r/PoliticalDebate • u/Due-Bowl-8116 • 6h ago
Conservatives ignore real problems to push agendas
I'll first start off by saying the left definitely does this too, like let's say they pretend hamas doesn't hide behind civilians or recruit children and blames all child/civilian casualties on Israel. Blames islamic terrorism on "white supremacy" instead of religious and cultural indoctrination or how they might blame homelessness or foster home enrollment on a lack of access to abortions or somehow it's all LGBT kids getting kicked out by their homophobic parents when the real answer is almost always drug addiction or mental illness, but this post is going centered on the right wing.
I grew up being bullied wherever I went pretty much and whenever I got in trouble for lashing out at kids who did so and I got an invite to the principal's office and even in one instance the superintendent's office, one of the main questions they would ask me or parents over and over again was either, was my father absent from my home life or did I play violent video games and they even pushed me to take written surveys to answer these questions.
Meanwhile the reality was I clearly wasn't reacting to other kids because of video games or my relationship with my father, I was lashing out because of harassment and because I valued boundaries. Looking back at it now I get the impression that they were far more focused and obsessed on trying to prove that video games and absent father figures caused violence and poor behavior than actually trying to address the actual root of the in issue first hand.
Even many of these black inner city kids who acted up who I knew well enough, believe it or not, had father figures, they acted the way they did because their ghetto trap culture encouraged their behavior and their family members were the same way as they are, this is where I knew that how someone turns out has alot more to do with who and what environment that did raise them and not what family member didn't raise them. And throughout all the church sermons, all the religious media I watched the message of the stigma was consistent, if kids didn't grow up with their father or if their father didn't engage with them enough they would without a doubt all grow up to be career criminals.
Like first of all, did they ever bothered to take a step back and think about how an absent father affects and overburdens the mother? Instead of just assuming all the suffering is placed on the son who realistically couldn't give less of a shit about someone who he's never met. I've always felt like is this whole absent father stigma was all just an attempt to argue women were stupid to raise kids therefore they need a man to do it for them.
Now I have don't have anything against boys getting provided with a male role model or authority figure and I know that two parental figures is better than just one. Fathers are still great but people need to remember that it doesn't just take a father to raise a child, it takes whole village as a matter of fact and it doesn't just require just any father or parent, they have to be of competent too.
And as for the video games segment, violent crime appears to have been at its peek highest in the 80's and 90's with the 1980 being the highest recorded year for homicides per capita all perpetrated by a generation that didn't even grow up video games like they have today, that only leaves us with cultural and environmental circumstances and coincidentally the criminals of those times also grew up during a time where single parent households were far less common.