Will write in English since my Swedish is not that good, this post is directed to other inmigrants in Sweden or Swedes who have lived abroad.
When I got here in 2024, I thought Sweden was such a beautiful place, I fell in love with the infrastructure, the peace, how good the work-life balance is, how well people live off, it even felt kinda like a little bubble of prosperity on earth compared to where I'm from.
By year 1 I was still getting adapted but the winter depression hit, and it hit hard, I cried a lot, I was so homesick for the food, the warmth of people, and I didn't have any friends to hang out with, wasn't prepared for the brutal weather either so I had to invest in rain and winter clothes.
By year 2, things got way better, I was prepared for the second winter, started working out, take my vitamin D, had solid relationships to hang out with and even found a girlfriend! Things started to get good.
Now, almost on my 3rd year, and things are starting to look great for me, I have a solid job with great pay, my immigration status getting solidified and soon to be permanent, and I am proud of myself for learning Swedish on my own.
Most people that I've met who migrated to Sweden (from other parts of Europe, the Americas or Asia) they all agree with the fact that Sweden (or Scandinavia) is quite brutal to adapt to. Takes time to get used to the fact that everything is expensive, there's no restaurant/bar/café life quite like other countries, people are polite but always cold and afraid of strangers, and it takes a very long time to befriend people.
Do you guys feel the same way as inmigrants?
Note: I'm looking for some more friends, so feel free to message me if you like videogames or hiking :)