Ok so I’m 17, and I noticed that after masturbating, one side of my labia seemed more larger than the other. The other side looks normal, and I’m not sure if this is something that happens normally or if I should be concerned.

I haven’t experienced this before, so I’m a little worried. Could it just be temporary swelling from friction or increased blood flow? Has anyone else experienced something similar, and how long did it take to go away?

I’d appreciate any advice or reassurance. Thank you!

I have come across two posts the last few days and the responses of the OP after getting the answers seem off.

One was asking if men genuinely still liked their wives bodies after giving birth, even if it wasn't as firm etc and not just because they loved them.

The answers were overwhelmingly positive, with men saying they loved it, sexiwr than ever, reassuring OP that the fact she was still having sex twice a day with husband was a big hint he was into her.

She hated the responses and argued with people, "she" wanted to believe it and kept on with her narrative throughout the comments.

Another was a women who wanted to know why men hated and wouldn't like a women with pronounced labia. Same thing lots of reassurance men saying they hadn't really heard of that and would just be happy to have sex with an attractive women and wouldn't be put off etc. Then again the person completely denounces this view and tries to reinforce their believe that vast amounts of men feel this way despite seeing evidence to the contrary.

I honestly don't know what to make of it. The only men who would have these views are the same types who would want women to feel insecure about it. With the pushback I really wondered the actual purpose of the posts.

I need to know 😔

Just a random thought, looking at how much the world has even changed in the past 5 years, just wanted some opinions on some people that may have more knowledge than me on this subject. What new technologies will be standard soon and how will daily life change on a day to day basis?

Mine is Dealer - Lana

I was just thinking but anything man creates always goes out of style or becomes outdated, but i noticed anything natural never looks outdated or goes out of style. Luxury homes go out of style. Cars, clothing, etc always look dated. But i noticed like you could look at nature 1000 years ago and its timeless beauty. Same with granite, diamonds, tree, and flowers.

Why is everyone buying courses that has inviduals speaking facts and knowledge over topics that you individually could just do your own research on and get your own point of view on the information. Just want to hear some opinions and thoughts

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Hello everyone, it’s my birthday in a few days but I don’t really have friends or anyone close to me that I could celebrate with. Can anyone suggest me a few things I could do on my own, and a bit budget friendly? I’m a student and I just wanna have a little bit celebration for myself because hey, I lived another year! Thank you very much :)