r/chat • • 2h ago

Friends 👥 31/F I'm still here to find someone special! I'm not Interested In conversations with people who are bored or horny! I'm here to find emotionally mature & friendless Introverts who value respect & honesty! I want my loneliness to come to an end 😔 I'm Interested In daily conversations

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(Please, read this post If you want to send me a message)

Yes... I'm still here and I'm still trying to find someone... That's all I want 😔 Finding a bestie Is my dream... I would love to finally say "Goodbye" to my loneliness and start smiling, again. Not with someone random, but with someone who wants what I want...

(I'm a REAL PERSON! Bots are taking over Reddit but I'm not one of them so don't accuse me of being someone/something I'm not)

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example. 👇🏻

(This post Is for people who live In Europe because I would love to meet my new friends In real life, In the future)

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like 🙁 But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear 🙁 I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

• I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless... I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively! First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧡

Please, If you want to talk send me a private message.


r/chat • • 1h ago

Chat 💬 29F - boring day at the office! Let’s chat!

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Another boring day ahead of me. Let’s keep each other occupied!


r/chat • • 9h ago

Chat 💬 If you were a food, what would you be and why?

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Hello everybody! I’m 32 years old, male and located in Europe. I moved here almost a decade ago. It’s been quite difficult to make friends and especially keep them. The older I have gotten, the harder it has been to build new friendships. I have been a huge fan of Formula 1 since I was 10, I’m into gaming, though I don’t play variety of games, right now it is League of Legends, Fifa, Marvel Rivals and Overwatch occasionally. I love campaign games, (the Witcher, god of war, Detroit:become human, you name it) though I don’t have that much time to play them. I also love watching true crime documentaries. Recently, I have started going back to watching movies and shows and I have seen really interesting ones. I have finished watching the Pitt, House of the Dragons, the Office and Daredevil recently! I used to have more motivation to do my other hobbies, such as reading and photography but I have lost all of it, trying to gain it back. I mostly listen to rock music, however I listen to whatever is good for my soul. My fav artists are Three Days Grace, Ghost, Bring me the Horizon and Halestorm. I actually don’t want to give away everything here so we have something to talk about.
Please write a short introduction about yourself, I don’t mind if we don’t have anything common at all, I am sure we will find something to talk about :)


r/chat • • 11h ago

Chat 💬 M27/ distraction from chronic pain.-.

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Hi, im 27 and suffer since a few months of some nerv-pain stuff. Lately i have bad headache, i got some burning feeling on some part of my head. I have the hang to focus to much on this symptoms and then it gets more worse, so i thought i try to find some random chat distraction here

I like anime, manga, music(all kind of hiphop techno stuf), games, sport.

Just search some ppl for yapping nothing weird (or maybe someone has same experience)


r/chat • • 17h ago

Chat 💬 F23 Looking for new people to chat with! :)

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Hey everyone! I thought I'd give this a try because I'd love to meet some new people and have some fun conversations.

A little bit about me: I speak both German and English, so feel free to message me in either language!

I'm a huge nerd when it comes to gaming, horror movies and Halloween. 🎃 Some of the games I enjoy are Minecraft, Seven Days to Die, Sons of the Forest, Assassin's Creed, Phasmophobia, Stardew Valley, Disney Dreamlight Valley and Pokémon. I'm also into the One Piece Card Game (OPTCG)!

Besides gaming, I really enjoy reading books, especially when I find something that completely pulls me into its world. I'm also interested in makeup and body painting. I'm still learning and would love to get better at it, so I'm always happy to discover new techniques, looks and creative ideas.

I love learning new things in general, and I can get pretty excited about my interests. I also enjoy random history facts and, of course, anything horror-related. There's a good chance I'll go from talking about a video game to a horror movie to something completely unrelated in the span of five minutes lmao.

I'm just looking for some chill, platonic conversations with people who enjoy getting to know others. I'm not expecting us to become best friends overnight; let's just talk and see if we get along!

You don't have to share all my interests, either. It's always fun to learn about things other people are passionate about.

If you'd like to chat, feel free to send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself, what you're into, or even just a random fact about you. Looking forward to meeting some new people! :)


r/chat • • 19h ago

Friends 👥 21f, done work for the day someone message

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My name is summer, I’m 21 from Canada, I speak 4 languages being Ojibwe, Cree, Lakota(not fluently), English, I enjoy creating stuff whether it’s drawings, painting or even clothing, I can also do beadwork pretty well, if I’m not doing any of that stuff I’m usually watching documentaries, movies/shows or even anime, I also like watching combat sports, my favourite fighter in the UFC is Khamzat chimaev and my favourite boxer is naoya inoue, u can also find me outside or spending time with my friends and family


r/chat • • 15m ago

Chat 💬 30F | Merhaba, Shwaya Shy, Shwaya Surprise (A little shy, a little surprise.) Thanks

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Hello / Salam! 🌙🤍

I’m a calm, friendly, shy introvert who loves reading, video games, long YouTube videos, rom-coms movies, and self-development. I try to stay positive, protect my peace, and believe that most things in life can be figured out with the right mindset. (Or maybe I’m just delusional which I'm not😂)

Why am I here?
Hoping to find that connection where strangers become friends and suddenly you’re talking for hours like you’ve known each other forever. No drama, no pretending, just genuine conversations and good vibes. 🌿

Message me with your age, gender, and location. Tell me about yourself, say hi, or make me laugh.

Sometimes a simple “hi” works, and sometimes a whole essay can’t create a spark. Chemistry is weird. 💀

Anyway, let’s chat, human! 🤝😂


r/chat • • 2h ago

Friends 👥 23f latina

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Hey, i’m a 23 year old latina, i am looking to make new friends! i would love to have a daily chat and someone to have a connection with! i can talk about any topic, im an extrovert and love meeting new people. 😊


r/chat • • 13h ago

Friends 👥 26m cool guy (me) looking for new friends (you)

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Nice Australian gentleman here. I'm looking to meet you new friends on the internet. I'm a pretty chill and casual guy. Likes the usual stuff. Gaming, movies, going outside every now and then. I'm really bad at introducing myself so I'll just give you some fun fact dot points

• I have an identical twin (you can't see him you just have to trust me)

• I can't swim. But I still love long walks on the beach

• I was once mistaken for Penn Badgely by old ladies. But everyone since has disagreed strongly with this (though I'm on the old ladies side

• I can do 25 pushups in a row. Probably more if you put a gun to my head

• I'm 5'11 but I tell people I'm 6'1


r/chat • • 17h ago

Friends 👥 28M looking for online friends

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Hey there, I’m just looking for someone to chat with here.
I like watching movies and anime, reading manga, drawing, thrifting, I love nature and I like to go camping sometimes. If you’re into any of that send me a message:)


r/chat • • 28m ago

Friends 👥 25M - Looking for long-term Friends

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I'm Finnish and currently studying in an university of applied sciences. My biggest hobbies are gaming, boxing and ballroom dancing. Currently I am on sick leave though.

Some other interests: therapy, gym, practicing guitar and drawing.

Also know a lot about mental health xD I struggle with depression and anxiety.

Recently have played some horror games and Dead by Daylight. Even though anhedonia is kicking my ass. Feel free to dm :D


r/chat • • 3h ago

Chat 💬 26F, Who Am I? I Am a Joke, I Guess

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“Please introduce yourself.”

Probably one of the hardest questions during interviews. It’s easy to say, “I’m blah blah, 26, from somewhere in the world,” then list your achievements, skills, and experiences. Funny how that generic answer is already programmed in my head.

But if I ask myself who I really am, the answer gets a little harder. I’m a mess, but I’m a good daughter. Or at least, I’m trying to be. Am I a good person? I’d like to think so. Do I get angry? I do. Am I reasonable? Most of the time, probably not. I’m just one person among billions, trying to survive one day at a time.

Sometimes I wonder how everyone else is doing too. Did someone celebrate something today? Get a promotion? Or maybe simply enjoy their favorite food after a long day. Some people are at the top of the world, while others are barely holding on. We rarely know which is which. So, I guess, let’s be kind. Be the person we’d want to meet on a difficult day.

Anyway, that’s me. A 26 year old still figuring things out.

Nice to meet you.


r/chat • • 3h ago

Friends 👥 23F COME BE MY FOREVER BESTIE

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First things first, this is a ghost-free zone. I know its Halloween/spooky season, but i stand on business. No ghosting.

About me: I love to travel. I would like to travel more. But alas, I lack the funds to do so.

I hate cleaning. I dont enjoy it, im not particularly good at it either. BUT, I dig deep and will lock-in and clean when necessary.

I graduated university. First generation students rise up. I do have a degree. Am I using it? Ehh, thats debatable. But I do have a job. Bravo ilya.

Hmmm? I'm looking for someone committed to being my friend. And someone who can take a joke and banter with me. That is very important.

21+ ONLY. Please send a description of yourself. Thanks!


r/chat • • 4h ago

Chat 💬 23M NY - No Expectations, Just Looking for Good Conversations

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I'm just looking for people to talk to and pass the time with, and hopefully make some friends along the way! My only real requirement is that you be 18 or older. Other than that, I don't have any specific preferences or expectations. I'm happy to talk about pretty much anything and get to know all kinds of people. Some of my interests include video games, bowling, learning about history and biology, and watching anime. Whether you want to have casual conversations, talk about shared interests, discuss random topics, or just chat when you're bored, feel free to reach out! 😊


r/chat • • 8h ago

Friends 👥 28M - Distract me from work please?

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Middle of the workday and I. Am. Bored. I’m into games, history, all that nerdy stuff, I also really like just learning about things in general, so if you do have interesting stuff you wanna share, tell me all about it!

Above all I’d just like to chat be it long or short term!


r/chat • • 10h ago

Chat 💬 27M Let's have a friendly chat :)

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I'd like to chat with someone friendly. :)


r/chat • • 12h ago

Chat 💬 26M dunno what to play or watch

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Got the night off tonight and have had a maaaaad exhausting week. I thought Id make a post on here to kill some time and hopefully make a new friend

I’m a huge horror nerd. I could talk about horror movies for hours and just finished a playthrough of the resident evil series

I play a lot of games to wind down. Mostly single player stuff that I can really immerse myself in.

And I love exotic animals, creepies AND crawlies.

I’m a career chef so you know I can talk food hahahaha

Tbh I’m having a hard time figuring out how to kill some time, I’m a pretty social guy so I’d love to hear from someone! Feel free to ask me anything


r/chat • • 16h ago

Friends 👥 M26 looking to chat a bit drunk haha

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I’m from Wales I like the gym and have been going for over 4 years, as well as reading which im currently in the middle of 2 books at the moment, I’m also a fan of movies and music.

So feel free to say hi. When you do tell me something about you, I’d like to know what you’re interested in!


r/chat • • 16h ago

Friends 👥 M23 neurodivergent/introverted looking for friends

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Hiya I’m 23 years old and I’m looking for new friends my interests are internet culture, memes (let’s talk in gifs haha) anything horror related huge horror movie fan I love watching content about dark things that have happened on the internet! Also a huge gamer I mainly play Roblox, Minecraft and star dew valley I may not be the most talkative person and won’t always respond straight away but I’m a great listener. Feel free to message me as I don’t bite😊


r/chat • • 38m ago

Chat 💬 24f uk, looking to chat 🪱

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bored and fancy a random chat with anyone ! no huge preferences just be 18+ ofc

i'm really into reading, football, music, horror movies, and asking random questions until i know every detail about you (including but not limited to your pets, your favourite songs & your ideal subway sandwich)

pls hmu with more than just a hey 🌟🌟


r/chat • • 45m ago

Friends 👥 19 LOOKING FOR A LONG TERM BESTFRIEND(S) AGED 19-21YRS.

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All genders welcome and NO CREEPS

About me

Love books, voice calls, bible discussions, Writing, Poems- Arts basically Very much into walking, laughing and hanging out with friends. I’m very much direct and would appreciate if you are.

Please introduce yourself- Same or close timezone as mine |GMT+2| , Age, Gender, Name, Country, Interest


r/chat • • 1h ago

Chat 💬 M21 !.

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Bored!.


r/chat • • 1h ago

Music 🎷 Who else loves Classic Rock?

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r/chat • • 1h ago

Friends 👥 25F SouthEast US, Do you work in inside or outside sales? Tell me about your career!

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I am ambitious and I live to work. I am in between career roles currently and I wanted to talk to other like minded, motivated individuals. Let’s chat if you love what you do for work, and I'd love to hear how you got into that role. I work in the fitness field but I am looking at stepping out into construction supplies sales.

Love music, socializing, and reading. I love hearing thoughts, comments, advice, and suggestions. Love having my morning cup of coffee and getting tasks done.

I’d love to make long term friends and discuss our career goals.
Thank you!


r/chat • • 1h ago

Friends 👥 31M An Arab from the Middle East looking for friends

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I'm a 31 years old Arab from the Middle East, hoping to make friends

I'm into a wide range of music genres, really into tech stuff, and I love anime. Some of my favorites include Bleach, Hunter x Hunter, Jujutsu Kaisen, and the list goes on. I sometimes read manga and manhwa too.

When it comes to shows I like Breaking Bad, Ted Lasso, How to Get Away with Murder, and Suits. I'm also into gaming (we could play co-op games!), coding, and reading.

If any of this sounds like your vibe, feel free to message!