r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 9h ago

37M - I'm launching a website called "OlderFans" where i post today's injury and the ridiculously ordinary thing that caused it.

53 Upvotes

Hello!

I'm 37 (old :D) , male. I'm not a human parent, but I have a beautiful cat. I never sleep... okay, I do sleep, but I'm available at flexible hours.

I'm passionate about life, people, love, culture, healing, the arts, mindfulness, and spirituality.

My life is filled with a mix of love, hurt, laughter, tears, joy, and pain. I adore to love, and all that it encompasses. I'm a loud voice and a cheerleader for people living their authentic life; however they define that.

If you'd like to make a real connection…I'M YOUR GUY! An introvert guy.

You can be from anywhere on this planet!

Just be over 20y/o and willing to be consistent.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 19h ago

45F Seeking friendships of all kind! Nerdier the better!

38 Upvotes

Hola, konnichiwa, and gutentag! I'm here for, surprise surprise, new friends! As an old school nerd (Lycos, Yahoo, heck, AskJeeves was considered "new" in my day!), I'm happy to talk to anyone about anything, whether it's 1990's anime, early 2000's video games, books, and so on to any current going on in the much-more-readily available nerd sphere (no Infinity Castle yet, still stuck on Season 1).

But I beg, I plead, I ask you oh-so-kindly, please have some level of grammar! Please, the bar is SO low! Otherwise, pop in and say hi!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 7h ago

42 f wisconsin

25 Upvotes

Seeking new friends; US preference as I like to travel and would consider meeting friends avoid the country along the way. I prefer Snapchat, but do use other socials if needed.

👻 Mellamelly


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 12h ago

Hey 30f from Canada up late looking for someone to talk to

17 Upvotes

Started a new job and the hours fucking suck and i already had sleep issues. I manage but getting 3-4 hours of sleep and standing on your feet for 8 hours suuuucks. I’m up now and will have to work until 2:30 am tomorrow and probably won’t fall asleep until 5 am (mountain time). If these weird hours suit you feel free to message me! I’m open to talking about anything. I’m a boring fucking person but I like to banter and mess with ppl for fun lol or play psychologist at times. Or just have a normal conversation about anything, I’m a bartender so I have to work on my conversational skills anyway. But I won’t be any fun if you make me do all the work though! All work and no play, as they say.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 22h ago

It's hard making friends nowadays 🥺

12 Upvotes

I'm 33F. I feel like I have no one to talk to because life keeps everyone busy. I'm an introvert but also a friendly person. I'd like to talk to someone about my day and hear about their day too. I have a busy life but I still feel like I'd love to have a friend to talk to and care about. I watch firefly wedding every Friday and play PUBG lol ( maybe I'm too old for that but oh well). Also I like cats. 🙋🏻‍♀️


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 22h ago

[F4M] 33 F from California

8 Upvotes

Feeling this wave of sadness and loneliness I don’t know why hoping I can find someone consistent as my texting friend ghosted me 😞 and please no nudes or sexting or NSFW accounts bonus if your from Cali 🥹


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 6h ago

[F4R] 30f just looking for casual conversation

9 Upvotes

I’m feeling a bit down this week and could use some conversation to help quiet my thoughts. I’d like to keep it lighthearted and not too deep as much as possible

A bit about me: I’m happily married, a mom to two daughters, bi, and live in Ohio. I love traveling, hiking, camping, reading, and photography

I will try to get to everyone who sends me a message but it may take some time, especially since I’m at work


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 11h ago

31F from Philippines, looking for a friend

7 Upvotes

Hey! 😊 I’m looking to make new friends and meet people I can talk to about anything and everything. Someone to share random thoughts, talk about our day, laugh at silly things, or have deep conversations with. Just looking for genuine, platonic friendships. If you’re looking for the same, feel free to send me a message! 💗


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 6h ago

36/F/TX wanna be friends?

8 Upvotes

hey. Hey. So yeah looking for real friends.

about me: I’m a gym rat, meal prep, enjoy my coffee, thrift queen, some times reader. Alt girl, heavily tattooed. Yes gym going alt girl. Work a typical 9-5 desk job. I have a dark sense of humor. some times dry sense of humor. It does take me a little bit t open up to people but once I do feel comfortable with you, best of luck.

Id prefer people in my age range, like 28-42. So we are likely in the same phase of life. I am looking for platonic friendships only. Creeps, weirdos, people who try and do more will be blocked and likely screenshoted for the group chat to make fun of how desperate you are.

#notabot


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 10h ago

35M Looking for people that don't fade away into nothing.

6 Upvotes

Hello! ☀️ 35M here and looking to meet new people and hear new stories. Share wins with as well as the losses. We are forever evolving and growing and I feel like sharing those journeys with others is important.

What i don't want in a friend is someone who isn't curious and doesnt ask questions. Most people want quick banter throughout the day which for the right person works, but i prefer just digging in. In reality most people's days are autonomous and similar. So what makes you tick? What made you the person you are today? What are your passions? What are your goals?

We all have lives outside of reddit. Responses don't have to be immediate i won't even message 24/7, but that shouldn't mean a conversation has to just end. Stick around get to know each other. Support each other as an actual friend does.

Now, the things about me. I am happily married and not looking for any sort of disruption to said marriage. I love movies and watching series on streaming services. I love travel. I enjoy video games now and then. I have a cat which is very loved.

Recently I've been going through a journey of self health both physically and mentally. Life gets hard sometimes. It costs nothing to be nice to someone. I love listening and giving advice if asked. I like stupid jokes now and then. We are all in this world together.

So if you'd like someone to regularly talk to that's kind, patient, compassionate, curious and actually cares. Feel free to send me a message. All it takes is some effort.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

43F Looking to Make Friends and Share Fun Conversations 🎃

5 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I’m 43 and a mom of two. I think it’s never too late to make new friends, and sometimes the best friendships start with a simple conversation. I’d love to meet genuine people to share laughs with, talk about interesting things, and enjoy life together

With Halloween coming up, I’m curious what everyone has planned! Are you taking the kids trick-or-treating, going to a party, or having a cozy night at home? I’d love to hear about your plans!

I’m also planning to take a trip with my mom next spring. We want to explore some interesting places around the US first, then hopefully visit a few countries known for their amazing food. I think trying local dishes and making new memories together will be such a special experience

I’m in the Eastern Time Zone and would love to meet people who enjoy chatting about travel, food, family, and everyday life. Maybe this is the perfect time to make a few new friends! What are your Halloween plans, and do you have any trips you’re looking forward to next year?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 19h ago

31M | EST | Night owl looking for genuine friendships and good conversations!

6 Upvotes

Hey! I'm Dom, 31, and hoping to meet some new people to talk to regularly! I work overnights three nights a week, so my sleep schedule is questionable at best, and I'm usually around when the rest of the world is asleep. 😂

A little about me: I'm a huge nerd who loves gaming, anime, reading, writing fantasy novels, D&D, music, and getting way too invested in random conversations. I'm also a big fan of deeper discussions, terrible jokes, and learning about whatever someone else is passionate about.

Ideally, I'd love to find some lasting friendships where we can talk about anything and everything, whether that's sharing memes, venting about life, or staying up talking for hours.

Tell me something you've been obsessing over lately! 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 6h ago

[M4R] 37M Let's talk about nerd culture or Fallout or music or day to day life!

5 Upvotes

Hello there! I'm a 37 year old guy from the US (EST).

I am very much a home body when I'm not working.

I stream a lot of shows, movies and anime. Currently waiting for new seasons of most animes I watch. I am streaming Crystal Lake and Carrie.

I listen to a lot of music. Mainly hardcore and metal. I have a pretty good playlist to share if interested.

I also play games and chess. I recently started Fallout 76 back up. I play on Xbox btw.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 12h ago

37f hoping for a long term friend

5 Upvotes

Hey! I’m in the northeast (US). Married, so I only want friends. I’m looking for someone around my age to chat with throughout the day about anything. Daily life, hobbies, random thoughts you have, vent to me, I’m down for whatever. I’d really like to connect with other women but if you’re a guy, dont be creepy.

Some interests are: cooking/baking video games arts/crafts (I don’t do them so much anymore but I love hearing about yours!) Getting more into fitness and being active (really want to get into rock climbing) I love hearing about other people’s hobbies too. It’s very easy for me to get into new things if I have someone to be excited about it with

I’m open minded, lgbtq+, 420 friendly and left leaning. Preferably you’re similar and also just want some more fun and positivity in your life. Feel free to reach out but please give me more than just a “hey”. Tell me a little about yourself. Hope to hear from someone!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 12h ago

[M4F] 35M Sydney,Australia — Looking for besties, not ghosties 😂

4 Upvotes

Going through a bit of a rough patch, have way too much free time on my hands, and my brain has decided to be an absolute pest. So I’m looking for someone to yap with regularly and distract me from my own thoughts for a bit. A win-win, really.

I’m after the kind of friendship where we can talk pretty much every day, share absolutely random nonsense, rant about our lives, overshare without filing a formal apology, and be completely unfiltered without wondering if we’ve said too much. Basically, someone I can call a bestie without having to check if they’re still alive every three business days. 😂

I’ve got mates already, but there’s something nice about connecting with someone new, having a laugh, and building a friendship where things just feel easy. No need to make everything a complicated situation. Sometimes a good conversation and a bit of harmless chaos are all you need.

A bit about me: I work in tech, go to the gym, play cricket, occasionally swim, and enjoy F1, gaming, travelling, scenic drives, beaches, mountains, and the outdoors. I’m into thrillers, mysteries, horror and action, and I’m always up for random questions and unnecessarily passionate debates.

Also, I’m a dad to a sassy daughter who seems to have been born with the authority of a Supreme Court judge and the attitude of someone who pays the mortgage. I’m basically middle management in my own household. 😂

One flaw :I barely listen to music unless I’m driving, so if you’ve got a playlist for every emotion known to humanity, I’m clearly a lost cause.

Ideally, I’m looking for that “something happened and you’re the first person I want to tell” kind of friendship. Good banter, mutual effort, the occasional deep chat, and absolutely no need to pretend to be a well-adjusted adult 24/7.

If you can hold a conversation, match a bit of chaos, and don’t disappear after two decent chats, come say hi.

Besties, not ghosties. I’m begging the universe to get this one right.😭😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 16h ago

37 Aussie guy married with kids need more mates!

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone just an average Aussie guy here 37 married with kids looking to make some mates.

It's tough out there making friends ideally you would be Aussie around my age but open to anywhere would be nice to hang out but.

I like swimming, running, music, tv, travel, books and coffee to name a few things.

If your keen to make a sarcastic funny mate get in touch


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 19h ago

[F4R] 34/F - Chatty? Hope so :)

4 Upvotes

34/F in North Carolina. I work remotely in tech, specifically Cybersecurity(on the business side, not on the technical side)

I enjoy getting out of the house, so traveling is #1 but I also enjoy going to the movies, farmer’s markets, concerts and any activity on or by the water.

Looking for someone that is over 30 to chat with! Man/Woman - doesn’t matter - just someone with some substance that enjoys good conversation.

I’m partial to folks that live in NC, but down to chat with whomever. Again, over 30 please :)

Reach out with what your Reddit experience has been like.

:)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 38m ago

38F - Looking to meet people of any gender in similar situation to chat

• Upvotes

I'm looking for a friend or friends that are going through a similar situation, or have been in a similar situation for, hopefully, ongoing convos. We can vent or talk about life to fill the hours or hard days.

About me and my situation:

I'm 38, F have 3 kids on (different parts of) the spectrum, live in the Northeastern US.

I am at the beginning of going through a divorce but still living with my kids' father. He is ADHD, avoidant, hyper religious, etc. I have been with him since I was 20 so everything is hard right now.

I'm neurospicy and in grad school to become a HS English teacher. I love reading, writing, cooking, coffee, deep conversations, movies, mythology, Star Wars, Legos, LOTR, anything nerdy. I love NYC. I love good food. I love anything Edwardian, Regency, Gothic, spooky, romantic. I love crocheting and hand-written letters. I love all types of music and exchanging songs.

I'm usually funny/quirky/chatty, but definitely having a lot of blue days lately. It is so expensive and hard to separate lives after 15 years together. Especially being married to a pastor.

Does this resonate with anyone? I would love to meet a friend or two who "get it" and maybe get a friendship or something good out of a hellish season of life.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

Feeling like I’m drowning

3 Upvotes

(M30) Going through so much I can’t even talk about and Sometimes, drowning doesn’t look like struggling in the water. Sometimes, it looks like smiling while silently falling apart, saying “I’m okay” when you’re barely holding on, and fighting battles no one knows about. The hardest part is feeling like you’re drowning while everyone around you thinks you can swim. Sometimes, all you need is someone to notice, reach out, and remind you that you don’t have to fight every wave alone. ❤️‍🩹


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 11h ago

Anyone adhd here?

2 Upvotes

Hey guys, 34M here in NSW Australia, would love to make some friends who're weird and quirky like me, im interested in psychology, gemstones, UFO's, art and pretty much anything interesting


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 18h ago

[M4F] 43M, North Carolina. IT Project Mgr / Rock Star looking to make you smile and feel seen!!

3 Upvotes

Hey gang

I work remote and am often distr actedly multitasking, but please don’t tell my boss.

Love to chat as I go about my day. I’m in to Music, TV, movies, food and drinking .

I’m an IT professional and rockstar Love late 90s and early 2000s Indie rock/pop punk/Proto emo

Some of my favorite TV shows this year have been widows Bay and the audacity Favorite recent movies include the invite, backrooms and weapons


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 18h ago

[F4M] 32F - Looking for friends around my age, based in the US

3 Upvotes

Hello everyone! This is my first time posting here.

If you’re a mature person who won’t steer the conversation toward sex after just a few exchanges, if you enjoy casual chatting and sharing the little, interesting moments of daily life, and if you’re also looking to build a long-term connection and happen to be around my age and living in the US please feel free to send me a private message.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

[F4R] 29 F from Philippines looking for constant friends to talk/chat with

• Upvotes

Hi everyone. I've been working from home for more than years and I think it's good to have someone constant person to talk to. I don't usually hangout with my friends I'm a homebody person but I do have a lot of hobbies and interests. I work in tech, I hike, go to gym, read self help books, watch movies esp while working. I wanna insert something new to my routine by having someone to chat with in a daily basis. Share about our day or plans.

Btw I'm a mom of a 5 yr old bubbly kid so if it's a deal breaker to you I respect that. I am also a fur mom to a 1yr old clingy dachshund.

If you reached to this point, I appreciate you spending your time reading this.
I work in US timezone so I prefer someone in the same timezone.

Let's connect.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

31/m fellow married bros

2 Upvotes

Hey all. West coast US here just looking for some more friends. Very happily married to my wife. Trying to become a dad soon.

Love action scifi movies. Some anime. Food. Cars. And getting more into the gym lately. Hmu with age and interests.