r/InternetFriends • • 20h ago

31/F I'm still here to find someone special! I'm not Interested In conversations with people who are bored or horny! I'm here to find emotionally mature & friendless Introverts who value respect & honesty! I want my loneliness to come to an end 😔

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(Please, read this post If you want to send me a message)

Yes... I'm still here and I'm still trying to find someone... That's all I want 😔 Finding a bestie Is my dream... I would love to finally say "Goodbye" to my loneliness and start smiling, again. Not with someone random, but with someone who wants what I want...

(I'm a REAL PERSON! Bots are taking over Reddit but I'm not one of them so don't accuse me of being someone/something I'm not)

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example. 👇🏻

(This post Is for people who live In Europe because I would love to meet my new friends In real life, In the future)

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like 🙁 But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear 🙁 I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

• I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless... I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively! First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧡

Please, If you want to talk send me a private message.


r/InternetFriends • • 7h ago

21M, DAY 3MOF FINDING SOMEONE GENUINE!!

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So trying my luck here I'm not sure I will get anyone...but yeah need a genuine companion Abt me kind of old school guy from uttarakhand ind nd love to talk up for late night talk.. deal with multiple prvlms of others to make them happy I preety like that stuff I can be a moral supporter or whtever you want .. ik in this world of digitalization it is not easy to trust specially on boys as we all know some creeps how they behave genuinely I am not sure about getting any dm but if yu really found me good or nice just dm me yu can check my hobbies nd other in my bio 😅like idk many pols don't like that typ of things but yes here I am feel free to txt ..

Bie


r/InternetFriends • • 20h ago

21M, DAY 2 OF FINDING SOMEONE SIMILAR!!

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So trying my luck here I'm not sure I will get anyone...but yeah need a genuine companion Abt me kind of old school guy from uttarakhand ind nd love to talk up for late night talk.. deal with multiple prvlms of others to make them happy I preety like that stuff I can be a moral supporter or whtever you want .. ik in this world of digitalization it is not easy to trust specially on boys as we all know some creeps how they behave genuinely I am not sure about getting any dm but if yu really found me good or nice just dm me yu can check my hobbies nd other in my bio 😅like idk many pols don't like that typ of things but yes here I am feel free to txt ..

Bie


r/InternetFriends • • 22h ago

21F - Looking to have a quick chat, work is kinda quiet today.

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r/InternetFriends • • 19h ago

20 Misandrist femboy looking to chat with other fun women!

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Heeey, now I know the title may deterr a lot of people away, but the truth is, it's meant to do so, I want to talk to women, because I'm a misandrist, and it's very essential that everyone knows that, okay now on to the important stuff.

Hii I'm a 20 (2006) boy, slightly femboy-esque from Sweden, I'm a huge nerd when it comes to batman, DC and just a normal nerd for spiderman, I love nature a looot, and space too, they are so fascinating to me and they help me escape the awful things that are currently happening in society, also... a CAT person, dogs are cools, but felines have always reigned supreme in my eyes, I love F1 and football (the one with the feet) and I play a bit of football too, I also play F1 on my PS5.

I want a friend because I have been lonely, and I'm an introvert, so going out to parties and hanging out in the streets has never been my thing, and as for why I want a woman, well that's because of m*n🤢, I have mentioned it before, but they just cause me a great deal of pain for numerous amount of reasons, I'd be happy to explain why, and the question you might ask "aren't you technically a man?" Yes but i hate it, and have thought about transitioning but it's super complicated.

That's all I could think of as if right now, so hopefully it was enough, and hopefully you seem to like my intro enough, please just be a woman that's my age or older, nothing more I could ask for.


r/InternetFriends • • 13h ago

35/M off work and looking to chat!

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Hello all, i hope everyone who reads this is doing well!

As the title says i have the night off and looking for some good convo, im horrible at talking about myself but i’ll give it a try

Im a huge nerd, i collect action figures, play video games, i watch anime from time to time

I love movies

And i do a bit of art too mostly drawing and some sculpting

I hope to see ya’ll in my DMs soon

Optional ice breaker: least and most favorite movie


r/InternetFriends • • 22h ago

35F looking for SFW friends

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Hi there! As a chronically online person in her 30s, I'm looking for constant online friends to chat with. SFW only!

I'm based in Calauan, Laguna and rarely travel far so meetups might be rare.

About me:

- Anime, manga, light novels, and novels. My genre mix are BL, shonen, and some slice-of-life

- Gaming. Mostly mobile for now, but I'm meaning to get back into PC, Switch, and PS4 (no budget for a PS5 rn sadly)

- Boardgames! I share a sizable collection with my partner. I dislike highly competitive games except some deckbuilders.

- I have several queer labels

- Neurodivergent

- Foodie BUT not adventurous. I'll try diff cuisines unless we're talking about exotic dishes and gamey meat (I can taste gaminess in rabbit so will not try again)

- There's no coffee or tea for me. It's coffee AND tea (plus matcha and more especially hojicha. I can drink hojicha for days without stopping)

- Loves cooking esp Japanese and vegan/vegetarian dishes

- Bakes but can't frost cakes so don't expect frosted stuff from me lol

- Has 3 cats and 6 dogs

- Has a neurodivergent 7 year-old

- Newbie fountain pen hobbyist

- Into alternative fashion. Although I'm rarely wearing my clothes atm since I gained some weight and my clothes are meant for pixies

I can listen to you even if we don't have the same hobbies, so if you're down for some chat esp late at night, hit me up!


r/InternetFriends • • 13h ago

29/f/usa - hanging out and chatting

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let's hang out and chat together. I'm happy to talk either short or long-term depending on how we get along. I'm interested in gaming, crafting, and nature. I love listening to the same songs on repeat, downloading too many mods for my video games, drinking copious amounts of coffee, and looking at goofy animals online. I can read your tarot or tell you cool bug facts. I'd love to meet some people who are also interested in nerdy or creative endeavors. I'm super excited for halloween and just bought some cider to celebrate the season. tell me what your favorite candy is as an icebreaker if you want to chat.


r/InternetFriends • • 11h ago

[43M] - Your Next Favourite Internet Stranger?

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Congratulations! You've encountered a reasonably functional human being on the internet. Please read the following before initiating a conversation LOL.

Known features:

  • Capable of having a normal conversation. Cannot guarantee it will stay on topic.
  • Accepts funny videos, ridiculous memes, book recommendations, and random messages without an appointment.
  • Occasionally performs voice impressions. Quality control remains a work in progress.
  • Will absolutely add another book to his reading list despite already having enough books to last several lifetimes.
  • Understands that people have jobs, responsibilities, and entire lives outside their inboxes. Replies may vary accordingly.

Physical description, for identification purposes:

6 feet tall, dark brown hair with a growing collection of gray, warm brown eyes, light freckles across the nose and cheeks, a short trimmed beard, and thin black glasses. Clean-cut, generally harmless, occasionally ridiculous.

Other things I get up to:

Acting, voice acting, photography, reading, writing, audiobooks, cycling, and long walks that begin as exercise and somehow turn into an hour of thinking about everything.

What I'm actually looking for:

Someone I genuinely enjoy hearing from. Someone who can be silly without feeling silly, talk about whatever happens to be on their mind, and appreciate that a good connection doesn't have to be intense every single day.

If you've made it this far, I guess you've already passed the first round!

What is your favourite comfort food?


r/InternetFriends • • 2h ago

Anyone want to get to know each other? (24F)

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I ate lunch on the parking garage roof today because the break room microwave still smelled like someone's fish. Down in the lot, two guys were going back and forth about whether a hot dog counts as a sandwich, and I almost yelled that it does. Then I realized I don't actually know anyone who'd argue with me about it, so if you've got opinions or just want to talk, I'm here.


r/InternetFriends • • 2h ago

[28/f] happy Wednesday! How are you?

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Hello! I’m Marie and I’m 28 years old. I love fashion and skincare. I really like horror movies, especially those of the slasher genre. I like to edit photos so if one day you need to edit (whichever) do not hesitate to consult me. Feel free to talk to me!


r/InternetFriends • • 4h ago

32M, looking for friendship

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Hey everyone! As the title says, I'm a 32 year-old male from TX, US. About me, I don't know what to say but let me try. At least I can say a few things. I consider myself as an introvert. I enjoy spending my time on my own. I like gaming, listening to music, and reading. Yeah, sometimes I can be a couch potato as well. Other than this, I like walking outdoors. I work in healthcare and also get my next title. But I'm interested in other things including history, geography etc. I also try to get better at GeoGuessr. Do you play it? I also like thrifting. Anyway, I guess that's all for now. Even if I'm an introvert, I started feeling alone recently. I'm looking for some people to be friends with. I know since I'm a male, I won't get many messages but here we are. Don't hesitate to dm me if you'd like to chat. I'm open to anyone. I don't mind where you're from, what gender you're, or how old you're. Only 18+ please. Thanks for reading.


r/InternetFriends • • 8h ago

Hey I’m 23M, I’m just looking to make connections with other people! Some fun online friends to chat about random stuff, send memes, talk some life and anything from astronomy to games to nature to adventures!

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I’m an open minded dude, I love learning about random stuff and willing to chat about most topics! Anything from nature to gaming to life to bucket list ideas to just the most of anything there is! I love to have long chats as well!


r/InternetFriends • • 9h ago

29F US - Keep me company while I watch the Brew Crew

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Headed into the 7th inning. Will we finally win the fall classic, or will we have to wait until tomorrow?? I’m hoping we complete the sweep 😂anyway, read on to learn more about me!

EDIT: Brew Crew will be back tomorrow…with Miz on the plate 😎

Hey there! I’m a 29 year old female residing in the US. Hopeful to find a solid connection! Expectations are 0, but I’m happy to travel wherever the path takes us :) here’s a bit about me… 

\-Work in STEM (S)

\-Amateur speedcuber (I can solve a Rubik’s cube in under 30 seconds…yes, really)

\-Love being outdoors and going for hikes

\-Active and go to the gym 4 times per week. Ran my first half marathon in 2025 - would love to chat with fellow runners 

\-Love music, and I play bass (not in a band). I have played in pit orchestras and could yap your ear off about musicals! 

\-Love sports: soccer, tennis, football, baseball 

\-Empathetic, kind, compassionate 

The physical (because sometimes it’s nice to have a mental image): 5’9, long brown hair, been referred to as ‘muscle mommy’ (not a real mommy), two different eye colors (one green, one brown), 6.5 tattoos (one is unfinished). Happy to swap SFW pics early on if you’d like :)

Reach out if any of this resonated with ya! Let me know age/location/gender, and your favorite movie or most controversial opinion! Looking forward to hearing from some of ya!

Please be 26+


r/InternetFriends • • 11h ago

26M - Let's just have a fun conversation; or at least try to... Before we ghost each other.

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Well... I am bored as hell. So, I thought, why not try this shit out.

About Me:

Whenever someone asks how I'm doing, I usually lie and say 'good', even though I am doing fan fucking fantastic. I guess that's a bit cocky, eh? I may appear arrogant and unattainable. That's because I am :P

But I'm also a hopeless romantic who believes that passionate love can be like a shooting star.

I don't know everything, but here are a few observations I've come to in my life:

* If you're not dead to one person, you're not living right.

* Most hot girls will never know if they are actually interesting or not.

* Money can't buy happiness but it solves 95% of problems that make you unhappy.

Two truths one lies:

I am in university. I am a firefighter. I love leather jackets.

PS. If political incorrect humor or color metaphors or the f word offends you, run screaming for the exits now. I have no intention to offend anyone, but I do pride myself on being able to trigger some people by just my way of being.

PPS. No Creeps.

PPPS. Don't be someone who just starts with basic "Hey", "Hi", "Hello". You get the idea.


r/InternetFriends • • 12h ago

18 M, looking for new friendships

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Haiii, i'm bored and just want anyone who i can chat with to long term make a friendship and introduce to my interests such as games.

Some things about me:

Favourite games (both pc or mobile available): roblox, minecraft, identity V, cookie run tower of adventures, btd 6.

Likes: cats, games, friendly people

Dislikes: dishonesty, rudeness

Zodiac sign: capricorn (december 28)

Personality: loyal, caring, chill, strategist and sometimes a yapper.


r/InternetFriends • • 16h ago

21F I’m definitely a talker

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r/InternetFriends • • 18h ago

36M looking to chat with anyone.

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Hey! I'm a 36-year-old guy who enjoys connecting with people from all walks of life. Whether you're looking for a casual chat, a new friend, or just someone to share interests with, feel free to reach out.

I have a few unusual hobbies, a small collection of pets, and a love for music and tattoos. I'm always happy to talk about hobbies, life, random interests, or whatever happens to come up.

If that sounds interesting, send me a message!


r/InternetFriends • • 18h ago

25NB, just looking for people to chat with.

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My name is Adam I am 25nb from Southern Ontario, Canada. Timezone: EST.

A bit about about me, I like listening to music, mostly a lot of classics but that is more because I have a terrible taste in music that I need to work on expanding. I play the bagpipes, both as part of a band and in solo competitions, I recently got moved up a solo grade in the PPBSO.

I have been recently getting into and model painting and am going to start taking lessons to learn digital art, I'd love to have someone to discuss art with and eventually share the terrible things I draw with

Huge d&d nerd, actually learned how to read from the ad&d 2E monster manual. But I have been trying to branch out into other systems like VtM. I do a lot of writing for characters and settings, currently dealing with some writers block for a new character.

Currently going more through story heavy games, but I've been looking for people to play peak and big walk with or go through yet another Halo MCC run. Currently obsessing over the new ace combat game but I am pretty open to trying new games with people.

Working on trying to improve my health, going to the gym and building better habits. I am also starting the medical side of transitioning, not quite ready for the social side but that will come with time.

Currently I work full time as welder for an appliance manufacturer but I am hoping to go back to college for pharmacy tech as soon as I can.


r/InternetFriends • • 19h ago

24M - Looking to meet new people

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Had some things to do today, but I've finally found myself alone, and well, you know how these things go. I wanna make new friends.

As for who I am, the fun in conversation is finding out, but I love the gym, reading, writing, making music and a lot more!

I'd prefer if you were in Africa or the Middle East. But honestly, anyone's welcome.

I can carry conversation well enough, but help me out.

Hope to see you in my DMs.


r/InternetFriends • • 20h ago

32F looking for a long-term friend i could cling to . ❤️

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