My one year anniversary of being in this city will be in a few months and I categorically refuse to let that date go by without making at least one good friend. This city is so horribly cliquey and even if it wasn't, Gen Z and millennials are so overworked, overstressed and socially atomised that we're basically living like bees in a nest. Everyone wants real connection but we're all too fucking scared to go out and look for it.
I refuse to go into another book shop and try to strike up a conversation only to either get looked at like I'm insane or given a phone number and then left on read. We need to put effort in to rebuild the social connections that society fucked up.
Listen, I'm an introvert too. Forcing myself out into public places and hobby shops to try to find some social interaction is like pulling teeth. I GET IT. But I don't care if you're anxious about irritating me or making a fool of yourself. I want you to irritate me. You irritating me is a privilege that I would vastly prefer over simply never speaking to anyone.
I don't care if the only people who respond to this are some drunk fratboys who get into a fist fight with me, as long as we can laugh about it in the hospital. Anything, anything at all is better than this weird dystopian bullshit.
I'm in Durbanville and I want to meet people. My proposed time and place is Bootleggers cafe this Saturday the 6th at 1PM. If it's far, that's fine. I will straight up pay for a few people's Ubers. If you're anxious about meeting people in public, then a bunch of you can chill at my place and we can chat there.
For the love of fuck, guys, please don't make me resort to going to a fucking hiking group or a goddamn board games meetup.
Edit: Alright. The interest in this post has been both sudden and immense (I'm simultaneously disappointed and glad I'm not the only one struggling to meet people so much) but the good news is we now formally have a Whatsapp group. Open to anyone that wants to meet some new buddies! I can't post here without making the spam bot angry, but please let me know if you want an invite.
(Big thanks to the mods for reinstating the post and giving permission to repost the link to the Whatsapp group! https://chat.whatsapp.com/GSZ3tIn6DXw10TmCgrHGMs?mode=gi_t)