r/MultipleSclerosis • u/Support_partner • 1h ago
Loved One Looking For Support New member to the club
Hi everyone, seems we just got this lovely membership on the mailbox and now we are member of the club that nobody wants to be part of ;)
I’m the husband of a 42F that received her diagnosis yesterday from her family doctor .
Angry, scary, confuse I think you all know it .
I’m an educated person and I like to learn , from the past 24hour feverish researching looks like her case is one of the “good ones” .
Her first symptoms were 13 years ago, about 10 years ago she even had a MRI and a neuro , who said not to worry. Throughout the last 13 years she had mild symptoms without any functional loss (although multiple small lesions appeared on the MRI)
Latently she has had some tingle on her lower body and this is how she started the process again and this time she got a diagnoses . She is angry because she wish she has had it 10 years ago, but I wonder if we didn’t have this “care free time” for free, anyway nothing to change here .
We are based in Montreal, so anyway local with experiences to share are more than welcome !
I feel that after paying so much taxes for so many years , at least now we will recover it ;)
From my very noobie understanding she will be a good candidate to DMTs with a strong prospect
Of having a good quality of life . We have a small daughter and we really want to enjoy life with her ! (No more pregnancies for us so that easies the process )
Right now we are waiting to be called but a clinic , yesterday our MD put us on the generic list and the Jewish one , we are going to ask tomorrow to have our file sent to the Neuro hospital and the CHUM, apparently they are the best options available in town.
Finger cross she can start her treatment soon !