet food but ive heard its one of the most unhealthy brands out there and too harmful to give to your cat on a daily basis, is that true?

2. ive bought a 400g can of wet food and the can says for a cat with mine's weight he should eat the entire can in a single day, but i was planning on mixing water, broth, boiled egg, wet food and kibbles all together for one meal and give him 2 meals a day morning and evening, in this case how many days would a 400g can last?

3. i have no idea if this is true but ive seen somewhere that fish flavors like tuna and salmon are worse health-wise compared to chicken and beef and shouldnt be given on a daily basis, is that also true?

my cat is male 10 months old and neutered btw

Hello, I’ll have an Angus steer for my next show (basically a black male cow for anyone unfamiliar with the terms) and I’m open to any relevant but unique names!
Ones I’ve crossed off are:
Charcoal
Coal
Squid
Pepsi
(Either because I know animals with those names or simply dislike the name)

Odd one, but bear with me. In an emergency, one of the quickest things to check is your pet's gum color. Healthy is usually pink and moist. Pale, bluish, yellow or really bright red can mean something serious. The problem is most of us have never looked, so there's nothing to compare against.

So lift the lip on a normal day and take a photo. If your dog has dark or spotty gums, find a pink patch or look at the tongue instead. Takes a minute, and it just sits in your camera roll until the night you need it.

Reading the late-night emergency threads on here, a couple of other things keep coming up.

Not knowing which vet is actually open. Your regular clinic may close in the evening even with "animal hospital" on the sign, so look up your nearest 24 hour ER now and save it under something you'll find in a panic. Call them on the way so they're ready for you.

And guessing about meds. A quick photo of the vaccine record and any pill bottles saves you from "the little white one, twice a day" at 2am. If it might be something they ate, the ASPCA poison line is 24/7 at (888) 426-4435. There can be a fee.

Cat people, leave the carrier out. If it only appears for vet trips, your cat already knows that, and you'll be fishing them out from under the bed.

That's about it.

I've had my cat for almost two years, but this year I've started waking up sneezing like crazy almost every morning. I got tested and found out I'm allergic to both cat dander and dust mites.

I'm definitely not giving my cat up, so I'm trying to figure out how to keep the fur and dander under control. I've been wondering if running a robot vacuum daily would help, or if an air purifier or some other cleaning tool would work.

Anyone in the same boat? Have you found anything that helps keep the fur and dander under control?

I love my cat so much it hurts. I lived alone with him for 8 years now, almost a third of my life, and he saved my life so many times I lost count.
He is my anchor in this life, I work from home and when I feel sad or lonely I plunge my head into his fur and his little warmth and cotton smell calms me instantly.
We have a very deep connection and I always say he's my shadow, following me everywhere I go.
He's my reason to live and has always been, even in my darkest time.
Honestly, I think the day he pass out I'm gonna follow him because I can't even imagine a life without this little bundle of joy.

I love you Pablo, you are the love of my life.

lab has been insured since he was a puppy and its been fine. kitten is 12 weeks and comes home next month. his insurer would be the easy choice but im not sure its the best deal for a cat. do multi pet discounts actually add up to much or is it better to just shop the kitten seperately?

me and my bf have jst moved to his uncles place, obviously taking our 11 yr old cat w us. this is an entire new environment plus his uncle has a cat and a dog. the cats interacted briefly which ended w the uncles cat hissing at mine before my cat ran back to our bedroom. she seems to be stressed and hasn’t rlly ate or drank anything nor has used the litter.

i’m extremely worried for her, esp cus she’s been more affectionate than normal. she also just threw up (it was green and liquid if anyone knows if that’s bad). we need to take her to the vet for other concerns but lately don’t have the funds due to bf losing his job (he jst got a new one but hasn’t been paid yet plus it’s all going to late bills)

we had to move due to the fact we’re ab the have a baby and we lived in a small compacted rv trailer and we live in alaska, it’s been in the 30’s lately plus it already snowed.

so if anyone could help with a way to make her less stressed it would be highly appreciated bcus we’re both worried for her.

Not doing it this year. My fiancé says our cat will eventually get used to it but I beg the differ. How about you?

Has anyone ever used an animal communicator before? If you have, do you think you got the answers you needed or did you feel the whole thing was a quack? Any US recommendations for one? I'm aware of Dawn Allen but there must be others.

Just trying to see what goes on in my dog's little brain and makes me go 🤦‍♀️

I swear mine gives me side-eye sometimes 😂 Like not just a random glance either… the kind where I genuinely feel like I’m being judged for whatever I just did hahaha. The other day I moved him because he was taking over my spot, and he just sat there staring at me like I was the one being unreasonable.

Between the side-eyes and dramatic sighs, sometimes I forget I’m living with a pet and not an extremely judgmental roommate. Please tell me I’m not the only one whose pet has picked up some suspiciously human behaviors lol.

my cat is currently 10 months old and is neutered (if that matters)

i feed him kibbles only because he refuses wet food

tho im planning on adding stuff like boiled eggs to his diet to atleast make it a bit more interesting for him

and until now ive just been keeping his bowl full all the time and let him eat whenever he wants but im starting to realize thats wrong

for all the people with cats

how often do you feed your cat? how many times a day? and how much food do you give? it would be really helpful if you guys could answer all 3

Hi all. I thought I would ask this question here since I’m not the most adept with etiquette and sometimes approach things inappropriately.

I recently had to put my labrador to sleep due to health issues, and I was wondering what I could do to show my appreciation to the staff and doctor at the veterinary hospital. I really appreciated How will they guide us through the process and how compassionate they were on that very difficult day. My first thought was a large box of chocolate candies and a thank you note, but then I thought that sounds more like some sort of celebratory gift, like you would give at Christmas time, and that it might be inappropriate for something like this.

Do you all think chocolates would be appropriate, or what do you think would be a better idea? I don’t really want to just give them a thank you note because I’m not exactly sure what I would say.

COMMENT: Thank you all so much! I'll keep reading, but you all have such good ideas and are obviously very caring people.

When my puppy Milo needed emergency ICU care for Babesiosis and kidney failure, so many people told me: "Why didn't you just get pet insurance?" The truth is: I DID insure him with Allianz! What many people don't realize is that standard policies have waiting clauses (ours was 3 months) and strictly exclude any infection the puppy quietly caught at the breeder's place before handover. We were left completely alone with the entire tragedy (I share the whole legal and medical journey on my profile). Please read the fine print of your pet insurance policies—have any of you ever been denied coverage like this?

Found a cat outside my backyard today. Very friendly came up and bumped his head on my hand asking for scratches. Laid on his belly a lot.

Tried to give him some water and he kind of clawed me a bit moving around. There is no mark, redness, or broken skin however it was on my palm so it is a tiny bit hard to tell if there would be a tiny scratch.

He is a neighborhood barn cat with an owner, but there was no collar on him. I posted him on FB and people say he is the neighborhood outdoor cat. Should i be worried about rabies at all?

Hi,

My little guy Claude is an 11 y/old neutered male cat, primarily indoors with only occasional, short & supervised backyard visits.

He has always been a REALLY vocal and loud little guy. But on October 23rd, seemingly overnight, he completely lost his voice. He still tries to meow, but no sound comes out. He has no other noticeable symptoms. No coughing, sneezing, or nasal discharge. He still eats normally. The only difference I’ve noticed is that he seems a little calmer than usual.

We took him to the emergency vet on October 25th. They did X-rays of his abdomen, chest, and throat, a full senior bloodwork panel, and a physical examination. Everything came back completely normal.

The vet couldn’t give us any clear explanation. But still prescribed Claude two medications for the next 5 days :
• Sucralfate suspension (1 mL every 8 hours)
• Omeprazole (5 mg every 12 hours)

He received his first doses late yesterday evening, so I know it’s too early to expect improvement. Still, it’s heartbreaking to see my little chatty guy suddenly go completely silent…

I’d be so grateful to hear about your professional or personal experiences. Thank you so much in advance. ❤️

Here are three that come up constantly in the clinic.

1. “Diarrhoea needs antibiotics.”

Most of the time, it doesn’t. Antibiotics are often reached for out of habit, but many cases don’t need them, and they can upset the good bacteria in the gut and make things worse. Veterinary guidelines have moved away from using them routinely for diarrhoea. If your pet has diarrhoea, especially if it’s bloody, lasts more than a day or two, or comes with vomiting or tiredness, get them checked. And if your vet has prescribed something, finish the course they gave you.

1. “Let them lick the wound, saliva is antibacterial.”

Not really. A pet’s mouth carries plenty of bacteria that are harmless there but can cause real trouble once they get into skin or deeper tissue. That’s why bite wounds can turn serious so fast, and why cats in particular can end up very unwell from a wound that looked minor. If your pet has a wound, keep them from licking it and have a vet look at it.

1. “My cat needs milk.”

Cats don’t need it, and many of them are lactose intolerant, so it can give them an upset stomach. Fresh water is what they need.

What other myths have you heard? I’m happy to look into any of them.

I’ve had a shihtzu before, but she sadly passed in 2020, so i understand the main idea of how they can be when they are older, but less so when they are puppies. I have a brand new puppy (im talking we got her the 24th type of brand new lol), shes about 8 weeks old and bites a good bit, but i dont know if its enough to be concerned or if its generally ok as long as we give her toys (its only ever when shes not tired biting our hands, clothes, and feet). Also, she has started to cry at my door when my parents are downstairs, is there anything specific i should do for that? Im thinking i should just let her cry, as it might just be baby fomo lol? She has a puppy pad and toys up here for me to play with her, and while theres no food she has eaten a good bit (she mostly stays downstairs with constant food/water in her bowls if shes hungry, but if i can tell shes sleepy i bring her up with me to chill where its quieter) so its definitely not the need to use the bathroom at least. truly ANYTHING helps, especially if theres any tips for bedtime with her crate. Thank you!!

Sometimes, the little things we do for our pets become the most meaningful parts of their lives. Letting a nervous dog approach something at their own pace. Sitting beside a cat who wants company but not cuddles. Keeping an old pet's routine familiar when their world starts getting smaller. We often focus on training, enrichment, and buying the right supplies, but learning to respect an animal's individual personality and boundaries matters just as much. What's one small thing you've learned about your pet that made you understand them better?

This might sound insane.

I have 2 dogs, 4 and 5 year old labs.

They are the chillest, most sweet girls. Very lowkey, dont bark, growl, or really even show anxiety.

About a month ago, i had a friend over that i hadnt seen in a while. Before her coming over, my dogs were completely chill, calm, etc.

The INSTANT she sat on my couch my dogs started acting really anxious, upset, pushing up to me, avoiding her, just VERY stressed out, whining, panting, a little barking. This was a brand new behavior for them.

I did literally everything i possibly could to make them stop. Fed, bathroom, toys, their favorite tv show, treats. Everything.

They didnt settle until maybe 15 minutes until she left.

Ive had them since they could be released from their mama, and i genuinely mean it when i say theyve never ever ever done that before. We have guests regularly, theyre dogsit, they travel, they camp..they are exposed to people all the time. And yes my friend has a cat but my dogs know her cat, we were next door neighbors for ages, and are exposed to cats frequently. I dont think its the cat.

I cancelled all the plans i made with my friend and I genuinely think i need to cut off the friendship. I think (and this is the crazy part) that my girls got bad vibes and are trying to protect me somehow????

Is completely ending this friendship valid if this is the reason? How do i explain “i need to not be your friends bc my dogs got bad vibes”?

Any advice? I know i sound crazy.

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