r/PhR4Friends • • 29d ago

This subreddit is for FRIENDSHIP ONLY.

1.1k Upvotes

Honestly, the posts we see these days are getting so ridiculous. Why do you need someone to be taller than you when you're only looking to chat, call, study, or watch a movie? Why do you need your friends to be of a certain body type? Exchange pics to know if "we vibe". Wow?? Is that how you look for friends? Dapat attracted kayo sa isa't-isa?

Tapos pag na-remove at na-ban kayo, sasabihin na platonic lang naman talaga yung hanap niyo. Magtatago kayo sa reasoning na preference lang. Yeah, sure.

It's been 2 years since we transitioned this subreddit to a strictly platonic one. Why are we still facing the same issues as if the shift just happened yesterday?

As a reminder: Your post should be clear about your intention of finding friends. Any ambiguity may cause your post to get removed. Repeated offense will get you a temporary ban, then a permanent ban once you break the rules again after your ban gets lifted.

Examples of ambiguity include, but are not limited to:

  • has height and weight requirements
  • "should be easy on the eyes/attractive/cute/pretty/pogi"
  • "open to a relationship if it happens naturally, but would want to be friends first"
  • "exchange pics to see if we vibe"
  • "vibe and see where this goes"
  • "gusto ko ng lambing, cuddle"
  • fake BF/GF posts
  • has the same post in dating subreddits, other R4R subreddits with a dating flair

Each subreddit has a purpose. If what you're looking for doesn't align with the sub, then DON'T POST THERE. Hindi yung pag na-call out, idadahilan pa na "para lang mas malawak yung reach". Kung jowa hanap niyo, kung gusto niyong lumandi, sa DATING SUBREDDIT kayo magpost, hindi dito. It's that simple.

Please read the rules. Thank you.


r/PhR4Friends • • Dec 13 '25

IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT Scammer is still scamming! READ THIS POST.

47 Upvotes

Don't fall for this scam!

Context: https://www.reddit.com/r/PhR4Friends/comments/1nsk254/be_aware_of_this_scammer/

https://www.reddit.com/r/PhR4Friends/comments/1o7zfe6/scammer_beacatto_now_goes_by_jus/

Apparently, this scammer is still active. Your girl (girl nga ba??) is working hard! Currently using the account Alternative_Week_940 (https://www.reddit.com/user/Alternative_Week_940/)

TG: puffypufzz

Discord: noturlegaleagle

Still playing on people's emotions and making them feel bad enough to send them money.

"Allyson Lopez" is the name they're going by. Hindi ko na icecensor kasi fake din naman. (Previous names: Justine Manalo, Beatrice Lopez) Still using the same UNO Account number.

DOST scholar pa rin daw siya, pre-med student kuno.

They tried posting here but their account was flagged for ban evasion. But that won't stop them from messaging you–men in particular. Kasi they will offer to be a virtual gf, might send you thirst traps na stolen lang din. Anything to fool you out of your money.

TIGILAN NIYO NA KASI ANG PAG-BIGAY NG PERA JUSKO

THEY WON'T STOP HANGGA'T MAY NALOLOKO PA RIN SILA

EDIT: Adding more photos

Aww, nagpalit na siya ng name kasi na-feature na naman.


r/PhR4Friends • • 2h ago

Friends 27 [F4F] Looking for GIRL/GAY friends <3

8 Upvotes

Hello ! My name is Lily, 27 F. I’m from BGC (weekdays) & Cavite (weekends). I am looking for girl & gay friends only, someone na interested talaga to have new friends and do some fun/chill stuff together. I am into books, movies & tv shows (psychological thrillers & sitcoms), makeup, skincare, walking, cafe hopping, any girly stuff.

I am a corporate girly and I am in a long term relationship. Adulting happened and I lost contact with my old friends and most of them are staying in our province na. I want to hangout with other people naman besides my workmates and boyfriend hehe.

Send me a dm if you’re interested ☺️🎀 Again, for people only na really into making new friends ha. Lagi nalang kasi ako ginoghost 🥲


r/PhR4Friends • • 6h ago

Gaming 20 [F4A] play games with meee

12 Upvotes

i just got a new Pc after smmmm years and i finally have time to play games ive been imagining myself to play since forever … but i realized playing games alone isnt as fun as playing them with others so here i am ^^

about me

- willing to download any game u wanna play as long as i have someone to game with
- currently playing valo and league (i suckkk tho)
- i also play ml and roblox ofc
- Very Quick Replyer so One game inv and im already opening my laptop
- into anime, manhwa, novels as well if u wanna have convos outside of gaming !

about you
- willing to play with me
- can be friends
- kind respectful

let’s go let’s go let’s go les go let’s go


r/PhR4Friends • • 3h ago

Friends 21 [F4A] looking for a solo joiner to a halloween party

5 Upvotes

hello, we’re looking for a solo joiner to complete our bundle for a halloween party this oct. 30 in qc! we’re mostly girls and all college students we’re fun and welcoming so we gotchu I promise 🤍 Also, if you’re looking for friends to hangout even after halloween we’re good too, plus we take good photos pls don’t hesitate to dm me for more details!

link to the party: https://www.instagram.com/p/Dd3F4PsgaIJ/?srtk=MTF4eXJwZnhjYnNkaA==

Let’s all be baddies 💗


r/PhR4Friends • • 5h ago

Friends 30 [M4A] Anyone wanna talk about their departed pets this day of the dead for pets?

7 Upvotes

Just finished setting up an altar for my bb, I'm just waiting kasi per the tradition nung candle should be lit at sunset (sabi ni google).I'd like to share stuff and talk about my baby ganda pero I have no one to share it to. So, I'm wondering if anyone is up to sharing stories about their beloved departed pets? I don't want to vent to someone who can't relate kasi parang I'm just bothering them so hopefully you're in the same boat and is also willing to share para naman d awkward and also d parang naghanap lang ako ng free therapist online haha. Pls feel free to dm me.

About me:

A bit of context, my dog died just this August and It's my first time setting up an ofrenda kasi I just got recently aware of the tradition na may specific day pala for pets and d sila sabay sa human day of the dead.

About you: Someone who've lost a pet also.


r/PhR4Friends • • 5h ago

Friends 35 [M4F] MD. LF online friends

7 Upvotes

35 | MD | 5'9"

Into fitness. pretty disciplined

I love watching movies! Series, not so much, mainly because I have a hard time committing to marathons.

My sense of humor is all over the place. I appreciate dark humor, love Conan O'Brien, and can pretty much laugh at anything. Kanal humor isn't really my thing, though. Haha.

LF: Just someone I can vibe with. Good conversations, good chemistry. Not looking for anything crazy or serious. platonic super cool

someone into fitness/disciplined.

recommend a good movie please. or good workout program/activity.


r/PhR4Friends • • 2h ago

Friends 22 [M4A] kwento, chat, tawag

3 Upvotes

Hello, wala na masyadong gagawin sa linggong ito, kaya bakit hindi?

wala akong ekspektasyon. gusto ko lang kausap,

pwedeng bihira lang, pwedeng madalas, pwedeng kahit sa ngayong araw ka lang nito makipag-usap,

at hindi na magparamdam sa susunod. I'd understand.

magiging kabanata pa rin ng buhay ko.

About me :

- 3rd year BS Economics student

- I love writing, journaling, & reading : philo, econ, hist

- biking is one of my coping mechanisms.

- I play games, usually narrative.

- I consume films and old songs.

- I enjoy walking

low maintenance lang po ako, kahit wala kayong paramdam, kakain pa rin ako for life.


r/PhR4Friends • • 42m ago

Friends 24[F4A] body doubling sa discord voice channel while we listen to christmas songs

• Upvotes

Do your own activity while I crochet!

What is body doubling? A productivity strategy where you complete a task in the presence of another person to help you stay focused, motivated, and accountable.

Actually, i just feel lonely hahaha

Open cam ako while I crochet so I hope you are also willing to do open cam but no pressure naman. Also, we dont need to talk, mas prefer ko if quiet lang or we talk thru chat but okie lang din naman if you prefer na we talk (open mic).

This is strictly sfw and not for seeking romantic relationships, okay? I am in a relationship na and you might be asking bakit hindi siya ang kasama ko? Well, hindi lang naman sa kanya umiikot mundo at araw ko hahaha gusto ko rin nang makakausap/friend. Also, aware po si bf na nakikipagusap ako sa reddit.

About me:

* Still a college student

* introvert

* hmm wala na ako maisip na interesting huhu

I hope you send a lil intro about yourself too hehe. See ya!


r/PhR4Friends • • 53m ago

Friends 26 [F4A] Lf genuine friend older than me.

• Upvotes

Around Southwoods Biñan would be nice. Someone to talk to in person, walk around the mall in the middle of the night. Yung di mahirap yayain? Just someone to talk to. Hopefully would become best friends idk.

About me:

5'5 height

60 kl

Loves to walk

I play games. CS2 mostly

Would love to explore food trips if may alam ka? Im not allergic to anything naman

Yung papagalitan ako minsan bout my stupid decisions in life. Like ate/kuya vibes?

Hit me up in DMs. I dont reply that fast dito but ill try my best


r/PhR4Friends • • 2h ago

Friends 29 [M4F] Gym/Coffee Buddy or Constants?

2 Upvotes

Lf gym/coffee buddy around Imus or Bacoor, home gym sa SOMO but I'm down to try out other branches din hehe. I also want to check out other cafes and try out all kinds of food, so if you have some good recommendations, let me know!

I'm okay with online constants din so if you're up for that, hit me up

Me:

  • 5'10, average lean, 3-4x a week sa gym
  • Has work
  • From south (etivac)
  • Hygienic, decent and respectful
  • Play games, dota 2 currently is my main, hsr, tft etc
  • Kanal humor, into TikTok memes and stuff, loves all kind of music
  • Into other hobbies, such as anime/series, making my own coffee, etc

You:

  • Decent and respectful, hopefully hygienic din haha

r/PhR4Friends • • 3h ago

Friends 29[F4A] Looking for kausap while I pack!

2 Upvotes

hi! looking for voice calls!
let me know if u also like to yap.
I’m packing for a trip tomorrow.
about me:
- very conyo
- into languages, currently hokkien and japanese
- from the green school
- loves fluffy animals


r/PhR4Friends • • 15m ago

Friends 24 [F4M] let’s hang out!

• Upvotes

hi hi! i’m looking for someone to vibe and hang out with :)) i like funny and nerdy guys! if u’re a sponty person and r g to try out new activities that maybe we could do together, pls leave a message!

about me: • 4'10 and petite • into running & boxing! • working already • fair skinned • from the big 3 (if it matters) • easy to vibe with

about u: • 22 - 27 yrs old (non-negotiable!) • no height req • smells nice • sponty and a plus if u r into sportsss mainly running or cycling!

send info abt u as a starter!!


r/PhR4Friends • • 17m ago

Friends 28 [F4A] Fellow night shift peeps, are you clocked in?

• Upvotes

I just clocked in, and with zero sleep, am running on fumes tonight. Ikaw, kumusta naman araw mo? I hope we can keep each other company tonight. Baka mag oversleep na naman ako!! Hahaha!! See you sa inbox! :D

About me:

I work from home Loves pink Travelling A 'no one needs me' time


r/PhR4Friends • • 4h ago

Friends 25 [F4A] Gym/coffee buddy!

2 Upvotes

hi! hoping to find a constant gym buddy/friend to workout, grab coffee or explore cafes with!!

i workout at AF (around manila/qc sometimes) and solo ako most of the time, but i had a gym friend na lumipat na ng home gym and super nakakamiss din yung may kasama from time to time!!

about me: shy girl but vv talkative na once i get comfy 🤣 go w the flow, i love trying out restaus and cafes. i work & study too kaya i’m also up for work/study cafe sesh

about u: nothing specific naman, just be nice and decent!

hmuuu with ur intro + the emoji ☀️ and lets be friends!


r/PhR4Friends • • 23m ago

Study Buddy 21 [F4A] genuine study buddy plz..

• Upvotes

hi! i study a lot of readings and i just want someone to study with quietly online (or maybe f2f if ever!!) :D i dont struggle that much with focus pero sometimes i get bored and then i trail off and then i struggle to get back to the routine TT

about me:

  • introvert, quiet, chill, kinda old school ngl
  • i study history (my main, year 1) and philosophy&politics (this is more of a side-study-quest thingy im a newbie)
  • uni student @ mnl
  • i like what i study and im very ambitious pero minsan nakakasawa sha..
  • anti-genAI
  • my vice: i smoke like two kahas a year and only when i get them coz that shits #Expensive
  • currently reading: dante's inferno (trans. john ciardi)
  • spiritual, cat lover, music lover, art lover movie lover

my study habits

  • i read a lot and i don't use flash cards as much
  • i take a lot of digital notes and try to make mind maps
  • if ur a stem major maybe i can help w ur flash cards or quiz stuff!!
  • i can do around 4 hours of studying

about u

  • also chill :D
  • likes to study or wants to try to like it
  • not picky with age, as long as ur in a school set-up

if ur hmu just open w an intro on what u study or ur study habits or a music album/movie u like recently. thank u! hope someone bites 🙏


r/PhR4Friends • • 44m ago

Friends 29 [M4F] That Random Stranger you Unexpectedly connect with in Random Places—An Acquiantance

• Upvotes

Yeah, not really interested in friendship at this point. People come and go and are often temporary. Just wanted to get to know people, like a person you meet randomly while commuting, a random individual you talk to during a good game.

No pressure, just good conversation, whatever it may be.

I speak in Taglish as some message best delivered in a certain phrase where it can be understood best. If you're looking the same, HMU, my work starts in a few hours so if I don't respond, I'm working na.

See you sa DM's, if you're gonna stalk me, everything is on my profile naman

About you:

- Yapper and a good listener when needed

- Idc about your intention, I just want a decent person to talk/chat to

- Not anyone older than 30.

- Has TG as reddit chat sucks

- Not eager to jump on a call

- Could be anon or whatevs

- At least be genuine—the bare minimum decency online


r/PhR4Friends • • 5h ago

Friends 28 [M4F] laglag lpl seed #1 sa TL eww hahahahahahahahahahahahahaagagagaga

3 Upvotes

Anyone here into LoL Esports?

With the tournament getting closer to the quarterfinals, I’m curious to know which team you’re rooting for this year. Who’s your pick to make it all the way?

Would be fun to find someone to watch the live matches with especially during those midnight streams. We could schedule a watch party, hop on a call and talk about the games, drafts, team performances, and everything League-related.

We could even have a friendly little bet on the matches for fun lang naman hahaha. Nothing serious naman it's just a bit of competition to make watching more exciting oks lang kapag wala hahahaahahaha

If you're also passionate about League and enjoy talking about the game, feel free to reach out. It would be nice to meet someone who shares the same interest haha

P.S. I don’t play League anymore but I still keep up with pretty much every major tournament across the LPL, LCK, LCS, and LEC. I may have retired from the Rift, but I’m still invested in the pro scene.


r/PhR4Friends • • 1h ago

Friends 28[M4F] I'm here again to listen for everything you need to dump or ask. My inbox is open.

• Upvotes

Hello,looking for a friend? or want mo lang ng someone to talk to about anything or ask for advice? I'm free here.

Me: friendly, harmless, go to guy, willing makinig sa problem or anything nangyayari sa life mo, a person you can trust about anything or everything, open to give advice base lang sa perspective at perception ko. Open to anything you wanted to share or ask.

You: just wanted na magtanong or to yap or dump anything in mind, or just validate anything or something bothering you.

Just DM me agad ng problem and all try to accommodate every DM. Have a great week a head.


r/PhR4Friends • • 9h ago

Friends 29[F4A] lunch time!

3 Upvotes

Hello there! Looking for someone to talk lang either call or text message.

Medyo bored lang.

7days leave and walang magawa.

What's your lunch for today?

If you need kausap just send me a dm.

Ciao!

See you in my inbox.


r/PhR4Friends • • 1h ago

Friends 22 [M4F] let's be yap buddies!

• Upvotes

hello!

title!!
we can become constants too if we click 🙏🏻

about me~
5'10
chinito (daw)
entj
gradwaiting from big 4
currently reviewing for boards next year

loves yapping and running and cafe hopping and matcha (and valorant) ((and genshin)) 🙏🏻

about you: just be urself, easy to talk to, and be a yapper too pls i don't want to be the only one carrying our conversation

someone who's around my age din!

preferably has discord for calls toooo

(p.s. looking for friends to play valorant and genshin with as well!!!)

hmu 🤙🏻


r/PhR4Friends • • 1h ago

Friends 22[m4a] super bored na ako dito sa bahay😭😭

• Upvotes

Almost 2 weeks ng out yung internet kaya nagtitipid din ako ng internet ko and nababaliw na ako dito wtf. Finals week na and i have been doing great naman pero after ng exams ay diretso uwi din ako. walang offline games sa pc at wala pang internet. GALA tayo sasamahan ko kayo/kita.

abt me:

3rd year, basta connected sa social services yung program

from taguig

5'7 normal bmi

into video games( i play games like sekiro, GOT, rdr2, LN, HLL, genshin, then pag phone is MLBB lang)

student athlete and next week pa ulit start ng training kaya wala talagang magawa😭😭

people say na mukha daw akong masungit (tahimik kasi ako pero makulit talaga pag comfy na)

one of the girls and ayoko ayain ka circle ko kasi niyaya ko na sila last time pero busy daw😠😠😠

motor lang meron ako so wag yung malalayo guys!!!!

hindi ko na alam kung ano pa pwedeng idagdag pero you can ask me naman. please introduce yourself din pala sa dm para makilala naman kita :)))))

abt u:

mabait


r/PhR4Friends • • 5h ago

Friends 25[F4A] looking for new friends <3

2 Upvotes

Hi! Would like to build genuine connections~ I'm currently in the process of rediscovering my passion and self, low maintenance naman me so we can go about our days lang doing whatever. Feel free to make chika, we can play online games, kaladkarin nyo ko sa mga errands nyo or maybe we can both travel or just grab coffee!

About me:

- love to play games, mostly on PC and Switch(Valorant, league, animal crossing, etc)

- i collect figurines

- chronically online

- im around laguna!

I'm usually more active from the afternoon to late nights :) hmu if you're interested!


r/PhR4Friends • • 2h ago

Concert/Gig Buddy 25 [F4M] Watch Cup of Joe gig with me?

1 Upvotes

Hello! Anyone who wants to watch Cup of Joe’s halloween gig with me this October 30 at Eastwood?

ABOUT ME:
- working
- LOVES COJ
- yapper 😅
- from Tarlac

ABOUT YOU:
- working
- listening to COJ
- respectful
- can hold conversation
- around Tarlac/Pampanga or near Eastwood

DM me if interested! 😊


r/PhR4Friends • • 3h ago

Friends 27 [F4F] looking for online friends

0 Upvotes

Good evening! I'm looking for online FEMALE friends na pwede makachikahan. I'm F, just turned 27 recently. Nag post na ako dito before pero di nagcontinue yung conversation ko dun sa mga nagreply saakin. Taga Bicol ako at wala akong friends na minimeet regularly para mag jam kaya tinatry ko maghanap ng friends online. Yun lang.

About me: -furmom -into reading -loves to cook -not a DDS -not a marcos apologist

Let's talk if tingin niyo pwede tayo maging friends 😊