r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • Oct 21 '25

Join the MFO30 Discord Server

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We're a small but active SFW 30+ community discussing a wide range of topics every day. It's an amazing group of friendly people and we're always glad to see new folks join in: https://discord.gg/mfo30


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 7h ago

32f seeking long term intimate friendship :)

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open to all connections just matters if we vibe! I prefer to start on reddit & move to discord if it makes sense :)

-left leaning (no racists, homophobes, misogynists)

-partnered & partially open (feel free to ask about this if you're interested!)

-i enjoy horror, non fiction, documentaries, cozy games, etc

-would prefer to swap pics!

message me something cool and be normal!!!!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 10h ago

39F CA, looking for new friends

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Hey! I'm 39F in California. I've been divorced for three years and would love to make some genuine friends. My patents are both from Europe, but California has Europe, but California has been home for as long as I can remember. I enjoy good conversations, movies, trying new food, and a little humor. Feel free to say hi you're looking for platonic friendship too!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

[F4R] 32F Anyone up for a chat? 😅

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Hey, just looking to make some new platonic friends and have some good conversations.

Would be nice to meet people around my age who enjoy random chats, a bit of banter, or just talking about how their day is going.

I'm pretty easygoing, although I can be a bit terrible at replying sometimes haha🥲

Anyway, tell me a little about yourself or just say hi! 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 5h ago

[F4R] 39F Midwest just looking for some conversation!

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Hello! I just turned 39 (first time putting that anywhere!) and live in a major midwestern city in the US. I have an awesome dog and a handsome cat (pics on request or not). I enjoy art, crafting and crappy reality tv. I have one child current in college. I work from home and find myself in a very isolating situation currently. Outside of family or work I have 1 friend lol. Despite that I think I’m actually a pretty good conversationalist! I tend to be a little sarcastic and a smidge dark with my humor.

Just looking for some conversations and connecting with some human beings!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

[F4R] Gonna try this again take 2 [33F]

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Hey there! I posted the other day and got good responses...until they weren't good anymore wow some of y'all are wiiiiiild. ANYWAYS I'm looking for long term platonic friends or chat buddies, sending memes and tiktoks are a love language and I'm extremely nosy and want to know 100% of the info you're willing to share with a stranger on the internet. A bit about me:

Avid reader

Lover of the paranormal and anything spooky

Gardener that just tries really hard okay

I don't want to give too much away because whats the fun in that

Feel free to message anytime!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

36F CA Looking for a super short term friend🥰

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Looking for a super short term friend to share everything🔥


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 9h ago

[F4R] 33F looking for genuine friendships 🖤

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Hey everyone! 😊

I’m 33 year old, plus size woman and looking to make some new friends who are up for chatting, getting to know each other, and hopefully building genuine, long-term friendships.

A little about me! I’m a pretty laid-back, homebody type of person who enjoys road trips, going for drives, sightseeing, movies and TV shows, music (I listen to a little bit of everything), crocheting, and spending time with my family. I also enjoy jigsaw puzzles and diamond painting!

I can be a little shy at first, and my anxiety sometimes makes putting myself out there difficult, but I really do enjoy getting to know new people. 🥰 I’m hoping to find people I can talk to about everyday life, share random thoughts and memes with, laugh with, vent to when life gets stressful, and just be ourselves around.

I don’t expect anyone to be available 24/7, and I know we all have our own lives and responsibilities. I’d just love to find some people who genuinely want to make an effort to keep a conversation going and see where a friendship takes us.

If you're looking for friends too, and think we might get along, feel free to send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself or even just your current favorite show, song, or random fun fact. 💜

Looking forward to meeting some new people!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 5m ago

So trying this again to put myself out there 32yr old Aussie guy here

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Hey there 32 yr old Aussie guy looking for mates , I am into football I do water running for my local footy club when not doing that during the season I like gaming and photography and cooking

love hiking and love to go to the beach and hang out , I find It so hard to find friends in my mid 30s and keen to find those friends that are willing to chat and game or go out and hang out

feel free to send me a pm and I’m an open book so ask whatever u want


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 8m ago

[F4M] 34m#online - looking for awesome and special connections

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I’ve hit the reset button, cleared some space in my life and now I’ve got time, curiosity, and a little mischief to share.

I work remotely, so I’ve got a flexible schedule and a lot of freedom — maybe too much. I’m looking for someone open, fun, and a little flirty… someone who’s not afraid to send the first song, the first message, or maybe the first bad joke.

Music is my love language.

Gritty rock, moody synths, beats that make your chest thump — that’s my vibe. Got a song that feels like a secret? Send it my way. Let’s build a playlist that sounds like us.

Days are for work and wandering thoughts,

Nights are for skating, slow walks, and chasing the next great sound.

I’m not here for endless scrolling or small talk that fizzles out.

If you’re into good music, deep chats, and playful tension — let’s talk. I don’t bite (unless asked nicely).


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 6h ago

[R4R] A nerdy 31M looking to make new friends!

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Hey there all Im a southern deep voiced 31m who loves all things nerdy (please nerd out to me I love it) and horror! Halloween is and always will be my favorite holiday and time of the year 🎃. I love Spider-Man, Power Rangers, DnD, watching urban exploration, Anime, manga, and old cartoons and tv shows. I od have quite a bit of games I have in my rotation main one being DBD right now so you maybe we can play together as well. Feel free to shoot me a DM if you ever want to talk or need to vent. Looking forward to getting to know ya!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

[M4F] Survived another long shift! (M32)

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Single father of 3 hoping to chat and escape life for the evening. Most my time is spent working in the aviation industry and trying (kinda) to make it to the next day. When I get the chance I enjoy either gaming, or finding new unique music. Hope every one is having a good evening!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

[M4R] 34m uk

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I am 34 I live in England I moved away from my family and I only have one friend I am looking to make more I have ADHD and I have autism so I find it hard to make friends in pubs and jobs I am into music,films,cars,gaming and love listening to other people’s problems and getting to know them

Please message me I have been looking for ages


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 6h ago

32F - lets be friends ^-^

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Hey guys! Brazilian, 32y woman here, looking for friendship around the world just for chitchat, trade stories and experiences about culture and simple things of daily life.
Some of us (in the 30+ community) already can talk about our past like veterans talking about war. private war, mental war, but still, you get the idea haha

Even you just need someone to vent to, i'm here, you're not alone.

have a nice one up there ;)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 5h ago

[M4R] 38M | Arizona | Adulting Is Better With a Best-Friend

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Heyo! 38 here, gay, partnered, and living in Phoenix, AZ. Figured I'd put myself out there, again, and see if anyone else is looking for that genuine best-friend vibe.

I'm talking about having that best-friend you can grab a drink with, go on random adventures, plan a weekend trip, share some laughs, talk about life, and just enjoy each other's company. Someone where the friendship feels natural, you can be yourself, and you're both willing to put in the effort to make it something meaningful.

A little about me! I work in healthcare, specifically data and informatics. I'm also working on my master's in Industrial-Organizational Psychology with an emphasis in Leadership. Between work, school, and everyday life, I definitely appreciate finding time to get out and have some fun.

I'm a fan of a good brewery, especially for the atmosphere and food, wine tasting, and traveling whenever I can. During the warmer months, you'll probably find me paddle-boarding down the river. I'm also into museums, art, photography, and exploring new places. Honestly, I'm usually down for anything that gets me out of the house and experiencing something different.

Also, huge horror movie fan here! Haunted houses, ghost tours, creepy old buildings, urban exploration... I'm all about it. Anyone up for a haunted house weekend before Thanksgiving? 😂

One thing I'd really love is finding a travel buddy. Whether it's a spontaneous weekend road trip, checking out a new city, exploring somewhere off the beaten path, or planning a bigger adventure, it would be awesome to have a bro who's equally excited about getting out and seeing the world.

Ideally, I'd love to connect with someone local to Arizona so we could actually hang out and do things together. That said, I'm definitely open to long-distance friendships, especially if there's potential to eventually meet up or plan trips!

It would also be cool to connect with others who are married or partnered. Not a requirement by any means, but I think there's something nice about having a friend who understands the routines and responsibilities that come with being in a relationship, while also recognizing how important it is to maintain your own friendships and interests outside of that.

At the end of the day, I'm just looking for a solid friendship. Someone to shoot the breeze with, exchange random memes, make plans with, and hopefully build that kind of connection where you eventually stop thinking of each other as just friends and start feeling more like people you've known your entire life.

I know those kinds of friendships don't happen overnight, but you've got to start somewhere, right? I'm not looking for someone who's available 24/7. We all have lives, but making an effort and actually following through on plans goes a long way.

If you're looking for something similar, shoot me a message! Tell me a little about yourself, where you're from, and what kind of adventures you're into.

Bonus points if you're down for a haunted adventure, a spontaneous road trip, or a glass of wine after a long week. 😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 11h ago

30F | US | Looking to make some longterm friends

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Honestly just looking for some new people around my age, in the US, to talk to and hopefully become friends with.

My hobbies are pretty simple lol. I like sleeping way more than I probably should, playing video games (mostly FPS), and watching horror/comedy movies and shows, and snacking when bored.

I’m mostly looking for someone to fill in the random boring parts of the day. You know when you have something you wanna tell someone but then realize you don’t really have anyone to tell? Kinda looking for that person 😂

I’m pretty chill about talking. No expectations to talk every day or constantly keep a conversation going. If we disappear for a bit, whatever. If we end up talking all day, cool. If we vibe, we vibe.
I like conversations that don’t feel forced.

If you wanna talk, send me a message. Tell me what games or literally anything more interesting than “hey” lol.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 20m ago

41/M/Ca Graveyard gremlins, night owls or different timezones.

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I work graves so I tend to keep my same schedule when not at work. Looking for anyone to talk to and potentially develop a long term friendship if we vibe, preferably those with similar schedules or different timezone.

My hobbies vary from 3d printing, woodworking, gaming, hiking, biking etc.

I'm talkative and easy to get along with. If your replies end up being just "lol" or similar I'll likely stop talking. Ha.

Shoot me a message and we'll see where it goes. Please don't be (bad) weird or creepy.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 29m ago

[M4R] 35M - Open to Long Term Friendships to Build!

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Hi! I'm just looking to see who'd like to connect and talk, hopefully in the long term. Life flew by and I've lost touch with friends due to different life stages and also just the busy life.

I'll be realistic and admit that my responses will be sporadic throughout the day depending on how busy I am, but I have more time during the night. Reason being is because I'm happily married and have a child to raise so they are priority One.

So what are my expectations? There are some that'll I'll list below! We can have drawn out conversations, switch between any topics, or have a drawn out, slow conversation over the course of the day.

Mundane life stuff like work or weather? Sure!

Debate and politics? Philosophy? Why not!

Relationship advice? Want to vent? Feeling tired? All ears.

Or random topics like music, learning, languages, passion projects? I'd love to bounce ideas and whatnot.

Hell, I can review your resume (yes I've done this before with my friends).

About myself (and preferences!) :

-Live in California (PST). I'm open to any timezone if you're up to handle the time difference.

-I would prefer around my age group (+/- 6 years is good)

-I work from home (lucky me!)

-I am a little shy at first, but once I open up, well good luck lol. I can talk your ear off or message spam in short bursts that you may as well mute me.

-I play games (mostly PC and Xbox, but my main games are league of legends because somehow it's my comfort game (turning off all chat helps) and I'm big on single-player and story based co-op games and fine with FPS, platforming, and RTS genres). I also love rhythm games (I got a DDR pad and beat saber too!).

-I do read Manga and watch anime (from the typical Shonen like One Punch Man to the more obscure like Black Cat, Kaze no Stigma, and Elemental Gelade (yeah that old!)) That's about it. I don't have any streaming subscriptions so my TV/movie knowledge quite literally stops at 2016 besides whatever pops up on YouTube.

-I listen to a lot of music ranging from video game OSTs, JRock/JPop (like BandMaid, Scandal, and Suara), to power metal / rock (Dragonforce), to touhou and electroswing. So yeah I'm all over the place (whatever has a good beat!)

-I recently got an electronic drum kit, but I also have a guitar and an electric violin. No, I can't really jam, but I pick it up again here and there.

-I also love tinkering and fixing things so I have a 3d printer, I've also been working on a Linux set up with a windows pass-through. I got a raspberry pi for dns recursion. I'm very big on getting some type of open source, self hosted thing going. Yes, I'm that guy people go to for help. I've been on the internet for a long time..

-I also do like cooking and baking. I have a breadmaker and a soy milk maker. And yes, I do use them often because all I make is Shokupan for my wife and child (part of his lunch).

Any who, that's enough about me. If you're still reading this, you probably realize I have ADHD but I manage it.

Thanks for reading and looking forward to hearing from anyone! See you on the flip side and all the best.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 8h ago

31 Texas guy who love metal music and horror movies, looking for a friend!

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Heya! I hope everyone is having a good Monday! I am looking to meet a new friend who I can chat with and maybe hangout in person. I love going on hikes and concerts, I could always use a buddy to travel with. Message me if you're interested!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 48m ago

[M4F] 37 seeking long term friends

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Hi I'm 37 Male from the USA I'm newly pagan I'm a metalhead, into gaming, reading, nature, listening to audiobooks, podcasts, collecting things looking for friends with similar interests ask me anything I'm an open book


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 49m ago

hiii

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Hey everyone,

My name is emam (M), I’m 23 years old from Egypt. I’ve been a gamer for as long as I can remember — I spend most of my free time playing, whether online or offline. I also love movies and series and pretty much watch everything.

I’m quite introverted and calm by nature. I usually prefer listening more than talking, but once I feel comfortable with someone, I can talk about almost anything without limits or restricted topics. I’m not the type who pretends or plays roles; I like things to be genuine and comfortable.

I’m looking for a real relationship with a girl — age doesn’t really matter to me. I want something based on respect, calmness, and mutual understanding, not just empty conversations or wasting time. If anyone feels like chatting, feel free to message me. We don’t have to start with anything deep; a simple normal conversation is more than enough.

If you want to know anything else, just DM me


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 8h ago

40 M, Need to share my thoughts to someone

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Sometimes i feel i have no one to talk to. It makes me scared. And i am kinda introvert. Need someone to whom i can share my thoughts. To whom i can tell anything, to anyone who will not judge me. I have passed a considerable time in my life. Now i am tired of being a person who pretend to be anyone on others eye. Sorry, i could not describe myself properly.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

Anybody in NW England

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Hey all. I'm m 31 based near Liverpool. Looking for people to chat with on my long night shifts. Interested in outdoor activities cycling and fishing but will generally chat about anything


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

Anyone located in southern California??

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34M


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

[F4M] M/f couple 34/32 looking for some fun in TX!

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Couple looking for other couples! Let’s chat!!