Hello! :D
This might be kind of a long post, since I am looking for someone that I can really vibe with on a deeper level! I appreciate it if you actually read the whole thing and only respond if you truly can see us being long-term friends. I probably won’t respond if you send a very simple message, tell me about yourself!
I’m a 25 year old lady from Sweden. I’d say that I’m a pretty happy person and I like to live a fairly simple but whimsical life! Cozy living is important to me, I live with little bunnies, I have cute houseplants I care for, I love trying out different teas, I love stuffed animals, I own way too many blankets and I fucking love pastries. :]
I have also been cursed with anxiety, I think I pissed off some magical entity in a previous life or something. It was significantly worse when I was younger though, these days I’m mostly fine but sometimes I have trouble sleeping or get overwhelmed easily (I’m a bit of a crybaby lol). I refuse to yield to that dumb stuff though!!! I’ve decided that one day I will be free from it, that day might just be when I’m like 87 years old or something but I have patience. Due to anxiety stuff I’ve always had a very small social circle and I don’t think I have energy for much social stuff, so realistically I’m only looking for one friend to get close to. I usually feel like people don’t understand me very well and that people tend to assume things about me that are not accurate at all, which makes me awkward and distant.
My biggest hobby is video games, I play mainly on PC or Nintendo Switch. I play mostly single-player games, some of my favorites are Outer Wilds, Elden Ring, Baldur’s Gate 3, Expedition 33 and Hollow Knight Silksong. Some multiplayer games I like are Nightreign, Project Zomboid, Necesse, Civ V, Factorio and sometimes Sea of Thieves. Hopefully you have a similar taste in games, I love nerding out and talking about games that are important to me but I don’t really have any friends that share my appreciation for a good story! With the right person I could also be down to watch you play a game that I love, but that really has to be with the right person or I won’t be able to resist backseat gaming lol.
I like reading a lot. I'm a big fan of The Hobbit and LOTR, Flowers for Algernon is also a favorite of mine! I also like making art, currently I’m very into oil pastels but I also like other mediums like digital art, watercolor and plain ol’ pencil. My dream is to get a good setup for oil painting!
Some more fun facts about me:
- I love the moon and the stars!
- For a very very long time I genuinely thought that Moonlight Sonata by Beethoven was only a soundtrack piece from a Hamtaro game.
- I looove Hunter x Hunter.
- I’m vegan for the animals, it’s an important part of me but not something I feel the need to discuss all the time.
- I tend to get obsessive about musicals, I haven’t seen/listened to many but I genuinely get obsessed with them one at a time for months on end! Currently I’m all about Hadestown. I’m very much a theatre kid at heart and I love singing. I have no one to share this interest with. D:
- I love being horizontal as much as possible.
- Forever traumatized by the walrus episode of Pingu. :[
My only real requirements are that you are 22+, not a mean person and enjoy both text and voice chats! I’m very LGBTQ+ friendly and your gender identity doesn’t matter to me. I don’t really mind if you are a decent bit older than me or if you live far away (as long as it’s still on earth, I think). I really like people that are good at texting, I think I’m able to bond with someone fairly quickly in good text conversations and it usually makes me excited to wait for a nice thought-out reply. :] I always say that I’d thrive if we still lived in times where people sent proper letters!
My hope is to find someone that feels like a safe place and can truly be a real friend. I’m fiercely loyal once I get comfortable with someone but of course it takes quite a bit of work to get there! :D