r/mumbai • • 4d ago

General Mumbai Social Club - Weekly Discussion Thread - Meetups/Q&A/Relationships/Life

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Hey, how is it going?

Want to share your success? Need to vent? Looking for a date or a friend or a group of friends for some activity? Found a new restaurant? Or just want to talk about the rising prices of vadapav?

This weekly discussion thread is posted every Friday morning at 9 am

Rules: No politics. Be civil.

Any separate threads regarding looking for friends / meetups / hangouts will be removed.

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Previous Threads


r/mumbai • • 19h ago

General No human deserves to be treated like this.

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A commotion broke out at Thane railway station after railway staff allegedly kept the doors of a coach on a slow local train bound for Kalyan locked from the inside, leaving passengers waiting on Platform No. 2 frustrated and helpless, passengers repeatedly requested the railway employees to open the coach doors. However, despite pleas lasting around two to three minutes, the staff allegedly did not respond by opening the doors. Angered by the situation, one passenger protested by throwing water at the closed coach door to express his frustration over the staff's alleged refusal to let passengers enter.


r/mumbai • • 9h ago

Relationships The Man will gets respect only when you earn.

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I'm 19M from a typical Indian family. I was earning for the last two years, but recently left my job to focus on building my own business.

Now I work late, sometimes until 2–3 AM, and have 3–4 meetings daily. But since I'm not earning right now, my family has started treating me differently.

Today, they pulled off my blanket, shouted at me (Teri vajah se ghar me jagde ho rahe hai) for waking up late, mocked my meetings and said "Meetings karta raheta hai jese koi bada officer ho", and stopped talking to me properly. They don't let me do anything be myself, even can't wear clothes of my dressing sense.

The funny part? When I had a job and gave money at home, nobody cared if I stayed up late or woke up late. Everything was fine as long as I was earning.

I understand their concerns, but it hurts when your efforts mean nothing until they start making money.

Kamao bhai, jitna ho sake utna kamao. Not just for a luxurious life, but for financial independence and freedom. I will say ki family vale bhi nahi dekhege agar kama nahi rahe hoge.

Main toh phas gaya hun, tumhare paas option hai toh kamao.


r/mumbai • • 2h ago

General Construction sites in Mumbai casually displaying PM2.5 as ZERO while the rest of the city is choking.

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Construction sites in Mumbai casually displaying PM2.5 as ZERO while the rest of the city is choking.

These monitors are about as accurate as a weighing scale in a shady gym that always says you’ve lost 5 kg.

Next innovation: bottle the air as “Himalayan Fresh.”

Even a kid knows these are just expensive paperweights.


r/mumbai • • 8h ago

Discussion Why is it like this?

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The 5-day-old flyover in Ghatkopar has these depressions in the road. I understand that these are related to the way bridge decks are constructed, but why is this still an unsolved problem in 2026?

Why do we have to endure a ghat-ghat every time we ride over these depressions? There are more than 20 of them across the bridge! It's annoying AF. The overall road surface also seems uneven, with noticeable irregularities instead of a smooth, level finish.

And it doesn't seem like a coincidence that the flyover was opened just after the monsoon ended. At this rate, I wouldn't be surprised if it develops potholes within the first few days of the next monsoon.


r/mumbai • • 15h ago

General Mumbai covered with grey haze! - captured this from an airplane, its sooo visible,

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Is the pollution in Mumbai really peaking? I saw some news which said we are moving past Delhi as of today😭. When I checked with ChatGPT, it said:

‘The dark sky above is relatively clean air.
The grayish “musky” band is a layer of haze containing tiny particles - dust, pollution, smoke, moisture, or aerosols. A temperature inversion acts like an invisible lid. Instead of air getting colder with altitude (the normal situation), a layer of warmer air sits above cooler air near the surface. That prevents the lower air from mixing upward, so the haze gets trapped underneath.

- anyone know if this is legit? Or is it the AI assistant hallucinating again 💁🏼‍♂️


r/mumbai • • 2h ago

General GMLR Phase 4: Mangroves at risk in Mumbai, compensatory plantation planned 866 km away in Chandrapur.

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Goregaon-Mulund Link Road (GMLR) Phase 4 project could affect 8.2 acres of mangroves in Bhandup, along with hundreds of trees.

According to reports, compensatory plantation is planned in Chandrapur district, around 866 km away from Mumbai.

So, Mumbai loses its mangroves, but replacement trees will be planted hundreds of kilometres away. How does that compensate for the loss of green cover in Mumbai?

Mangroves play an important role in protecting coastal areas and supporting local wildlife. Planting trees in another district cannot replace these local environmental benefits.


r/mumbai • • 2h ago

General BMC authorized demolition of building without proper fencing. Is it allowed ?

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In goregaon, near Earth Terrace a demolition is going on without any proper fencing or coverage. The entire road is covered in dust. I stood there for 10 secs and my clothes are covered in dust. What can be done about it ? Or is this the norm, according to me the contractor has clearly skimped on protocols.


r/mumbai • • 2h ago

General BMC is about to drop ₹18.25 crore on 48 accident black spots.

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BMC is about to drop ₹18.25 crore on 48 accident black spots.

Translation: They’re installing dividers that will double as motorcycle ramps, traffic signs that Mumbai drivers will treat as motivational posters, and pavement markers that will vanish the first time it rains.

End result? The black spots remain black… they just get a 18-month makeover, a few new potholes as bonus features, and the official title of “𝗣𝗿𝗲𝗺𝗶𝘂𝗺 𝗗𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵 𝗝𝘂𝗻𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 – 𝗡𝗼𝘄 𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗕𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗦𝗶𝗴𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲.”

Mumbai progress at its finest.


r/mumbai • • 5h ago

General 🧡 Looking for a Forever Home for Kaju, a 2-Month-Old Orange Kitten in Malad, Mumbai 🐾

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Hi everyone!

I’m looking for a loving forever home for Kaju, an adorable 2-month-old Indian kitten. 🐈🧡

Kaju is a little orange cutie who has been living with me for the past two weeks. I’ve been trying to find the right person to adopt him, but I haven’t found a home that feels like the right match just yet. I don’t want to rush this decision because I really want him to go to a home where he will be loved, cared for, and treated as family.

A little about Kaju:
🐾 Male Indian kitten
🧡 Gorgeous orange fur
🎂 Approximately 2 months old
💊 Deworming done
📍 Location: Malad, Mumbai

A small but important request for potential adopters ❤️

I’m not just looking for someone who wants a kitten. I’m looking for someone who is genuinely ready to welcome him into their life and take responsibility for him.

Ideally, I would love for Kaju to go to a home where someone is regularly present to give him company, affection, and attention, especially because he is still so little. I want him to feel safe, comfortable, and truly at home, rather than being left alone for long hours.

Cats need more than food and shelter. They need love, patience, playtime, companionship, and proper care. If you’re considering adopting Kaju, please make sure you’re prepared to give him all of these things and commit to caring for him as he grows.

I know these are specific expectations, but I would rather take my time finding the right family for him than rush him into a home that may not be the best fit.

I’ve also bought some food and other essentials for Kaju, which I’m happy to provide to his adopter to help him settle into his new home. 🐾

If you’re genuinely interested in adopting Kaju and can offer him a loving, safe, and attentive home, please DM me. I’d be happy to speak with you and find out if we’re the right fit.

Please share this post with anyone in Mumbai who might be looking to adopt a kitten. It would mean a lot to help this little boy find his forever family. 🧡

Let’s find Kaju a home where he isn’t just a pet, but a little member of the family. 🏡🐈


r/mumbai • • 17h ago

General Found my 12 y/o walkman. Help me get it repaired?

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GUYSS i found my old walkman. I really want to use it but i think it has some issue with its battery ever since i took in a flight. Maybe the battery has expanded or something. Does anyone know where i can get it fixed near Andheri? Please help me out!!


r/mumbai • • 1d ago

Discussion Comedian Masoom Rajwani Kidnapped by Mumbai police on Home ministries orders.

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With him other 25 protesters are kidnapped who were marching to chaityabhoomi dadar with candle light vigil. police say's march was unauthorised and illigal and people can't protest to get justice in our eyesight.


r/mumbai • • 23h ago

Photography A view that every central mumbai people hates!!

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r/mumbai • • 1d ago

General Andheri East Accident: Minor at Wheel of Out-of-Control Water Tanker; CCTV Footage Emerges

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Mumbai - A 14-year-old minor allegedly driving a speeding water tanker caused an accident on Mahakali Road in the MIDC area of Andheri East, Mumbai. The tanker reportedly went out of control and rammed into a car parked along the road before crashing into the wall of a building. The entire incident was captured on CCTV cameras. The footage is expected to help establish the sequence of events leading to the accident.


r/mumbai • • 1h ago

General Sweets/Snacks for colleagues

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I’ll be visiting colleagues in Seoul soon. It’s tradition to take sweets or snacks from your country when visiting.
It’ll also be diwali.
Any ideas for great vegan snacks or sweets? Nothing which spoils too quickly.


r/mumbai • • 20h ago

Discussion I’m honestly getting tired of living in Mumbai. How much are we supposed to tolerate?

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I’ve lived in and around Mumbai for all of my life, and honestly, I’m getting increasingly frustrated with the state of this city, Navi Mumbai and the wider metropolitan region. I don’t expect everything to be perfect, but I don’t think expecting basic safety, decent infrastructure and a reasonable quality of life is asking for too much.

Today’s railway disruption and the death of a 21-year-old at Bhandup just brought these frustrations back. Mumbai’s local trains are the city’s lifeline, but overcrowding, people falling from trains, track-crossing deaths and frequent disruptions have become a grim part of everyday life. Thousands of people depend on this system, yet commuting can sometimes feel like risking your life just to get to work or college.

And what’s the alternative? Roads full of potholes, traffic congestion, dangerous driving and pedestrian safety issues. Buses don’t always provide adequate connectivity, autos and taxis are expensive for regular use, and metro connections can be inconvenient depending on where you’re travelling. Even when public transport works, you can spend hours getting from one part of the metropolitan region to another.

Then there’s the pollution. Mumbai’s air quality has become increasingly concerning, while construction, disappearing green spaces and development projects raise questions about how the city is being planned. Some areas face water shortages, yet we see water being sprayed to control dust. Housing is unaffordable for many people, and accessible public spaces, libraries, parks and sports facilities often feel inadequate for a city of this size.

What frustrates me is that even basic necessities like clean air, safe transport and affordable housing increasingly feel like luxuries.

And before someone suggests moving to Pune or a smaller city, those places have their own problems. Pune has metro services, but connectivity remains uneven, while smaller cities often have fewer specialised jobs, educational institutions and career opportunities. India has concentrated so many opportunities in a handful of urban centres that people have little choice but to migrate for education and employment, further increasing pressure on infrastructure.

I understand that migration contributes to demand for housing, transport and public services. But blaming migrants alone misses the bigger picture. Why are opportunities so concentrated in so few cities? Why hasn’t infrastructure kept pace with population growth? Why do debates about language, identity and whether someone speaks Marathi sometimes seem to overshadow these fundamental issues?

Mumbai also has a long history of organised crime, terrorist attacks and other violence. I’m not suggesting the city is uniquely dangerous, but celebrating its resilience shouldn’t mean expecting its residents to endure every problem indefinitely.

I’m 25, trying to finish my degree and figure out my career. The prospect of spending decades dealing with exhausting commutes, financial insecurity, pollution and deteriorating infrastructure is genuinely depressing. I don’t want to spend my life worrying about whether I can get home safely, whether the air I’m breathing is harmful, or whether I’ll ever be able to afford a decent place to live.

I know other countries and cities have serious problems too. I’m not claiming that Europe or the United States is some utopia. But surely we can aspire to better public transport, safer streets, cleaner air and cities designed around the people who live in them.

My question is: do those of you living in Mumbai and the surrounding region genuinely think the quality of life is improving? Or have we become so accustomed to overcrowding, pollution, unsafe commuting and unaffordable living that we’ve stopped expecting better?

And for those who’ve moved to other Indian cities or abroad, has your everyday quality of life actually improved? I’d particularly like to hear about commuting, housing, affordability and access to public spaces.

Edit: it’s not just one body, 2 more were recovered. Last year more than 2 thousand people died in locals. 50,000 people have died to this day since the 80’s. It’s not called the most dangerous public transportation system for nothing. WHEN WILL PEOPLE WAKE UP?


r/mumbai • • 1d ago

General Does visiting a red-light district actually help with loneliness and lack of intimacy?

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( EDIT: Thank you so much for sharing your perspectives. Some were practical, some were emotional, and some were a blend of both. Reading your responses genuinely changed how I looked at things.

I thought the world was becoming more cruel, but this thread reminded me that there are still good people out there. Some of you gave me perspectives that convinced me to reconsider my decision, and I'm grateful for that.

I won't be bringing up this question again. Thank you for taking the time to respond and helping me see things differently.)

Men of this sub, I'm curious to hear your perspectives on something.

I come from a tier 4-5 town with limited exposure to dating and socialising with women. I'm not someone who can't approach women. I've approached girls at the gym and even become friends with some of them. It's more that my social life is limited, and I can't really go out without having a reason to.

I'm 22 M and still a virgin. I've asked older women in my family for advice, and their response was to get employed first and then explore dating. I understand their point, but loneliness doesn't exactly wait for you to get your career sorted.

Lately, I've been considering visiting the red-light district around Grant Road. Part of it is curiosity, part of it is wanting to experience intimacy, and part of it is simply feeling lonely. I'm aware that people visit these places for different reasons, but I'm unsure whether it's actually worth experiencing.

I'm not looking for the usual warnings about STDs, scams or robbery. I'm more interested in the psychological side of things. Does the experience actually satisfy the desire for intimacy, or can you end up feeling just as lonely afterwards?

Men who've visited such places, seriously considered going, or decided against it, what was your reasoning? Did the experience change your perspective on sex or intimacy? And for those who chose not to go, what made you reconsider?

I'm genuinely interested in hearing different perspectives, especially from men who've experienced something similar. No moral lectures, please. I'd rather hear honest experiences than generic advice.


r/mumbai • • 1d ago

General High Tide Traps Vehicle off Gorai-Uttan Coast in Mumbai MUMBAI — A day at the beach turned into a near-disaster after a motor vehicle became trapped in rising sea waters near the Gorai-Uttan coastal belt, highlighting the dangers of parking on tidal flats.

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High Tide Traps Vehicle off Gorai-Uttan Coast in Mumbai

MUMBAI — A day at the beach turned into a near-disaster after a motor vehicle became trapped in rising sea waters near the Gorai-Uttan coastal belt, highlighting the dangers of parking on tidal flats.

According to local reports, the driver had parked the car on the shoreline during low tide. However, as the tide receded into high tide, incoming waves quickly engulfed the vehicle before it could be driven to higher ground.


r/mumbai • • 1d ago

Political Navi Mumbai: Now Sangh Parivar goes after food

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r/mumbai • • 1d ago

Discussion All the best to those travelling by the Local Trains today (Central line)

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An advice, dont wait for the trains


r/mumbai • • 2h ago

General What are some of the best budget friendly Activities to do or places to explore, in and around mumbai during the weekends? Early 20's.

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r/mumbai • • 2h ago

General Looking for a mehendi artist

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I know I'm late but I'm looking for a mehendi artist for Karwa Chauth. My usual lady is off to a destination wedding and informed me at the last minute. Any known leads would be greatly appreciated. Alternatively are there any areas where artists are in a market setup I can just go to for mehendi? Thank you!


r/mumbai • • 2h ago

General anyone know where I can buy a women's bracelet in bandra?

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budget is 1 to 1.5 k, and it's for my mom


r/mumbai • • 8h ago

AskMumbai CSMT—>LLT please help

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How to get local train from CST to LLT and what is the charges for it?


r/mumbai • • 1d ago

Discussion The most irritating thing in a local

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It does serve the purpose it was supposed to serve and ruins the perfect window seat that is made for the prefect sleep

The seat give u the perfect armrest

Hawa mast aati hai

Lean hone ka jagah hai

But this mf is positions exactly where an average persons head would rest

ITS SO RAGEBAITING AND IRRITATING AS FUCK