r/wedding • u/Top-Pound9640 • 22h ago
Discussion What do you think of my vows
When I was young, I learned quickly, that the things you love can be gone in an instant and ever since then I promised to never let anyone in... but then you came along, when most people hear that I tried to kill myself, they run away. You stayed. You see something in me, to this day I don't see in myself. You constantly make me want to be a better person. Because no matter what I do I will never, EVER deserve you. I knew I loved you the moment I realized, I didn't have to fix myself to be loved by you. For so long I felt the weight of trying to earn, what could never be earned. But with you, I found a love that doesn't demand I perform.
A love that see's me, chooses me, and one that stays. I am so madly in love with you, because I can't imagine a life without you. I would rather wipe your tears 1,000 times, than let you drown in silence believing no one sees you. I will see your scars, your flaws, I will see you crying at 2am, your mood swings. I will see you hungry, dramatic, jealous, tired, messy, everything! I will see her on the bad days, the worst days, and the days she won’t even like herself. I will sit with you until the light comes. And yet, every version of her will make me fall in love with you a little more. Because True friendship and love include the right to share another's sorrow, and being shut out from a friend's mourning feels like a deep humiliation.
And I will say it a million times: "She will be the best thing that has ever happened to me. She will be perfect!" In the words of Ozzy Osbourne "I don't ask much, I just want you!!"
I wanna close out with 2 Bible verses; taken from, Proverbs 31:29 & Ruth 1:16
"Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all."
“Do not press me to leave you or to turn back from following you! Where you go, I will go; where you lodge, I will lodge; your people shall be my people, and your God my God. Where you die, I will die— there will I be buried. May the Lord do thus and so to me, and more as well, if even death parts me from you!”