Gonna sound like a boomer here, but it seems to me like gym etiquette in Singapore gyms in general has taken a dip for the worse. For context, I've been a casual gymmer since I was in university 20 years ago so I have seen the progression of gymmers from gen Xs/millenials to gen Xs/millenials and now, Gen Zs. Have gymmed in school gyms, AF, Safra, FF (basically the whole gamut).

I generally like to finish my gym session in 1 - 1.5 hours so it's really just focused sets with 1 - 2 min breaks in the middle. However, the young kids nowadays take so damn long to do a set (and multiples of them want to share) that I end up waiting 5 - 8 min for my next set.

Just yesterday, someone asked to share (not generalizing but it was a young kid), and I said Ok. The dude took 2 min to add additional plates, then rests awhile before actually doing the exercise, proceeds to do single arms (so double the time), rests between the arms, and then just gets off without unloading to my original weights. All in all, it was about 5 min. I was baffled.

That's just one of the more egregious examples but there are many more examples e.g. wearing uncovered footwear to the gym, 1 person asking to share and then suddenly its the whole gang, doing 1 arm exercises when 2 arms is equally efficient etc.

I usually just make mine at the Owndays.

They are affordable so I didn't expect them to last.

My issue is that I have the habit of washing my spectacle during the shower so there is a chance that I will drop them on the ceramic tile floor and scratch the lens while soaping them (slippery).

The other solution is to wash them in the kitchen sink but hard habit to break and I always end up walking into the shower with the spectacle on.

I have heard of brands like Kodak, Hoya offering their lens and wondering if these are tougher?

Please share if you have one that are less prone to scratches.

I (30f) recently started work with this SME. The HR manager is a local guy in his late 50s. This is the second time that it has happened. The man doing this to me is the bloody HR manager. I look around me and everyone is stone faced, I dont know why tf am I being targeted. He kind of says it as a joke but the fact that he did it AGAIN is really pissing me off. The lack of professionalism is bloody outrageous.

The first time it happened I just gave a nervous laugh and looked away. This time just a strained smile but I know the irritation was clear on my face. If there is a third time there will be a murder trial. (For legal purposes.../s)

Wtf can I do? I want to make sure to nip the issue at the bud before this becomes a TAFEP case.

hi im from poly and i’m interested in the ntu nie bachelor in arts/discpline for pri pathway. can i know whats the gpa needed to be able to get in :)

ps; i know they say the scholarship doesn’t focus much on gpa but come on… we all know it contributes to the decision hahaha

I just learnt that in some countries, it’s commonplace (well, depending on socioeconomic situation of course) for people to see a family doctor at least annually for a health check-up, and sometimes the children have dedicated paediatricians. I’m wondering if that’s the case in SG as well?

As a child I was never taken to the doctor’s for regular check-ups unless there was something serious. And I’ve never gone to the dentist outside of the free school check-ups. Not great because I used to have a lot of cavities and had to get 3 molars pulled out in early primary school…

How many of you guys have had regular appointments even when you weren’t sick? How often? And do you go to a specific family doctor each time, or doctor-hop?

Is getting a 2rm BTO as a single basically locking in your singlehood for life?

Assuming you get a flat allocated, it's another 3 years to build, 5 years to MOP (or 10 for plus/prime). Basically locking you into singlehood for the next 8-13 years. If you somehow find a partner before MOP, and need a bigger space, you are in a terrible position unless you are wanting to go the resale route and basically forfeit your BTO privileges

What are some skills that older generations used to know how to do, but younger people nowadays generally don't learn anymore? I'm talking about practical, hands-on skills that are becoming less common but are still very useful and can earn you a decent living.

For example, knowing how to repair air conditioners, fix electrical appliances, do plumbing, or repair things around the house. Nowadays, many people would rather pay someone to fix these things because they don't know how to do it themselves.

I'm curious to hear from people who have experience in these trades or know someone who does. What are some underrated skills that are still in demand, have good earning potential, and might be worth learning today? Especially skills that could potentially turn into a side hustle or even a full-time business!

Hi,

If you are a civil servant (or was previously one), how long were you stuck in MX12 and MX11 respectively?

Suppose you’re stuck in mx11/12 for 4 years, with C+ for two consecutive years, will you consider transferring to another role (that you prefer) which may reset your promotion cycle?

If you’re a public servant in stat boards do chime in as well. Curious to know.

Edit: my boss recognises my work but hints that my portfolio not high profile. That being said, I personally think the competition in my department is not super high.

It’s damn dumb but according to the Association of trade. You need to have a business then register in order to see the people who won the awards?

It’s kinda bizarre to me. Especially since I’m like going to run a bootstrapped start up in Payroll Software, looking for solutions. Why even have the awards list if you can only login to see?

Asking this for a friend… If someone is allowed to visit Singapore for 30 days and booked their return tickets for the 47th day, would they be rejected from boarding the plane?
If they manage to make it to Singapore somehow, can they just tell the immigration officers that they will apply for the 30 day extension showing the return ticket. If extension is not granted they will leave so no illegal stuff.

🥲 visited the other day and it felt kind of lacking now compared to the magic when I was a kid,,, maybe its js nostalgia lol i do know its relocating so maybe thats why

What is the fire insurance claim process? How do you determine cause of fire, is it get Fire report from scdf? If it's electrical fire, how to detail it?

Some background information, I’m currently 21 yo (female, so I don’t have to go NS 😅). Graduated with experiential product & interior design diploma and currently working at my internship company that designs high end hotels (hospitality sector).

I’ve been working since 2025 June, so it’s been roughly 1y+, and I’ve been thinking on whether I should pursue a degree soon. I do want to study university, if we are speaking purely on my interest wise, I’m interested in psychology (who isn’t haha). But doesn’t have to necessarily be this course.

Many of my current co-workers have been telling me to pursue a degree/telling me to change industry, or telling me I’ll regret it if I don’t get a degree. My relatives are also in favour of me getting a degree, with the sole exception being my dad. He thinks that degree is a waste of time (in his opinion) and that I’ll be too behind my other peers if I go pursue full-time degree next year. I do think his words have merits to it. But so do my co-workers.

Unfortunately, if I do want to pursue full-time, I will have to loan/apply for financial scheme because I don’t have financial support, and living expenses comes from my own pocket. (Yes I’m basically on my own). But I’m also well aware the hard work that I will have to put in if I keep my full-time job and take on part-time degree.

So here comes my question, to those that have studied part time degree or those that have been working with only diploma, or whoever has insight to situations similar to mine, what do you do in this scenario? Or any kind of advice 🥲🥲 because I feel like I’m at a lost with so many people telling me what I should be doing… It would be great to hear about your own personal experience and how you are doing in life right now. It’s like I’m stuck in the middle of a crossroad with zero visibility on where the paths will take me.

Sorry for the long yap and thank you if you read the whole thing lol.

Tldr; should I pursue full-time or part-time degree as a 21yo with zero financial support? Or do I continue working in the design sector and NOT pursue a degree for now?

I know mods might take this down for not being specific enough to Singapore but I really want to ask fellow Singaporeans.

I’m on multiple antidepressants and I have a comfy, well paying job. I have a loving boyfriend. 1 or 2 supportive friends. But in this cityscape I find it hard to find reasons to keep going. Everyday is a battle.

I’m 27F. Please can some older folks share stories of their lives….

For those who went from 2B → 2A → Class 2, did anyone here only ride bikes during riding school lessons and never actually ride outside after passing TP?

If so, was it still possible to pass the next licence levels with just the school lessons, or did you find the lack of riding experience made it much harder?

Curious to hear from anyone who has done this. Any tips?

Hi all! Anyone knows any adult scoliosis treatment to recc? Have been having frequent lower back pain on my right because of scoliosis.

Just found out that 31st October halloween is falling on a Saturday and wanted to find out if there’s gonna be any happening parties with alcohol this coming Saturday night. 10 years ago Clarke quay and Boat Quay would have been the place to be to party all night long but that’s not the case now unfortunately. Was wondering where else do people go to for some Halloween nightlife parties.

26F, just a normal female working in her first full time job for close to 3 years now. still complain/cry about my job almost everyday but the job market is super bad n this job pays well = beggars can’t be choosers :-( honestly, as the year is coming to an end aka. i’m also growing older… im just thinking bout my future and whether am i happy with my current life. are u guys happy?

I’m a fresh grad and applied for an audit associate role in all of the big 4 firms in September and October. It has been 2-3 weeks and now closing in to a month but no reply, do I assume I got rejected or is it because there are 1000s of applications that they need to filter, the uncertainty is killing me. What do I do at the moment? Apply for mid tier firm FT?

Anyone who are fresh grads right now too share your experience thanks!! I just feel very depressed the more days pass by but no reply, checking my mail everyday.

Hi! I have never dressed up as any character before in any events and this year for halloween horror night im going on the 31st (halloween) and i plan to dress up in a full body suit.

its my first time and im nervous, is there anyone else dressing up on that night too? mind sharing your costume idea? i need a little confidence 🥹

Hi there, wanted some advice or if anyone has any experience on keeping a gap between the kitchen windows (yes aware the need to keep to maintain cohesive look for condo) but having it closed and then building like a backing for more kitchen space?

My main concern would be being unable to check for the hinges and windows in future with tougher access, mold, heat trapping, not sure if it is a BCA fire hazard issue?

Does anyone have any advice or experience on the matter?

Wouldn't have considered this if I had better options to optimize space in the kitchen :(

Thanks

Can be anything from daily necessities and household essentials to snacks or your favourite food items.

What are some products you swear by or always recommend to your friends/family?

Heading to Singapore for 4 days with our 16-month-old and staying in Bugis.
We love food, particularly street food and local spots, as well as nature, parks and exploring neighbourhoods.
Would love recommendations for places to eat, things to see and do, and any hidden gems worth checking out. Particularly keen on places that are manageable with a toddler.
Not looking to pack too much into each day, just keen to experience as much of Singapore as we can at a relaxed pace.

Thanks!

Have you ever looked back at your life and thought, “If someone had told me a few years ago that I'd be going through all this, I would never have believed them”?

Sometimes life throws so many unexpected things at you, one after another, that it honestly feels like you're living in a drama series. Things you never imagined experiencing, situations you never thought you'd be in, and problems you never expected to face at this stage of your life.

Anyone else feel this way? I'd love to hear your stories!

I want to try buying progressive lenses from an online website. I need to key in a prescription.

If I go to a neighborhood spectacles shop it sometimes feel like I need to buy spectacles, though I know you can just pay money and get the prescription only.

Is there any place I can go to in SG just for a prescription where they are likely to not pressure you to buy? Thanks.