Hey there!

First post ever so not super optimistic. Looking for chats about life, dreams, food. Live in the inner west but mainly looking for online just to pass the day away.

I like writing, cooking and sneakers. Also love a hike, so if you know any good spots I may not have heard of then I’d love to hear from you!

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I'm at the point in my life where im looking for a serious woman in my life i can start building a future with.

Im Korean/Japanese. A lot of tattoos all over. Full sleeves and back done. Im a cat daddy as well =) Im a nerdy person. I go to anime conventions yearly and i have a PS5 and a switch 2 but mainly play on PC. (Overwatch, Val, League etc) Hoping to find a woman who has similar hobbies as me.

Distance is no issue as long as we have good chemistry between us.

If you're interested please DM me with a picture of yourself and something you enjoy!

That is all. Thank you!

Hi, I’m Asian living and working in SoCal. Currently looking for a long term fwb!

About me: I’m focusing on my career and doing school at the same time so I want to take this time to focus on myself. I’m 5’7, 170 hwp athletic (looking to lean out).

Despite my packed schedule I do want to sprinkle fun dates (eating, walking, attending live orchestras) in between as well. I can host down the line but I’d want to get to know you first! I’m looking for someone 27-45 age range. But if you think we’d be a good match send a message anyways :)

Hello. I am 39M, 5'10". Giving this subreddit a try. I am living in Vancouver, Canada

Here are some facts about me:

• Currently working as an engineer
• Enjoy running, tennis, cycling and circuit weight exercises
• Enjoy outdoor hikes, events around the city, checking out new restaurants
• Down time hobbies include reading (Currently reading The Miracles of the Namiya General Store), video games, anime, cooking, shows, board games, etc

Looking for someone around my age and don't mind older as well. Ideally looking for long term if there's good chemistry and we get along. Feel free to message me if you like!

I am looking to connect with sincere people and build genuine relationships. To introduce myself: my name is Mimi, I’m 42 years old, and I live in California. I am currently single (divorced). I’m hoping to find someone who enjoys communicating and engaging in deep, meaningful conversations not the type of person who starts a chat only to suddenly vanish without a word! I’m friendly, have a good sense of humor, and am a great listener. That said, I’ll admit that I’m not always the best at expressing myself; I can be quite quiet at times, while at other moments, I might chatter on endlessly about all sorts of little things.

If you are a mature, grounded individual who avoids bringing up sexual topics early on, enjoys casual, everyday conversation, and is also looking for a long-term relationship and if you happen to be around my age and live in the US.Please feel free to send me a private message.

34, male, 180lb, 6'0",  Asian, average build. A professional engineer by day and a food dispenser for my cat by night.

Living independently and indulging in my various hobbies of anime, videogames, and mountain biking (if I stop buying plastic, the voices get louder). I also enjoy cooking, sleeping, and cafe hopping. Big fan of various nerdy things such as Pokemon, Honkai: Star Rail, Hololive, Game Grumps, and FFXIV. Currently fumbling my way through being a homeowner.

Been finding it hard to meet people since I stay at home a lot or stuck in an office. Interested in dating with the end goal being long term. Just no one overweight, please. I'd love to hear what you're passionate in, especially over a cup of coffee.

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Hi , 36 M , 6'4", indian settled in ireland , in search for a European partner . (I know a lot of poepel might be put off by the fact I am indian , but give it a chance and let me help you change your perspective )

I am seperated ( working on the divorce ),

I am genuinely looking for a Long term partner , not looking for a fun time , but looking to build a lasting relationship and have a family.

please feel free to message me , and we could share and discuss more.

I like to go on long drives , cooking , watching movies , random long walks .

Hope to hear form my special one.

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I suppose I ought to begin with the conventional introductions, though I have never been particularly good at them, but, well, in the spirit of getting the boring stuff out of the way right away (cue: me), I am a writer, poet, academic, lecturer, scholar, scientist (physicist, to be more precise), and AI engineer/scientist (I am, if I may add, absolutely terrible at more than half my jobs). I’ve spent most of my life in Europe, and am probably the coolest and funniest person you have met today, unless you’ve seen a raccoon doing yoga, in which case, fair enough, I simply can’t compete with that level of comedy.

The truth is that I have always found introducing myself rather difficult, there is something strangely artificial about trying to reduce a person to a paragraph, as though we were all tidy little collections of interests, accomplishments, preferences, and carefully selected adjectives.

I am, I fear, a rather poor exhibitor of myself, the moment I am asked to explain who I am, something in me seems to retreat into a corner and refuse to cooperate. I have thought about this far too many times, and after twenty-four years of living, I remain quite confidently the worst person I know at introducing myself. It is a curious deficiency, I can talk for hours about some obscure historical event nobody asked about, become unnecessarily invested in the moral character of a long-dead philosopher, or spend an afternoon following some completely accidental question down a rabbit hole from which there is no respectable return, but ask me to describe myself and suddenly I am reduced to, "Well... I like things." Marcus Aurelius wrote that "very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking." I believe him more on good days than bad ones, but I keep the sentence nearby regardless.

I like small walks, I like learning something new quite by accident, especially when I have no business knowing it and consequently become far too pleased with myself for having discovered it, I like talking to people, though I think I like the moment when talking quietly turns into listening even more. There is something rather lovely about reaching that point in a conversation where neither person seems particularly concerned with keeping it going, and yet somehow neither wishes to leave it either.

I am very fond of my own company, which is perhaps fortunate, because I have had rather a lot of it. Solitude has its pleasures, one may disappear into one's thoughts without having to explain where one has gone, and occasionally return with something resembling an answer. I like sitting quietly with myself, reading, thinking, wandering about, doing very little, and somehow considering it a productive use of an afternoon, but I am not entirely made for solitude either, there is an equal and opposite part of me that wants to go beyond the familiar, to see what is waiting just beyond the little borders I have drawn around my life. I

I love evenings especially, sometimes I step outside simply because the sun is going down, and I feel that one ought to have the decency to witness it. I love those ridiculous skies where orange begins bleeding into purple and everything looks briefly more beautiful than it has any right to be. I love the first sip of tea in the morning, the sound of leaves moving in the wind, the gradual dimming of a day into dusk. I like gardens and parks, and the rather miraculous fact that one can walk among trees for an hour and come back feeling as though something inside one's head has been quietly rearranged.

I have always loved letters, too, though it has been some time since I last properly gave myself over to writing them. When I was younger, I wrote to my grandmother every day and dutifully posted the letters on my way to school. That I very rarely remembered the correct address, and even more rarely remembered a stamp, is beside the point.

I suppose what I am really trying to say is that, if you happen to be reading this, I would like to know you. Not because I have some elaborate checklist of the sort of person I hope to find, nor because I particularly care whether you happen to be interesting in the conventional sense, I am far more interested in the person underneath all that. The odd little habits, the things you know for no good reason, the memories you have never found a suitable occasion to tell anyone, the opinions you defend with considerably more conviction than they deserve.

There is something rather wonderful about writing to someone you do not know, I don't know your name, I don't know what you ate today, whether you slept properly last night, what song has been stuck in your head, or whether your day has been glorious or thoroughly dreadful, perhaps your inbox has been multiplying like gremlins left too near water, perhaps you have spent the afternoon pretending to work while accomplishing absolutely nothing of consequence, perhaps you have had one of those quiet days where the refrigerator becomes strangely prominent because you have nothing else to listen to.

I think people who stop to read messages from complete strangers are probably a little strange themselves, and I mean that as the highest compliment. Perhaps you are a birdwatcher, perhaps you collect old books, perhaps you are one of those suspiciously competent people who can fold a fitted sheet without entering into a minor spiritual crisis. If so, I already admire you, I have attempted it, and remain convinced the thing was designed by someone with a personal grievance against humanity.

Perhaps you laugh too loudly, perhaps you think too much, perhaps you are quiet and observant, and notice things everyone else walks past, perhaps you have passionately held opinions about breakfast foods. Cookies count, incidentally, I will defend this position before any reasonable tribunal.

As for me, I am kind, curious, occasionally ridiculous, easily distracted by an interesting thought, and rather fond of people who have something peculiar about them. I am probably not nearly as funny as I have just suggested, but I am willing to make the attempt, which ought to count for something.

Anyway, I shall spare you the remaining 96 pages of my unsolicited autobiography for now. If this sounds like your sort of nonsense, do come and say hello, I’d genuinely love to hear from you!

Im looking for an old soul. Some might think that’s ironic for this sub, but I don’t think so. Because an old soul isn’t about preferences or interests. It’s about authenticity, identity, values, and romanticism.

An old soul is...

• Looking for peace, love, safety, purpose; not social media points
• Believes in communication and is open-minded, not just saying you are — but actually live your life accordingly
• Open to children and family, not immediately but somewhere in the future. With our own dogs and library where we can host nights with friends
• A lover of food and culture. Traveling. Trying new things. Learning about themselves, people, nature, and the world at large.
• Unapologetically nerdy: fantasy, video games, anime, cartoons. Bonus points if you like Dune, Vocaloid, or Nier/Drakengard

Me:

• In NYC but may move to Tokyo next year
• Patient, kind but strict, grounded, with a life in order. Nerdy.
• 5’7. East Asian (Chinese). Short black hair, athletic build, and an angular face.
• Believes that a healthy romantic relationship needs not just sex, but also understanding, safety, trust, and a commitment renewed every day

If you’re looking for someone to hold and lead you into the next beautiful chapter, one with smiles and growth and passion-- DM me with your age, gender, location, and a controversial take you think more people should agree with you on.

I'm 31, Asian, an engineer, and often on the move between Paris, Lyon, Rennes, Bordeaux, Brussels, and a few other cities. So there's a decent chance we could cross paths 🙂

I'm pretty laid-back, curious, and always up for a laugh once I feel comfortable. I enjoy talking about all sorts of things: history, politics, manga, football, food, travel... And if the conversation gets a little less innocent, I'm happy to see where it goes.

I have a soft spot for smart, curious, sensual women, especially those with a slightly unpredictable side that makes me want to know more.

What am I looking for? An open, non-exclusive connection with someone who feels comfortable being honest about what she wants. Attraction, chemistry, enjoying each other's company, and maybe some kink if we're both into it. No fixed script: your desires, boundaries, and pleasure come first.

We might meet once and have a good time, or find ourselves wanting to make it a regular, discreet thing. No need to decide before we've even met.

Whether Asian men are your type or you're simply curious, feel free to say hi. Experienced or not, what matters is that we feel good together. You might know exactly what you want, or just want to see where a good conversation takes us.

For your first message, go with whatever feels right: an unexpected question, a little confession, something you'd like to try, or something you wouldn't write anywhere else. I'd love to hear it.

36 East Asian here. 5’7”, somehow fit. Currently shaved head. I think I’m good looking so if hmu if you want someone to tell you you have good taste.

About me:
I talk a lot so you can leave the heavy-lifting jobs to me. I’m nerdy and I’m good with numbers you can leave all the finance duty to me.
I like workout so you can leave all the muscle-heavy duty to me.
I like gaming and watching anime so you can leave all the tv time to me.
I like flirting so you can save all your excitement for me.
I like learning new things so this is the time you can shine.

About you:
Nothing really specific really. Just presence and being consistent. I’ve found my crush here. Although she’s gone but I’m hopeful that I can find another new crush again. Also, I’ll be on a 2000-mile road trip soon so it’ll be nice if you can keep me awake while I’m driving.

Anyway, if you’re interested, hmu. Cheers

About me: 31 M, Korean-American, Raleigh area, 5'10, 170lbs, HWP, in decent shape and physically active. I enjoy reading, volleyball, board games, outdoor activities, and trying new restaurants!

Maybe we show each other out favorite local food spots, or try new ones. Feels like there are a ton of new places popping up! Or perhaps we get coffee and drink explore a museum, or grab Korean food and then dance the night away? I'm always open to tying new places!

If we have fun, I'm very open to keeping the connection going. Hope to hear from you soon!

Disclaimer: I am down to do a long distance relationship that will eventually lead us to meeting.

Hello, nice to meet you all. My name is Adam and I figure I take the time to write out some things about myself and see if there are any white women that I may peek some interest in! For starters though, I am Chinese and Korean mix. I am about 5'10 or 177cm for those on the other side of the world! I have a slim build I would say. As I usually only go on runs now with occasional dumbbell lifting.

Personality: I've been told that I have a pretty calm and relax energy for some people. And that could be something some may be looking for. Although, I am pretty introverted so I tend to keep things to myself but overall shy and quiet at times. I would say a few red flags I have is that I can tend to be a little clingy and probably being a hopeless romantic may turn some people away.

Hobbies: I have a few hobbies that I thoroughly enjoy. The main ones would be playing video games and anime. I tend to play mmorpgs and fps games. But enjoy farming sims. Anime is a mix bag as I enjoy watching most genres. Ironically, being a resident in Hawaii.. I enjoy fishing. Mainly just spear fishing or just hoping for a catch on a pole. Apart from outdoor activities, most of my hobbies are usually done at home. I highly enjoy reading as my pass time if I am not playing video games or watching anime. Any book related to greek mythology is one of my most favorite genres to read. But I also do love reading medical books (you will find out why later in this post). Astronomy is also something I really enjoy as I enjoy the vast space we have. It is both scary but amazing. I tend to watch a lot of videos about space. A bonus for this section, I love cooking and one out of three love languages I have is food. I want to be able to cook for my special someone an pour my love and soul into what I make for them to enjoy.

Career: At the moment, I am a Radiology Assistant. My job consist of just making sure a doctor is ordering the right exam for the patient. It's a fun job cause I get to tell the doctor what to do. My hospital is offering an ultrasound program sometime next year and I plan to take that program to become an ultrasound tech which I am excited for.

Lifestyle: While I am not a huge health nut, I do want to live a long and healthy life. So, I tend to run or at least go on a job every other day. Sometimes fitting in a few dumbbell workouts. I love sweets but there are times where I try to avoid eating too much.

What am I looking for?: I have no limit on age. The lowest I think I would go is 24. I would prefer someone closer to my age but if fate brings someone who is not my age then I will accept that fate. Of course, the stopping point for how old I would go would be 45. I generally am just looking for my special player two to eventually date and one day put a ring on it. No matter where she is in the world, I would love to meet her.

If you made it this far and this post interest you. Feel free to send me a message and we can see where things go =)

For example I am super gamer and I am sure you won't win me in any game)

Hello, I am originally from China. I have been living in the US and Europe since graduating from college.

I was a track and field athlete and played other sports as a student. I work out several times a week to remain physically active. I like going to sporting events. Basketball and soccer are two of my favorite sports.

Good food is another passion of mine. I cook mostly Chinese food, but when I go out, I try to explore cuisines from around the world.

In my free time, I like playing video games with my buddies. I am a die-hard Blizzard fan, and my favorite game is World of Warcraft.

My daytime job is as a scientist, but after work I like reading about history, particularly Chinese, European, and American history.

I am writing this post to see if I can find some connection, something meaningful long term, so please feel free to hit me up with a brief intro.

Hi! I’m 26, based in Illinois, and work as a mechanical engineer in medical device design.

I lead a pretty active lifestyle. You can usually find me on the court playing pickup basketball, playing pickleball. I'm also a huge Chicago sports fan (especially the Bears). Outside of sports, I love traveling, spending time outdoors, and staying involved in my local community, whether that's leading a young adult group at my church or volunteering at Feed My Starving Children (FMSC). Lately, I’ve been working on leveling up my home cooking skills, and I'm even thinking about trying out shuffle dancing just for the fun and freedom of it.

What I'm looking for: A kind, down-to-earth woman who values genuine connection, shares a faith-centered or community-minded mindset, and enjoys being active or trying new things together.

If any of this resonates with you, send me a DM introducing yourself, telling me about your favorite hobbies, your go-to comfort food, or your favorite travel spot!

The entire time I would be confident and relaxed and even encourage you to grab some tea to calm yourself down while I handle the snake.

Then once you are safely out of the room , I shall commence my screaming! 

Now that I grabbed your attention , Hello there!

I guess the only way to describe me is being a fun golden retriever energy with you while we constantly try new adventures together ! ( like us wearing fancy suits and reviewing every taco stand in town or us going down every street to find that cute arts and crafts store that sells the bracelet you always wanted to fit with your outfit! )

Buuuttt, I am also constantly ambitious ( ever since childhood where I was featured in the newspapers for winning the best student award ) and would be the guy to work without retiring, constantly building new businesses or trying new side projects
Professionally wise, I work for a Global organisation, helping students from across the world become entrepreneur.

I grew up most of my life in the Middle East and am currently in South India, helping my parents set up a small ice cream shop. But now I am ready to move out and settle somewhere else, depending on my partner of course!
I speak a bit of French, Spanish, German and Arabic, but I am fluent in caveman grunts ( Me like pizza, Jane like too ? ) 

Physically I like to stay fit and go to the gym ( can lift about 100+ kgs ) while also playing sports and going for long walks. I don’t want to be just the stereotypical gym bro and would love to learn tango and Pilates as well with you! I hope you also love playing sports or being active too.

Never had a relationship too, because I wanted to find peace and happiness on my terms before being with someone. Because How can I be happy with someone, if I am not happy with myself first ? Unfortunately that took waayyyy longer than I expected , but I feel I am more mature and emotionally ready for finding that one partner where we can cook together, explore the world , build a business empire and pet every stray dog we come across!

I love learning, reading and being curious about the world ( everything from art to psychology to quantum mechanics to aunty politics ). I would learn everything about your field and find the right inside jokes for it too haha

I am mostly a warm empathetic guy who is like a Hawaiian beach surfer 80% of the time but when things get serious, I know how to lock in and take charge long enough to stabilise the situation before going back to playing around ( like a mix of warm competence who can calmly solve things but while making jokes the whole time lol )

For me, I believe in acts of service, taking the extra effort to surprise you and know how to deescalate situations. We would never fight as I would always suggest we grab a cheesecake and discuss the problem instead of fighting with my partner. 

I want to be your rock during hard days, help you grow professionally, tease you whenever you act cocky, flirt with you during zoom calls, have long talks till dawn and be cheesy romantic whenever it starts raining and pull you to the terrace while we slow dance. ( and get sick together the next day lmao )

We would actually love grocery shopping together because we would do silly games together like pretending we are spies for the perfect orange lol

Mostly an introvert who dislikes loud crowds and would rather sit quietly in the room with you while we read books on the same sofa with soft classical music playing ( every hour I would break the silence only to ask if you would like another cup of tea )

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Let's see where the vibes take us— open to friend, dating, short/long term relationships.

I want to meet men who like to chat often, hang out, go to movies , try new foods, museums, conventions, concerts, city events, etc

I'm cool with friends from anywhere but I'm primarily looking for local people to actually meet now and have fun !

Open to ages 25 and older but prefer men similar to my age group

Must be drug/std free

Never married no kids

I'm 5'8" tall curvy/average build busty blond hair brown eyes

I'm 31 and a software developer in Indiana. Outside of work, I love games of pretty much any kind; video games, board games, card games. I shoot recurve archery, and I sketch. I'm on the liberal side politically, I'm a little curvy and working on being healthier, and I ultimately just want to find my person and fall in love. I'm not trying to force anything or rush into a relationship, but that's what I'm hoping to find eventually.

I'm attracted to East and Southeast Asian men, and I tend to prefer a slimmer build. I have a huge weakness for Korean guys.More than anything, though, I want someone I genuinely click with, someone I can talk to, laugh with, grow with, and who brings out the best in me while I bring out the best in him. If that sounds like something you're looking for too, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. There's a current picture of me on my profile.

If you'd like to chat, please send me a message with your age, ethnicity, and favorite TV show! 😊

Hi! I'm 27, Korean, 5 ft 8, from the Boston area.

Outside of work, I like to disconnect and ideally be away from screens. I enjoy going on a long walk, building a Lego set, taking a night drive, trying a new café, finding hidden gems in the city, or cranking the music on a night in.

I've also been dipping my toes into photography. My favorite subjects are the ducks waddling around at the park.

My only hard no's are smoking, vaping, and weed.

If that's you, where have you been all my life? Message me and let's get to know each other!

Hi, I'm in SF I'm looking for someone to talk to, either short or long term. Maybe even meet up if the vibe is right. About me:

- Plays video games (big plus if you play Destiny, Marvel Rivals, or Valorant)

- Likes to go workout, and trying to start Muay Thai / kickboxing

- Likes to go dancing, especially salsa/bachata, but l'm not very good at it

- Likes to go traveling/exploring around cities and the beaches, so if you know a cool spot, hmu!

I'm also open to NSFW topics in case the convo goes there. I'm generally a pretty open book, so if you have any questions, feel free to ask. I can send a pic of myself if we vibe. I hope to hear from you soon!

I’m charming, friendly, witty, open-minded, and enjoy playful banter with someone who does not take herself too seriously. Relax, I want you to be in your own skin as much as possible. I’m a homebody by nature, but the right lass can make staying in feel like an adventure. Plus, it's your company I am after all, the activity, indoors or outdoors, is just the pretext to spend quality time with you.

I appreciate someone on the same wavelength, brimming with confidence, warmth, curiosity, and genuineness. I’m affectionate and attentive, with a naturally sensual side that shows when the chemistry is right. If we click, I’ll make sure you feel it.

I like food, either cooking up my own or scoffing down new delights I've yet to try. If you love cooking, my stomach will definitely give you it's thanks. I have numerous interests: tennis, table-tennis, pickleball, cycling, piano, drawing, content creation, co-op video games.

I would love a woman who is tall as me (or more!) as I stand at 6 feet. Ladies who like tall asians, perhaps your palate for oriental cuisine will be satiated. I have a soft spot for white females, having studied overseas and found their outlook in life as well as personality, admirable and refreshing.

At the end of the day, it all boils down to whether you and I have an affinity. Yes, a relationship can be built, but having a natural spark, makes it all the more valuable.

If you’re curious, slightly mischievous, and would love settling here in this tropical paradise, come say hi! I don't bite (not hard anyway, perhaps a nibble, it can't be helped if you are a tasty treat no?)

Slender Asian male, introverted, not much of a talker, "guarded," but looking for a friend and more. I'm quite introverted/quiet. Looking for someone local so please be local. My experience with LDR hasn't been great. People flake or ghost or lose interest. Please, no avoidants. I'm looking for someone emotionally mature and able to be my rock, someone kind and caring.

5'9" 165 Korean American.

Have been told on numerous occasions that i look like Markiplier which i take as a compliment

Not sure what to say but finding it supremely difficult to meet new people since all my friends are married with families these days. As to why I'm not? I blame my hobbies and my penchant to get completely consumed by them.

Pretty chill and laidback and mostly just looking for the same. If you don't take things too seriously and are able to laugh at yourself we'll get along im sure

Anyways, good luck out there