r/AskLEO • u/Critical_File_1467 • 2h ago
General How do I get in touch with this guy?
I got pulled over the other day for touching the white line while driving.
The guy had me sit in the front passenger seat with him, and, overall, it took close to 3 hours before I left.
We had a fascinating conversation. He asked me where I was coming from, where I was going, etc. I told him I was coming from a friend's house, and, I was headed home. We somehow ended up talking about what I did at my friend's house and I started asking him questions too, like, how long was he a deputy, whether he gets annoyed when people call him officer instead of deputy, whether he liked his administration, whether he liked to go hands on or use his Taser, whether he ever had to shoot someone, why the other deputies wear class Bs and belts while he's wearing a chest rig, etc. We even talked about what we did after work, the bars we liked to visit, the parties we liked to attend, and what we did for side money. He liked to work construction events, while I liked to go on Craigslist and look for "gig work," which he was very interested in. I told him I did all kinds of gig work, from taking someone's grandma to the dialysis clinic to moving packages around for people to unclogging toilets.
Eventually, in our conversation, another few cars showed up, and they walked a dog around my car a few times, and it sat down at one point, and, I saw several other guys going through my car during my conversation in the passenger seat. The deputy I was chatting with never missed a beat, he said it was routine, and, I'd be on my way shortly. There was even a guy with gold lettering instead of the usual white letting on his chest rig who showed up, and, I asked the deputy who that was. That was apparently his supervisor. I asked the deputy if they called him Big Sarge to his face or only behind his back, and, the deputy just laughed it off.
Eventually, the deputy stopped our conversation and I was left standing roadside with all my stuff in my car on the side of the road and the door panels on top of my trunk.
Anyway, that was probably the first long conversation I've had for years in which someone was actually, genuinely interested in me. I'm wondering a) would there be a way to find this guy's name? I forgot to look at his name badge and remember the name on it, and, b) would it be appropriate to ask him out for a coffee?