I live in a large city in southern Italy. I work as a Project Controller in the railway infrastructure sector for a large Italian company, earning around €35,000 gross per year (approximately €25,000 net). By local standards, I have a good job and a decent salary, but career progression is limited and salary increases are unlikely to be significant.
Over the past 11 years, I haven't been particularly frugal. I travelled, enjoyed life and tried to start two businesses, neither of which worked out. Now I live with my girlfriend, and we're considering buying a home. Despite both of us working and being reasonably careful with money, we find it difficult to achieve the financial freedom we'd like: travelling, eating out more often and enjoying life without worrying too much about expenses.
There's also a lifestyle aspect. I love Italy, but I often feel out of step with certain aspects of everyday life here. I value organization, cleanliness, efficient public transport, punctuality and respect for shared spaces. Moving abroad has always been a dream of mine, but having a secure job made me postpone it for years.
After considering several countries, Switzerland remains my main option, although I'm also considering Germany and Austria. I'm seriously thinking about learning German to improve my chances of finding a job abroad. I understand that these countries have their own challenges, including high living costs, cultural differences and difficulties integrating, but I feel ready to explore a different way of life.
My girlfriend would be willing to move with me. She currently works in a bar, so we would both need to find jobs and adapt to a new environment. Ideally, I'd like to continue my career in railway infrastructure, project control or project management.
I'd really appreciate advice from people who have made a similar move, especially those working in these countries.
Is Switzerland a realistic target for someone with my professional background, or would Germany or Austria be a better starting point?
How important is German for finding a qualified job in railway infrastructure or project control? Can English be enough initially?
For couples who moved abroad together, how difficult was it for both partners to find work and integrate?
Did your quality of life and ability to save genuinely improve after accounting for housing and other living expenses?
If you left Italy while having a relatively secure job, would you make the same decision again?
I'm not expecting to become rich. I simply want better career prospects, greater financial stability as a couple, and the feeling that working hard allows us to enjoy life rather than just pay the bills.
I'd particularly appreciate honest, real-life experiences, including from people who eventually returned to Italy. Thanks!