r/askgaybros • • Apr 13 '17

Meta faq, wiki, trolls and you.

1.0k Upvotes

one of the most requested features i've seen is a frequently asked questions section, and we've always had one. it's within the wiki tab located at the top menu if you're browsing on desktop. here's the direct link to it, but since it's a wiki feel free to check out the other sections and please contribute.

with that out of the way, a couple things i want to clear up in case anyone is wondering:

  • i do not mind repeated questions. the whole point of this subreddit is to talk to people. if it's not entertaining you anymore, maybe browse it less. no, i will not sticky every other psa post.
  • i do utilize automod extensively and it helps with a lot of troll post removal behind the scene. so if you see a troll post, continue to downvote, report, and move on, and do not engage. the majority of you get this, and it's been working out quite well.
  • the rules haven't changed, but make sure you're aware of them.

have fun.


r/askgaybros • • 1h ago

Not a question Testosterone = More Masculine look?

• Upvotes

Nope, not quite. My brother used to tell me that I look somewhat feminine because I lack testosterone and I should take testosterone to look more masculine like facial features. When he saw my blood sample he was shocked cause I had more than double the testosterone he had and it turned his world upside down lmao. He still to this day keeps thinking that being gay also means too little testosterone.. Can‘t prove him otherwise cause I‘m not out haha


r/askgaybros • • 5h ago

How common is it to have seen your friends naked?

70 Upvotes

I'm 32 and I've never seen a single one of my friends naked but I constantly hear stories about people accidentally or purposefully seeing friends naked. Have I just been unlucky or is it not as normal as it seems.. and better yet, how do I make these kinds of friends


r/askgaybros • • 6h ago

how to destroy your mental health

64 Upvotes

download gay dating apps 😍


r/askgaybros • • 13h ago

Advice Regret not doing it

211 Upvotes

My best friend and I used to mess around when we were teenagers. Started off watching porn together and seeing who’s cock was bigger. Then it moved into him jerky me off a couple of times.

Then the last time we got hot together, I was in a sleeping bag on the floor. We’d been watching a lot of porn so we were jacked up. I was on my stomach and he slipped off his bed and started grinding me. I managed to get the sleeping bag down and he was sliding his cock between my cheeks on my boxers. I still remember the feeling and wish I had just pulled my boxers down… he came and cum soaked my boxes

Still think I should have just let it happen…


r/askgaybros • • 9h ago

Not a question I personally think 4 to 6 inches is the hottest size.

83 Upvotes

Before I was a strict top i used to bottom because I was insecure about my size. Basically the size of a 8 oz redbull can.

I've been around.

Anything above 6 hurts a lot. It feels like something is getting punched in there and it's bad.

4 to 6 was the best I've ever felt. All of them made me drip pre cum then I realized if those dick size can make me feel so good, then that means mine should feel good.

I tried topping and it felt so much better but then been a strict top ever since.

I do have tje urge to bottom from time to time but after I jack off the urge goes away.


r/askgaybros • • 2h ago

would you say that you're good at sucking dick? 🤔

24 Upvotes

r/askgaybros • • 5h ago

He probably won’t enjoy it because of my small dick

35 Upvotes

I’ve started seeing a guy recently. We’ve been having a great time together. I often stayed at his place. So far we’ve only been doing kissing and touching stuff.
He wants to be a bottom and I’ve only been a top in previous relationships. I am short (5’7) and my penis is not that big, about 5 inch. He is way taller than me (6’1).
I was worried that I might be too small for him, so I told him what I’m afraid of. And he said he thought about it too and that it is probably true and he won’t be satisfied with my penis. I appreciate his honesty but it is a very harsh truth to hear. I feel really bad. I don’t know how to act around him. It makes me very sad and uncomfortable.


r/askgaybros • • 6h ago

Is it normal to have a visible bulge in sweatpants?

38 Upvotes

I'm one of those guys whose bulge is always completely visible whenever I wear sweatpants. It doesn't bother me but I also don't want to look vulgar out on the street. I see some dudes who just own it with confidence, how do I do the same? Lol


r/askgaybros • • 1h ago

Average size?

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Ive been forced into believing that everyone has a huge penis because I’ve watched porn to much and everyone I hooked up with was pretty big compared to mine. Ive been very insecure of mine in the past and wondering what is the actual size.
Feel free to say your size and we can see Whats the average and help people who might be insecure aswell.


r/askgaybros • • 4h ago

Do ya‘ll like cum?

18 Upvotes

Honest question. I see these guys liking it so much and I don’t understand it myself lmao. And nah I‘m not a top, I‘m vers bottom. But still would probably whoop yo ass if you got that stuff on my face.
I got told that my cum tastes kinda like vanilla. But I certainly don’t see it, it tastes salty and bad with most guys..


r/askgaybros • • 4h ago

My friend said this to me..

17 Upvotes

He said he was gay, but not part of the LGBTQ+ community. What exactly does this mean? Sorry if this is offensive.


r/askgaybros • • 3h ago

Are men sexualized in Media enough for your taste?

16 Upvotes

Western media of course. Obviously we will never reach the level of sexualization women experience, but it has definitely increased in the last few years. Or maybe you don't like men being sexualized?


r/askgaybros • • 9h ago

For the Gaymers out there, Which video game character would you hookup with if you had the chance?

44 Upvotes

Arthur Morgan from RDR2 is at the top of my list.


r/askgaybros • • 2h ago

Advice Is it just me? lol

10 Upvotes

Hi! I wanted to share a feeling I’ve been having, and see if anyone else relates to this. I recently came out as gay and have started seeing men—usually around my own age, or a year or two younger. I happened to come across this guy on Grindr; we really hit it off, he had a great outlook on life, he was cute, and he was wealthy... well, as it turns out, he’s 48, and I’m 20. He was very respectful and said he’d understand if I didn’t want to get into anything, though he was very interested. I’d actually love hook up w him, but there’s something that’s really bothering me: he looks SO much like my father. Now, my father is a very handsome man, but I don’t feel any kind of attraction toward him—obviously! We’re best friends, and I’m so happy to have him as my dad. I feel incredibly strange for being attracted to this man, and I’m not sure I could ever be intimate with him without constantly thinking about how much he resembles my father... what should I do? Is this normal?


r/askgaybros • • 8h ago

Men Kissing....

34 Upvotes

As I have gotten older, two men kissing passionately is one of the hottest things to me. When I was young, I just wanted sex. Now I have gotten to a place where deeply intimate sex is what I am wanting. I can be sensual for hours with a guy before we ever get to the actual sex. Anyone else feel this way or am I the weird one?


r/askgaybros • • 6h ago

I'm not gay but does anyone else like their own smell?

22 Upvotes

I (21m) for some reason really like the smell of my own body. It is just so appealing to me. I don't understand why it smells so good. Specifically my armpits and my crotch, like it kind of turns me on. And especially if I haven't showered in a couple days. Also the way some other guys smell makes me go a little crazy. Like it's not their cologne or anything, it's just the way some of them naturally smell and it really makes me want to shove my face in their armpits and their crotch and take a deep sniff. But obviously I wouldn't actually do that lol.

I was wondering does anyone else experience this or am I a total weirdo?


r/askgaybros • • 15h ago

Not a question As an African living in Africa I envy y'all Proud Ghanaian

106 Upvotes

I see all your posts all the time I laugh 😜, I cry 😢😭, I get sad, but most of all I envy. Y'all I wish life was a bit easy and understanding for us here in Africa . Being open and being proud of who we are and wanna be has always been a problem but we live,we thrive we excell in ways unimaginable. As someone who's travelled and seen some of the world we need a lot of help it doesn't just happen for us, we try honestly.

I'm just happy to here and be a part of this community I'm literally in tears.


r/askgaybros • • 1h ago

Advice How long do you wait for a guy to cum when you’re bottoming?

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If we’ve done some foreplay, and they haven’t cum by 15 mins or so after penetration, I’m over it. If he’s jerking me off, I’ve definitely cum by that point anyway.

Anyone else feel like this? I wish I could go all night like a pornstar, but I can’t.


r/askgaybros • • 7h ago

What are your kinks/turn-me-ons?

23 Upvotes

Just wondering what others find attractive on men, specifically things that many other people don’t or at least isn’t something common that turns everybody on. So for example, I would say that I have a special thing for Calvin Klein boxers, that really is the hottest a thing someone can wear, love the design and looks perfect on men. Another thing for me are six packs, I know that everybody loves them, but for me, that is the best muscle group on men. Another muscles on men that I love, are calves. Don’t know why, but I just find them very hot.


r/askgaybros • • 55m ago

How weird is it that at 28 years old I still haven’t bottomed?

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I topped once.


r/askgaybros • • 11h ago

Anyone else lose their erection right before penetration because they start overthinking?

38 Upvotes

Hey guys, I’m 24M and relatively inexperienced sexually (still a virgin when it comes to penetration).
During previous hookups, I could maintain strong erections and enjoy blowjobs without overthinking.
But now I’m seeing someone I genuinely really like, and things feel different. I get aroused and enjoy foreplay, but as soon as I’m about to penetrate, I start thinking too much and lose my erection. Sometimes I also get so aroused during oral sex that I feel close to ejaculating very quickly.
I’m wondering if this is performance anxiety, especially because I really like this guy.
I consulted a doctor, and my blood tests were mostly normal. My kidney function is good, and testosterone is 789 ng/dL.
My doctor prescribed tadalafil 2.5 mg daily, along with start–stop techniques, Kegels, and limiting ejaculation to once a week.
Has anyone experienced this? Did you overcome it and eventually manage to have enjoyable sex without relying on medication?
Would really appreciate your experiences and advice!


r/askgaybros • • 4h ago

Advice Taste of Cum

10 Upvotes

Has anyone ever tasted their own cum and how was the experience. Thinking about swallowing my own cum and I want to know how it taste


r/askgaybros • • 4h ago

When was the first time you stood your ground as being gay?

7 Upvotes

When was the first time you found courage and said “no, I don’t like girls, I like man, I’m gay”
You stood up for yourself, you took courage and said it out loud, you said that yes you are gay and this is it.
When did you first found that courage to say that?

I’ve been out for 2 years, but it still feels uncomfortable to say it out loud, to stand the ground.
The other day I was in a car with other guys, going to play football, and one, who didn’t know I was in a relationship with a man, made a light joke about gays, everyone laughed, I don’t think it was particularly venomous, but it did bite me. I laughed with them, because that part was not the whole joke, yet I felt I couldn’t take my side, I couldn’t defend my identity, and so the others in educating him.

I don’t feel I have the courage to say it out loud and define myself, to everyone I encounter, “I’m gay, this is me, this is my identity and what I am”